OK BB.....Here is my $0.02 worth.

Given the uncertainty of how many shots on goal a provider will allow I would say that on a first date the provider should initiate round 2 to let the client know that it is OK.

If you reach over and stroke Mr. Happy and he stands up and salutes assume that he is good for a second round...if Mr. Happy continues napping then go into cuddle mode.

If the client is a repeat I would leave it up to him....unless you are still horny and you need more then go ahead and climb on aboard....I am pretty sure that he will be OK with it.

Not sure if I can get a 2nd pop, but don't like to ask you for it.  That's a great question, Brennan.  I'm gonna post it on the FL board for their responses.  Thanks for asking.

Swim

I don't mind as many rounds as a guy can handle but being aware of the male ego,  I am never sure if I should instigate it and then risk the glowy moment if he isn't up for it or wasn't interested in it.

How do you prefer this to be handled? Are guys shy of instigating another round and want the girl to give them the go ahead?  

Thank you for your input!

BB

I say instigate away lol... just teasing... was about to post something and saw ur thread. See ya soon!

I always like the girl to instigate, but not attack.   I've been with some providers who gently play, and lick and see what kind of response they get.. that works very well.   I've had others that all but try to rip my dick off in their aggressiveness to get another round going... that I don't like.  

I guess for me (and I bet other's may have the same opinion), it's nice for me to know the girl is interested in trying for round two, if I'm up for it.

I can only speak for myself, but one thing I like about the provider/client relationship is that I can forget about my ego. When I'm with a provider, I not trying to prove I'm a stud (which I'm not), just that I'm a nice guy (which I am). That means I'd rather have the provider instigate. I would rather say no thank you to a provider's kind offer than make a move and hear her say "that's not included".

Just my opinion, but if the intimacy and contact continues after round one, the guys body will probably speak for itself. If the entire mood continues to be sexually charged and their is a lot of sensual contact during the refractory period, even if he (I) can't get going again, I still enjoy prolonging that intimacy. I am certain that someone with your stellar reviews has the skills to tease anybody short of a coma victim back to life. And if you make it all about enjoying the erotic moment, he'll walk away feeling great that you wanted more, even if he wasn't up to it.

it's really a dance, huh?  A little nuanced gesture either way is a signal...I think that guys may be hesitant to error on the side of caution but that's just me.  However, if, on the other hand, the lady can handle the action, and she's up for it (almost pun intended) then a move on her part is generally well received by her male counterpart.  I wonder if I just made sense?  In the final analysis, it's a dance...someone leads, someone follows and then if you can...change partners and doe-see-doe!

DD

when she does, it tells me she's into it or she's a great provider or both. And the extra effort says, 'I want you to come see me again.' Contrast that with the lady that is OK with just talking away the extra time, she will not see me again.

If I really want a second, I don't hesitate to ask after a few minutes of conversation and I sense she is not going to offer.

There are times a lady starts to do something down there and I know I'm not going to have a second and I tell her. This has happened several times, and most try anyway, offering up something like, 'it's fun to try!' OK, go for it!!!

One lady who became my ATF, said on our first date, 'You don't mind if I try do you, besides, your cock feels so good in my mouth.' That was sexy as hell to me... and I popped a second time in a few minutes. There were no thirds, but she took that as a playful challenge... by then I adored her.

For me, it's these little things in a session that can be an unexpected turn on. It's what makes the difference - repeat or not again.

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I would say first, it all depends on the chemistry between you and the provider, I've have on a couple of occasions set records, one time 14 times and another 15 times in a single session,  the latter was due to I told the provider I did 14 times and she wanted to break my personal record..and all was done within 1.5 hours and these providers were independents, so to make the argument you probably would never get this with a provider whose with a agency whether asian or non-asian, unless you book more hours and even then there's no reinsuruance.  And of course, your physically sexually viral and your stammania is like Rambo..lol. I guess it's like the playing lottery I just got lucky those several times..

This is a great topic.  Personally I find that my mouth simply loves being on a cock.  If it gets hard again, We are ON!  If not, I'm perfectly happy cuddling with a cock in my mouth... I can even hold a bit of a conversation this way (although I have been pulled up to someone's side a few times!).  I go with the flow and try to not pressure anything either way.  Nothing good comes out of pressure to make someone cum again!  

I've never had complaints, but I do often wonder what the expected etiquette is.  Do men what to last the whole session?  Do they want a quick first and then a second round halfway?  I like p411 because it allows men to post a profile that will let me know what they like and don't.

I assume everyone knows MSOG is a given, just learned that term

I was asked in an email last week if MSOG was allowed, had to look it up and I said, of course!  Then I had a weekend date whose reference told me that he does tend to take the entire hour...20 minutes in we were past round one.  I guess I had premature ejaculation guilt over it and feel a little uncomfortable in the sense that I don't want to embarrass anyone if round 2 is out of the question for him.  

I did mean instigate!  I did I did!!  Thank you for the pic of Andy anyway, Mr. Editor!

BB

BB, nice to ask and interesting to see views. I'd agree with Gonzo and Vegas that a gentle hint or attempt is nice to know it is available (for a first date) and then we have the option if one is up to it. Sometimes yes and sometimes not.

As always, there is no one size fits all so I'm sure there will be various opinions. Like I said, thoughtful to put it out there.

Ciao.

You are amazing at instigating round two.  Your lips and your mouth is magic!!  Thank you again!

Personally, I am always up for round two, three, and most times four and five

IMHO, if a lady is defining herself as GFE (and the consideration is appropriate) round two is a given, even three, if the time permits.  A girlfriend doesn't count how many times she did it with her boyfriend, and that is the experience we are trying to go for.  

I hate to be in a situation where I am told I can only go one shot because its turns the entire experience to from a fun and and passionate to a "john" experience and demeans the girl; it makes her petty.

As for suggesting - when the lady suggests seconds I find it very arousing, and shows that she there to give and great experience and she is not dealing in pettiness.  

So, to conclude - Brennan, please feel free to suggest seconds, and bless your heart for having the natural intuition to think it is a given.  It what makes you (and a few other who think similarly) stand out from the rest.  

my own nature is such that the BEST woman (for me) will make my willie want more and more.  anyone else...not so much.  go figure.  great question.

gently playing with my cock, e.g., stroking it with her finger nails or light suckling or even kissing, as kissing almost always gets me hard.  That tells me she's game if I am!

As I get older, I know my chances of popping twice in 1 hour are slim.  But I sure as hell want to try!  

Obviously if I take too long for round 1 then it's useless to try to for a second pop.   I do like a subtle hint from the provider that a second cup is available if I can muster the will out of "willie."  This is preferred to me asking: can we go again?

I do warn my partner, I may not be able to cum again and "please don't take that personally it really is me and not you."  

Ah if only I was 18 again!  I'm no longer young, probably just as dumb, but definitely not full of cum!

I'm to pooped to pop, but the lady saddles me up for another ride, and to both of our surprises, I'm able to rise up to the occasion.

LOVe that Part that he mention



"""Remember we are paying clients...    We pay top dollar to be with women that really want to please us""""

LISTEN  DARLING
WE ARE Cheaper Then most girfriends  and wifes
PLUS LESS DRAMA
YOU BE IN fucking hell  without us

SO
BE NICE BE GOOD DARLINGGGGGGG

If you are HOT I can go round 2, 3 and 4.....If not....only round 1

This is for all those ladies that always wondered???

When a man sets up a date with you ask them questions.....Like

1.  Do you have a fantasty
2.  DO you want me to wear something special?
3.  What is your favorite position?
4.  Do you like to go more than one round then you are with a provider?
5.  WHere do you like to cum?
6.  Do you like oral or foreplay more than sex?
7.  Do you like to be teased?
8.  Is there a place on your body that really turns you on?
9.  Do you like to give oral ?
10.  Do you like to watch sex or masterbation?
11.  Do you like it when your partner talks dirty to you?

THese are just some questions you could ask via email to your clients.   If a provider sent me this....I would know that I was in for a good time!!!  WOW   She really wants to know how to please me and wants to know what I like and dislike...The session would be much better.  Remember we are paying clients...NOT A boyfirend or Husband.  We pay top dollar to be with women that really want to please us

In my experience the guys  let you know  up front  and sometimes they change their mind  but they just want  to know that option is available and if it can be done in the time frame booked and  for the money I am charging I say go for it!

First off, that is your opinion.  Not everyone wants to be asked something like that flat out.

And while that might be things a guy wants to be asked or not, do you not realize the legal implications of having that sort of conversation via email?   When communicating, you need to remember the golden rule of "paying for time and companionship."  

When I read his post I was thinking what freakin' planet is he from?

Very few providers would or should answer or acknowledge questions like that over email or the telephone.  Even after I've established a good relationship with a provider over several visits, I do not ask or engage in a conversation so blunt.  Unless she initiates it, I don't go in that direction.

I think the guy's trying to create an image of himself as some sort of super hobbyist who has dominion over the providers he sees.  

I strongly doubt they would view him in such a light and after reading his posts, they may think twice about seeing the man.  He's demonstrated a lack of judgment and discretion.

No way would I ask a guy anyone of those questions....Yes, maybe after we are becoming friends and have met a few times a flirty email is always fun.

But that looks like a menu in my opinion. If you like submissiveness from women there is nothing wrong with that but I don't think those questions are the Norm.

Xoxo,

Nat

Ditto!  I find it very arousing when the Provider initiates the 2nd round. and BB, you can start a 2nd round with me anytime !!!

-- Modified on 8/17/2011 10:28:07 PM

From my own experience, especially on first meetings, I love it when a girl instigates.  I can go all day and all night as long as there is an attraction (hopefully this ability will last forever), but I don't like to push on a first meeting because, even though this is a transaction, I tend to want to keep things loose and friendly.  So when a provider lets me know she is up for another round or two, it really helps put her over the top in my book, and definitely someone I'd like to see again.  So offer away girls.  If you are annoyed at a girl wanting to fuck you more, then why are you here?

yep
not good idea ask this questions  on e mails
 Do things .......with no evidences
specially in writing
CC

Good question.  I prefer the lady to give it a try.  If it doesn't work out, and it seldom does for me anymore, no harm.  I would feel a little embarrassed starting something I couldn't finish, but that's just me.

you just reviewed a lady and gave her a 10 for appearance - and yet you only popped once. This post of yours says 'If you are HOT I can go round 2, 3 and 4.... If not... only round 1

So was this 10 not sufficient to inspire more rounds... in which case, you might  need a 12, 15 or 20 to get the 3rd and 4th pops?  Just curious, cuz a 10 - once in a lifetime should do the trick.

Or perhaps, this gal answered your laundry list of sexual needs in an email???

perhaps you are posting drunk, as I do at times...

but I have some inside info and I can see your pointed negativity... I gave you the benefit of the doubt before but no more... you need to let it go and move on... not that anyone else would pick up on it, just try to let it go

'If not... only 1 round' ... roflmao - you just gave out a ten to a one popper.

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