I realize there's nothing genuine about having sex 15 minutes after first meeting someone, but I'd still rather save the cute names for a second or third meeting when it might seem a little more sincere.

I'm sure BigPapasan is right though, a lot of it is because you're often just a generic customer, and maybe the 3rd or 4th generic customer that day, so it's easier to call you sweetie than call you by the previous client's name.

Cute names aren't a deal breaker, but my preference is to not use them until a later date.

I second BigPapasan.  Those cutesy names only tell me that she doesn't want to make the effort to try and learn who I am.  "Baby" could be anyone.

Do you like when providers call you pet, cutesy or diminutive names? (Baby, honey, sweetie, etc.) Does it add to the GFE experience, or does it seem non-genuine? I generally don't use pet names for my clients, but I think I am going off of the assumption that it feels forced or somewhat disrespectful. Is this not the case?
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HD

but I love it anyway!  

Sweetie, cutie, baby, honey. They always sound good, IMO, when the are uttered by a beautiful girl.

If she seems sincere, I don't have too much of a problem with her pet names. What really counts, of course, are attitudes and, even more so, actions. She can call me almost anything, as long as she is driving me crazy with her lovemaking!

I don't use pet names either... seems forced and fake... but that's just me, maybe it comes natural for the other ladies that do.

I don't really like it myself because I know it is not sincere, especially with someone I don't see regularly.

When those names are used in the first phone conversation it ABSOLUTELY turns me flaccid.

give me the creeps!

......don't we fall into the same void, referring to them in the same way when we know that in reality their real names are different from their "stage" names? Ciao!

On how long you've known them and how close you are. And, even then..I don't generally do this either, but I feel it's on a individual bases.

xo-xo Aerial

Yes! On the phone is creepy. Immediate bad vibe. In person is not much better. What's arousing is using my actual name.

It doesn't bother me at all and I have never taken offence to it. I've seen a couple gals that started to refer to me by my first name after repeat visits. I always figured that pet names were part of the whole GFE experience.

being called "oppa" and "jagiya ("honey/sweetie" in korean) really makes me feel good.  makes it a better GFE experience.

different from nonkgirls who call me "baby" and "honey", which sounds like some cheesy BS...like im really seeing some prostitute and she doesn't remember my name.  no GFE feeling at all.

i got an email from a provider whom i hadn't met yet, with a cutsey name in the subject line.

i ignored it and proceeded further in the process, and the lady was even weirder as communication went on.  i eventually chose to not meet with her.

even by people that I work with.

I only notice that I don't care for being called a cutesy name with a provider when it sounds insincere or she's telling me something that isn't sexy, such as, "Speak slower, honey".  The honey part isn't needed.

These are some great insights, thanks for the opinions! I will continue to call my dates by their first names, preferably while they are buried in between my thighs.

Well if that isn't better than a sharp stick in the eye, I don't know what is.

I'm actually surprised, and glad, to see that others feel this way, since nearly every provider I've seen has done it (so I "accepted it") but it's always made me feel cheap and degraded.

It depends on the situation and the girl but if it is the first time I have seen someone then pet names like "Honey", "Baby" and "Sweetie" sound really cheesy and I don't like it at all.

Depends on the personality of the girl. If it come out naturally then I don't mind but sometimes it sounds fake/forced and that's a turn off.