Girls that don't screen (in my opinion) are one of three things.
 
1) Newbies that don't know the importance of screening for everyones safety.

2)Girls with pimps or are rip-offs that just don't give a rats Ass.  

3) LE. They don't discriminate.  

I definitely agree that asking for DOB or even full name is over the top, but there are many ways to screen without having to get that much info.

Why would you ever go to a girl who doesn't screen?  As I have said before, be weary of the girls that don't screen.

Duffy

Here is my 2c on how I feel about screening.
I have been in this hobby since 07 and I have been with some great ladies. This included various levels of screening. I am all for screening ... but when a provider asks for your DOB along with full name; I draw line! Is it just me or others have reservations on this as well?

** may be  the provider should ready to provide the same if requested. - just a thought !

On a side note I am glad NFL season is on hehe!

Why not just top it off with SS # and address, maybe a copy of your birth certificate and some recent tax returns.....

Look, nothing wrong with providers doing good screening -- it is for EVERYBODY'S protection, and we, the hobbyists, should appreciated it -- but when it gets to the point that the providers seek to know as much as my ex-wife, no way!  RT Appropriately Paranoid & Out

A lot of providers / bookers like to have some info about your job, and some will call in and ask for you by name!  I had a decent job, but there were some overly curious secretaries with caller ID.  So when bookers would call in, the secretaries googled THOSE numbers and found links to cityvibe ads!   That was probably the most embarrassing incident in my life to be confronted by the boss with the phone records and copies of the ads.  LOL.  I can laugh now, because I actually got a better paying job, but I had nothing to say when I was obviously busted.

This is the way I see it.  We don't know their real names, dob, ss#, etc., nor do I want to know it.  I don't do screening period.  Only asking for trouble by giving out that info.  There are enough fish in the sea that don't do screening.

You wrote, "Why would you ever go to a girl who doesn't screen?"

Newbies cannot get through screening by girls who require references unless they compile a small list of references who have seen them and will vouch that they caused no problems. The easiest and most fun way to do that is to see girls who don't screen and then ask their permission to use them as references.

I suppose the other approach is to use a reference check service (or whatever they are called). But the way I am talking about is probably easier and definitely more fun for the newbie.

after a slight research -- found that a fairly well known agency has DOB as a required field on their screening form and when i looked at the available ladies list see that the provider  I was talking about belongs to them...go figure --- I am not sure if am allowed to mention the agency name or the provider name.....

Like one of you said -- there are plenty of fish in the water!!

Play safe

Recently, a provider asked for my home address.  I refused.  I consider this to be as invasive as date of birth.

Do you know how many people have such common names?  When doing a search on let's say... "John Smith" how many John Smiths are going to show up in your search?  If John Smith is a doctor... how many John Smith doctors will you find in a google search?  

Asking for DOB helps to figure out WHICH John Smith we are searching for, among the multitude of names that come up during the screening/verification process.  

Just my 2 cents... so don't murder me with criticism!  And please remember, if your filling out a screening form on a providers website... if there's no asterik next to the empty field, your not obligated to provide such information.  

Most providers don't require DOB... but its nice to know when your birthday is going to be so we can possibly plan something special!!!

sure thing

Screening is a must gentlemen.
We assure both parties safety when doing so.
I know many gents do their own form of screening before seeing a provider as well.

Part of the screening process is to build trust.
When asked to provide info, it's not only about specifics.
Why draw the line when someone is trying to create a safe environment?

How bad is it really to give up your DOB?
If you wanted my DOB you can have it.
We put our info up on a website for you all to see.


If I was a computer hack, I could find out anything, about all of you, at any time I wanted.




Peace.
Sage

Totally agree! If you don't want to be screened, then I don't feel safe, and you're obviously in much more of a rush then I'm comfortable with. And, besides what would you be worried about,we have no use for your info? I delete your info as soon as you're approved or not approved. I don't want it just to have it..it's to verify that you're safe period. Not to offend anyone at all..I understand it can be scary giving info out,but it isn't as though hobbyists have websites that we can go see who you are, who your references are and weather providers have felt safe with you. You get all of the info you need on our end. So, you know we are who we say we are, for the most part..I don't condone agencies who send a different girl then who you asked for..but other then that, you have much more info on us then we do on you. Just my opinion..

The screening process is for everybody's protection, and it is only a matter of how far a provider wants to take it and how far a hobbyist wants to comply.  Nobody is forcing anybody to ask for DOB and home address, and nobody is forcing hobbyists to provide these data.

If the hobbyist does not want to give the info to a provider who asks for it, he can move on.  To complain and whine about it is not only childish, but futile.  It's like complaining that the Porsche dealer wants more $$$ for his vehicle than the Kia salesman -- you may not like it, but you can't change it.  Ok, the analogy is not perfect, but you get my point.

RT Over & Out

I told an old friend, Asiana, when my birthday was when she asked in a conversation after I had seen her many times before my birthday. She hadn't screened me before I saw her, probably because my old buddy Bill Kyle told her she should see me.

I saw her close to my birthday and after the session she presented me with a huge piece of chocolate cake - my favorite - and sat and chatted with me for a long time. It was a very Happy Birthday!

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I provide my full name and DOB because I find that the girls feel a lot more comfortable if they feel safe which means much better bbbj's and all around good times...I've held back and the tension of the girls fear can make the session uncomfortable...as long as your not planning on doing something wrong to the girl theres really nothing to fear. I've never had a bad experience which the girl having my info...lets face it...anyone in your life can know your name and B-day...as long as she's not asking for my Drivers license or social we're just fine...what can a girl really do to hurt you if she has your birthday? Thats just silly.