There are some provider who don't like texting but lots do. In fact, most I see seem to be fine with it. I much prefer it because the e-mail account I use for this does not give me an alert when I receive an e-mail. So that can significantly delay my reading it unless it is expected. Testing is great, I don't have to read it or respond right then. If I'm in a business meeting, no problem, I can respond after. Plus phone calls have that "need to answer now" feeling to them that I don't like unless it is urgent.
I prefer emailing to initially contact me since texting can be hard keeping up with everyone all at once. But after I have had the pleasure of meeting someone then I am ok with texting.
keeping it straight. I have received a few texts by accident that were meant for someone else. I always let them know the intended recipient didn't get it and they are always embarrassed, so emailing is better.
I read an article about some guys who were stung by police who raided a girl's apartment, took her phone and used it to answer appointment requests via text. The guys were cited when they showed up. For this reason, I'm always apprehensive about texting. I'd rather hear the girl's voice on first appointments (when LE check is necessary) and also on subsequent visits. I would not be comfortable texting even after I know her because I want to know it's her on the other end of the line.
...but they tend to utilize it after initial email introductions and after screening. All of my initial contacting has been thru email, and the day of the appointment is when the texts begin.
Safe and discreet Some guys do not have hoobie phone or Are not carfull with their phone.... I do not Want my information with wife's.... believe me shit Happens With e mail and is Worse on texting Never subestime women intelligence Cc
Posted By: Nightowl805
Or do they just view it as a time waiting activity?
It's been my experience that once I start answering text messages and open dialog with someone I have NOT met -- this is what generally happens:
What are you doing right now? What are you wearing right now? What color panties do you have on? How do you like it best? I'm horny right now, are you? Wanna have phone sex right now? What are you going to do to me when you see me? What are you going to wear when you see me? I have a big one, can you handle it because many woman can't. etc.
Not afraid -- many of us choose to save our good, sexual energy for those that we actually see and Not waste it on the Time Wasters.
That texting in excess of what is required to set the appointment amounts to time off the clock for the provider and that is why most providers prefer email.
Those bookers seem to also prefer texting. But I suspect a lot of these guys that wine on here about being ignored have done exactly what you said, over done it. It is usually not so much an issue with independents in my experience.
there is a different mentality between texting and emailing. When you email, it allows the provider to get to it on her own time when it is convenient for her. If you've ever been in a session where a provider's phone is chirping or lighting up from some guy impatiently texting over and over, then you know how annoying it can me. With texting I think customers tend to expect an instant response, whereas with email, they are more willing to chill until they hear back when she is not busy.
I think its apples and oranges and not the same, even though it is used for the same purpose. I think most providers would agree.
There are some provider who don't like texting but lots do. In fact, most I see seem to be fine with it. I much prefer it because the e-mail account I use for this does not give me an alert when I receive an e-mail. So that can significantly delay my reading it unless it is expected. Testing is great, I don't have to read it or respond right then. If I'm in a business meeting, no problem, I can respond after. Plus phone calls have that "need to answer now" feeling to them that I don't like unless it is urgent.
I'm honestly not a fan of text bombs or calls when I'm at school, out with my friends, or studying. That and providers can't really screen via text.
I never give out my number unless a date has been confirmed. I've actually been chewed out by a former client for being rude when I wouldn't reply to his texts because I was studying for an exam in a few days and we haven't even met. Another potential client was so damn annoying with his constant text, I had a nightmare I met him and he cried that I wouldn't text him back. :|
3-5 guys, (Or 10-20) texting sweet nothings to one lady = a LOT of texts for her to respond to. If she cannot reply, it doesn't mean she doesn't like you. It doesn't mean she doesn't appreciate you. It means she is OFF or simply cannot keep up with the amount of texts she is receiving. Clients need to recognize the fact that she is one person trying to reply to many.
Even if only a few different people are texting her, it can still amount to a lot of texts. First she needs to figure out who is texting her, and then reply if/when she can. If you are a regular client who constantly texts, it can become problematic for her. She doesn't want to offend you. At the same time, receiving a large amount of texts during her off time is not fun.
If she doesn't have the time to reply to a bunch of texts to entertain you during her off time, then so be it. There is no need to be whiny about it. Most guys do not want to receive texts out of the blue. Well, sometimes providers don't want to receive texts out of the blue either. Simple stuff.
Give half your contacts in Outlook your cell and tell them to rip you a text when they need something or are just lonely - Then see what happens to your productivity and organisation...
Once you cross that threshold to friend or let's just say very important client - then things become different...
...can also sour a provider on receiving texts. Some hobbyists just don't get it and start to abuse the "text privileges " thinking that the provider is his/her new GF/BFF.
Which get abused as bad or more than just texting.
Posted By: tankbinding
Think of your business life.
Give half your contacts in Outlook your cell and tell them to rip you a text when they need something or are just lonely - Then see what happens to your productivity and organisation...
Once you cross that threshold to friend or let's just say very important client - then things become different...
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