or have hair pulled. It turns me on to see them turned on, but what's with it? I suspect there are many answers.

Maybe it'll get me back in the game..

use the search feature.  under s&m put yes.  many, many ladies' profiles include the words "light spanking" under this category.

i've spanked all of my ladies.  it's how i roll.

Sometimes you just have to give them a good spank
on the ass while you have them bent over in doggie.
You would be surprised at the positive reactions.
More than you seem to think.