Here is what I think, if you were the one who screwed up and didt follow through her directions, what do you think she would do???? I 'd say forget it and find someone els.
I tried and made 2 appointments with a very very highly rated provider who is on this board all the time, she stood me up both times. Now i would  not want to see her is she even offered to see me for free. ( not that she would do it)
Have some respect for yourself.

My thought is, you need a hobby phone. And it should never be anywhere near your wife. I keep mine at the office in a locked drawer, with a password lock on the phone. Anyone calls? No big deal. I'm the only one who ever sees it.

Flaky, unreliable, unpredictable providers. Isn't that the norm? Isn't that why we love them?  

I can imagine your mortification!  Jeepers!  I always assumed it was proper procedure in this industry to only call when a hobbyist says it's okay.  

If a hobbyist insist on talking to me before our appointment, "to chat before our meeting", I give a specific time.  I rarely give out my number until last minute.  But 50% of the time, my phone will ring not even ten minutes after emailing my number and giving a specific time.  That usually sends HUGE red flags for me.  I immediately cancel the appointment and block their number.  It's inconsiderate.  If the time I suggested was inconvenient for them to call, I think common courtesy, would be for them to tell me and give me some other options.  Now when they ask if we can talk on the phone, I ask what time would be good for me to call.  

Feeling your pain,
Laina

I would move on.  She have proven herself to be incompetent in a manner that puts you at risk.

Run Like Hell

That is so unprofessional and a safety risk for sure.. Like Floyd said " Run Like Hell! "

Don't understand why u guys stay in a loveless & sexless marriage.  Yea yea she's a good mother, good cook, blah blah blah, address your real problem and dump the bitch (your wife not the escort)

EOM

Sounds like a flake...surprisingly there are many....some with good reviews... Avoid with prejudice.