....to all of your observations.  What I typically assume whenever I read some dolt claiming that he "pounded away" or any other overly aggressive actions is that in reality he was completely impotent and couldn't even get it up. The review is his sad way of trying to save face. There is also some obvious anger in those kinds of claims. Makes you wonder about the not-so-thinly veiled misogyny there. That, along with all the other laughable parts of so many reviews, makes me disregard everything in them except for the very basic info that I care about - her  looks, punctuality, ease of communication....stuff like that. Just the facts, ma'am, tho even that info is suspect in exaggerated reviews. The sordid details are often cringe worthy and not even worth reading most of the time. Some guys think they are gifted writers. Pretty funny stuff, tho I'm sure that's not the reaction that they were going for, lol.

To mean “I’m a rookie”.  If you’re a grown-ass man you know better than to say some dumb shit such as that.  That’s up there with the “I didn’t want to share her” level of immature and silly.

As for the guys whose reviews are filled with pounding and face-fucking women until they gag and so forth, I take them seriously. I infer that these guys have some serious anger issues and were I a provider I would not see that guy after reading such a review. Just recently another player messaged me about a lady I had seen. When I read his reviews, they were filled with that shit. I deleted his message. A lady may choose to see him, but I’m not getting in the middle of that.

It is an overused cliché that may mean, treat her better than your wife. Be a respectful gentleman, follow the rules, be minty clean, and treat her as a person, your equal. Your reward is a memorable intimate experience.

I used the term in a few of my first reviews.
I was saying/thinking be cool with her and she'll be cool with you!
It came up on some posts about using the term and I got wise about how it sounds.  
Sorry I used it!

"Treat her right, guys."  Without that direction, I would or should not?  Or, I'd forget to be nice?  I suppose some guys need to be told how to behave in society, polite or not.  

We know from reviews some guys have said exactly or similarly, "I pounded her hard for 20 minutes and she took it like a champ."  Maybe those fellows just got out of prison or  sexless relationship.  To be sure, some females like it rough.  To each their own.  Some clients still feel like they own a provider for the time allotted because they paid.

Some guys are attempting to be nice or gentlemanly in a review and it comes off as silly.  It's far better than misogynist reviews.  Folks, treat your reviews right!

Thank you for saying this. We really need more clients with this mindset. Can't tell you how attractive it is....

10/10/2022 Wokedom hits TER Boards.
What is this 18th century London.
“Oh my Lord i saw a woman of the night yesterday where I gently caressed her lower portions until she asked me to use my hand on my own private areas until i felt a glorious sensation and quickly rushed over to the chamber pot and relieved myself.  
Grow up ladies and gents, i mean this is a site where men pay women for Sex and then review her like it’s a restaurant.  
Saying you “pounded away” is a perfectly accurate description of the sexual act when it gets intense. At this point in life i’m too old to pound away but I have wonderful memories as do many of my girlfriends over the  years of nasty wonderful intense SEX!!
And let’s put this into context, A LOT of sex workers didn’t end up renting out their bodies  because their life was so wonderful. I won’t guess at statistics but not every escort is having the time of their lives doing this. I’ve met some pretty damaged girls out there. Take the case of Penny Archer (check Boston boards) , according to her family she died from an addiction. So while she was getting paid like $1500/hr to allow so called “mongers” to softly and respectfully perform intercourse she needed to follow this with numbing herself with her “addiction’”
If you mongers REALLY care about these women maybe you should find out more about why they’re doing this and if it causes any psychic pain or are they happy.  
And finally i have heard things said by women during intense sex that is far worse then pounding away.
So grow up and find some real cause to worry about

I'll play the devil's advocate here and say that it DOES matter and unfortunately important to remind fellow hobbyists to treat providers with respect and care.

Years ago I saw a provider who'd done a handful of adult videos and was listed on a site advertising "pornstar escorts."  We had a great time and before I left I asked if it would be ok to book her again.  She said "I'd like that.  I'm really glad I met you."  Normally I'd have thought she was just being polite, but she then added "You treated me nice."

When I asked her "don't most guys?"  She responded in a glum tone "No, most treat me like shit actually.  They just want to act out their favorite porn scene."  She basically told me a lot of guys think shelling out the money gives them the right to treat her like a piece of meat.

I actually found it heartbreaking because she really did seem like a sweet person and a real "girlfriend experience."

I think this community is probably different because of the direct interaction encouraged among hobbyists and providers.  We in general probably approach things with an understanding that people should be "treated right."  Sadly, I don't think that is the norm, so I personally am fine with reviewers including that reminder in every review.

Saw a classic “treat her right” review from a Bellevue, Washington monger. Said that a KGirl complained about body odor from certain nationalities, so the guy asked Chinese and Indian mongers to thoroughly clean themselves before a date.