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newboyinca 20 Reviews 778 reads
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Several weeks ago, i learned i would have some meetiings today in a neighboring city. i contacted a provider with my requested time to meet as well as both references on TeR and P411.   After several attempts to contact her, going unresponded to, i finally heard back yestersday that today's appontment would work.  She also tells me that she prefers to finalize via cell.  To which I promptly call her and leave my number and the confirmation of date and time.   I get no reaponse.  I leave messages the mornng of and two hours before the agreed upon time.  Finally i get a text to my phone that says she has more questions and doesnt think we will have time to meet.   I ask her to just call the same number she is texting and she writes back she doesnt call until she feels safe.  Catch 22?  Wasted my time and free afternoon.

What to do.  And here's the real rub, she is one of only a couple very well reviewed providers in her area and has stellar reviews.  

Does this warrant a review?   If it was an outcall, i would rank it a no show.

JustLayingLow341 reads

Posted By: newboyinca
Several weeks ago, i learned i would have some meetiings today in a neighboring city. i contacted a provider with my requested time to meet as well as both references on TeR and P411.   After several attempts to contact her, going unresponded to, i finally heard back yestersday that today's appontment would work.  She also tells me that she prefers to finalize via cell.  To which I promptly call her and leave my number and the confirmation of date and time.   I get no reaponse.  I leave messages the mornng of and two hours before the agreed upon time.  Finally i get a text to my phone that says she has more questions and doesnt think we will have time to meet.   I ask her to just call the same number she is texting and she writes back she doesnt call until she feels safe.  Catch 22?  Wasted my time and free afternoon.

What to do.  And here's the real rub, she is one of only a couple very well reviewed providers in her area and has stellar reviews.  

Does this warrant a review?   If it was an outcall, i would rank it a no show.

This works both ways. If a provider finds communication difficult it might be worth not wasting time and just moving on... but also for you gentlemen, if you're having troubles in communication just skip it. There's many of us, like myself who love communication and knowing it's flowing with ease.

You can't review her unless you've paid her. I know you may feel bitter, but try to let go of that. Bitterness will only hurt yourself. But next time see the red flags at the start, and move away from them. There's a beautiful world all around us, no need to fix our eyes only on what complicates us. Look towards the open windows that happily invite you in

It could have been a number of things, who knows.  And you said she is well reviewed and has stellar reviews, so she's not new to the game.  Maybe you said or did something that raised her concern.  It could have just been a bad day.  Move on.

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