Which, without mentioning the name, yet, writing anything derorgatory about someone - But, having been dealt with a complete no-show, I believe the right thing to do is to get it off my chest, quickly -
After weeks of confirming, reconfirming, I decided to make an appointment with someone whose ad was initially on City Source, who had their own web page, but, who also had only one, very suspect review - Given the lack of information, it was a bit worrisome, but, the low profile and UTR made it interesting. There were  no phone calls (she didn't allow them) and the lack of reviews were a product of her request to not be reviewed (per her web page). All emails were professional, but very short and on point. After a cross country flight and full work day, I checked it and saw the confirming email, stating the exact agreed upon time and, asking for a room number when I checked in - I sent a reply email, and, followed the request.
Even though I had considered alternative plans, given the lack of verification, I decided to honor the commitment and be a gentleman. So what happened, is there is no communication, no emails and a complete no-show. Having learned the hard way (in LA), I decided to not try and scamble at the eleventh hour and went to bed. Early in the morning, I see bs emails saying, "I didn't hear from you", I couldn't reach you, your emails were in my spam (hah, hah!), and, I even tried your phone landline (back in your empty office on the other side of the country), even though I had told you there are no phone calls -
Once I vented how pissed off I was for the rude behavior, she emailed me to tell me to chill out, take a breath and, lastly, its my fault for not getting her references  (that were never before asked for), even though we had a fully confirmed date, set up by many weeks of planning.
So, a lesson unfortunately learned, but, unless prompted, I will hold off on naming the Provider. If asked, I will post it as a reply - along with her web page -

This isn't a provider worship site, it's a help me not get screwed over site. Sorry you got hosed but dude, get with the spirit of the website and give us the info this thing was created for.

Her response to me this morning was that, no shows are normal - and, I shouldn't let it bother me -



http://www.elitecompanionjolie.com

Thanks for the info. I'm wondering though.....why would she request no reviews while having a banner linking to TER on her main page?

maybe she was trying to get the benefit of the TER advertising. See her web page and you will see she requests no reviews. Anyway -

That is just plain rude and inconsiderate.  

I would expect better from a "higher end" provider

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Obviously, she doen't think there is any downside to it, nor any respect that is given to honoring a commitment.

The flake factor is too high. If you work through an agency or a trusted booker, this shit just doesn't happen. If a lady flakes out, they promptly find you an excellent substitute so you do not waste an entire evening. What happened to you is totally unacceptable. Thank you for providing the link to her website. It is good to know who the flakes are.

she goes by the name Joile Fleur and has a p411 ad, as well - Even more infuriating than not showing, is not emailing to say she's not showing, emailing confirming a time, saying she was excited to meet, asking for a room number, then just blowing it off - and, the next day, saying that my gmail was in her gmail spam, and I should just chill out - that sticks and stones type of bullshit -
Since starting this in 2006, I have never, ever written a negative report, even though we all experience them, however, its the lack of respect and disregard for politeness that nailed me this time -

http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=216850

Out-of-towners and first timers.  but usually they cancel at the last minute.  Understandable, as they don't know you, you will probably not repeat, and most importantly;  Someone better came along.  However, to be completely "Stood-Up" and treated like crap, well..... You did the right thing to "Out" her.

K-Girls get sick to. I have had a same day meeting set up with the booker cancelling later. Well renowned provider and not her fault. I had to cancel same day due to illness. Shit happens.

I have had it happen too. Except I went to the incall. Frustrating. TER should set up a provider "No Show" list

...everyone with respect.  She also is a firm believer in Karma and that what goes around comes around.  So she's got that going for her.

1.) K-girls aren't the only ladies who use agencies and/or bookers.

2.) The BIG difference is, they can line up a replacement lady very quickly. All you have to do is ask.

3.) Yes, shit does happen, but that is no excuse for what this lady did (allegedly). She didn't have the common decency to let him know she wouldn't be able to make it. That is some world-class psychopathic behavior. And it is all too common.

If she did not do this, I'd love to see her respond in this thread. I'm sure someone has made her aware of it by now.

It will "come around" -- when she turns 40 and no one gives a shit about her anymore. Karma's a bitch.

I am not defending her at all. I think it is total BS. The booker I used only has one top notch provider so there were no alternatives. I was able to reach another provider, however. (independent). Just saying it goes both ways.

You have missed the point. The lady didn't show and didn't call. You gotta call what it is. A no contact, no show and she deserves to be outed for the benefit of the Board.  You or I may not have seen her but this board is to benefit the members and I believe the post does that well.

i agree with leonlp...and we are only hearing one side of the story. i just visited her site, yea, she is SMOKIN hot and for a second i thought it was someone i know VERY well (but its not, CLOSE but not) i digress. if i came on here and was a little bitch about how lame LA guys are, that i have a constant stream of jerks who do THE VERY SAME THING and then the day before dont confirm, reply (that jerk didnt know he showed up on my gmail when he was active online - idiot!) you guys wouldnt like me NOR would you care. name and shame only in extreme examples. and hey thats fine. we see that as part of it. luke its nice to have the fantasy, hey, i get excited when i get a seeker that i'd totally lust after if i saw him on the street. I'm told i'm quite pretty, i like myself and i've got an amazing career outside of my other passion so i dont "have" to be involved in this world - i chose to because i know in some small way i make someones day a bit brighter. she may have different motives. am i wrong in saying that your ego is bruised because even though you can pay to have the high end girl she in fact didnt need you? if she seemed uninterested its because she found you interesting. she spells out what gets her off. she's honest. i get that. luke i'm sure there are loads of girls on here that would love to be paid what she asks AND they would actually be excited to spend that time with you. just shift your perspective a little bit.

On my first look at her site. You could do better than her. Site looks kind of new. Pictures are cropped face instead of blurred out.  So can't see her whole head. Makes it look amateurish. One picture shows asiatic features. Probably could find the same or better at the kgirl bookers. Worst thing I totally agree is that she gave no warning about the cancellation. Has no business in the "vip" provider tier.

The only thing you lost was a hard-on, and that's always temporary. But!  You walked away with at least a nickel, in your pocket.  Money saved!
The irony, is that some of us guys get pissed when a girl cancels, but when we cancel and don't reschedule that lady suffers lost revenue...  That could mean a car payment, or rent, the kids dentist or wost of all.... OMG  A Botox appointment. LOL
But a no call, no show always is distressing....  At least it wasn't a regular...

Another Escort with rude behavior. Not any new news unfortunetley. Some  are on drugs and have no remorse or feelings at all. Your just another JOHN. You might think they really like you but the only thing they like is your money. Sad but True. Dont take it personel. Find a real girlfriend.

Exactly -

Interesting how no providers have commented-

Is there a union solidarity around a very rude union member?

Simply put, she confirmed, confirmed and confirmed-then didn't show up and treated it like she didn't give a damn, nor did she care if I wrote her up as a no show, rude and someone to avoid - which is what anyone who reads this thread should do -

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i agree with leonlp...and we are only hearing one side of the story. i just visited her site, yea, she is SMOKIN hot and for a second i thought it was someone i know VERY well (but its not, CLOSE but not) i digress. if i came on here and was a little bitch about how lame LA guys are, that i have a constant stream of jerks who do THE VERY SAME THING and then the day before dont confirm, reply (that jerk didnt know he showed up on my gmail when he was active online - idiot!) you guys wouldnt like me NOR would you care. name and shame only in extreme examples. and hey thats fine. we see that as part of it. luke its nice to have the fantasy, hey, i get excited when i get a seeker that i'd totally lust after if i saw him on the street. I'm told i'm quite pretty, i like myself and i've got an amazing career outside of my other passion so i dont "have" to be involved in this world - i chose to because i know in some small way i make someones day a bit brighter. she may have different motives. am i wrong in saying that your ego is bruised because even though you can pay to have the high end girl she in fact didnt need you? if she seemed uninterested its because she found you interesting. she spells out what gets her off. she's honest. i get that. luke i'm sure there are loads of girls on here that would love to be paid what she asks AND they would actually be excited to spend that time with you. just shift your perspective a little bit.

to the 2 somewhat naysayers, politley, you are incorrect - Again, if there is a 6 time confirmation and reconfirmation, down to the exact time and location, then, the provider doesn't show up, and doesn't send any email to excuse herself and, after the fact, says, who cares, don't let it bother your day, chill out...well, this is just a completley, money centered, rude and disrespectful individual. It's not about her web site, reviews, blonde versus brunette, or other details. It's just a notice to point out someone who should be flagged as a no-show and, disrespectful person.

her response, was that she didn't feel any reason to aplogize, that she had  appointments cancel or no-show on her, that I should just relax and chill out -