I have had one or two over the years do this. The last one called me her ATF and would not give any references after she agreed to do so. I found out after a couple of girls let me know she would return any calls. I confronted her about this and she would ask about what other girls I was seeing and why did I need to see them. After all she was that good, according to her. She did give me OTC time, like whole afternoons of fucking, hanging out and huge discounts for weekends. I ended it after an especially horrible weekend trip. If your ATF is keeping tabs on you then I suggest you move on.

Have you ever experienced or felt that your ATF is disapprovingly keeping tabs on your posts, reviews or the other providers you see. Does she expect you to be monogamous while she turns tricks ? Does your ATF go that extra mile to keep you in place? 

Ladies, how do you feel about your longtime regulars seeing other women?

But in reality, she's a lot of guy's favorite.  It's a business she is good at.

I have regular gents that I see and I have no issue with them seeing other ladies.I am confident on what I provide so there is no reason to be jealous or track who they are seeing.I don't care he is not my husband or SO in this business every provider should know a guy will see other ladies.I never quite got the reasoning behind providers being upset that the guy who is a regular is seeing other ladies.

Jaydelee.... Varity is the Spice of Life!

Guys are always going to be guys so might as well share something good and we all get what we want and or need...with no strings!

Ginger is Spice and everything is Nice....is my Motto!

Just my 0.2 cents

From Ginger Spice

Could not have been said better! It's all about the variety baby

My ATF doesn't like it because if I hire someone else I am too broke to hire her.  She's broke all the time, because she doesn't do full service!  

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I get excited in a way! Is she hot?!? Do you think she like chicks?! Maybe we can double?!

Those are all the kind of questions I ask.

Its always been very odd to me when guys girls get weird when one of there regulars sees another provider.

There is so much Luv so go around.

I saw her a lot, and regularly. Sometimes a date got canceled and when it was by her, I canceled the next one- and would use that as a time to see someone else. Usually I got a P411 OK, which of course ATF would check and see it. When we got together again, she would comment about seeing the OK.

We would joke about it some... she even said it made her a little jealous. And it made for great communication - as she found out why I do what I do, and vice versa. She never blamed a cancellation on a 'kid emergency' again. So, when she needed to bump me, she always tacked on an extra 30 - 60 minutes to the next date.

It's fun to have a great connection with a regular friend. However, as some of the ladies have already said. Variety is definitely the spice of life. Enjoy all that LA has to offer.)

AND DON"T YOU FORGET IT!

"Well" said, couldn't be said better Adrianna!

L.A. is a big playground!

And "The World is my Oyster"

And "Frankie Goes to Hollywood"

    So,Let's do it!.............

           Everybody should just get along..... No strings attached,......

                      But with great friendships developed!


" Enough said"

I think it's great when my regular friends see other providers.  It is exciting to hear about and it also makes me happy to know that he is doing what makes him happy.  

In this realm, it is important to keep a level head and keep variety in there, otherwise you two might find yourself in something a bit more intense than either of you had anticipated.  That being said, when you form a great relationship with someone that variety also adds a little more flame and makes everything even more fun.   Jealousy can be a very sexy emotion if you explore everything is has to offer...

damn man.   its like some sexist BS.  if i see or even look at a girl they think im cheating!!!  and knowing my ID they freaking monitor it like the CIA and since they were kgirls i have to be extra careful!!!  i mean crap all the bookers monitor TER and whenever i book i have to check the number to make sure its not going to a booker thats friends with my girl!

and whats more BS...its not cheating if they work and have sex with their regulars and DFKs them and have orgasms with them. NOOOOOO...thats not cheating its just "work oppa" i have to have the orgasm so the client feels good making me cum!  well "f**k" you!!

Do you think they really care?  Let's not flatter ourselves.
What they care about is you coming back and paying your dues.

My lack of knowledge gives me enough knowledge to know that you have to post
under an alias. What are you hiding from.
It's like the old AAMCO commercial. Pay me now or pay me later but one
way or another you're gonna pay and probably pay more for the "relationship".
Let's see how long they stay around without the bling.

Mr. DB , why involve Muhammad Ali's ass in all this ,in his condition  does he have enough to deal with?

ain't I clever about how I say ali-ass instead of alias.  And I never grow tired of hearing all the Bravehearts chime in with that line about "hiding behind the skirt of an alias.  Now those are real men, although just repeating like that tired line like parrots and not quite clever enough to come up with something original.

And it finally dawned on me that even our "real" TER name is an ali-ass so I'm going to follow Ochocinco's example and legally change my name.

It is a mistake to give your alias to any provider for a number of reasons, and I never do.  How can you give an honest review if the person knows who you are?  That's probably one reason why reviews are generally inflated.  Second, why leave a trail of your encounters on the web, where it would be easy for any number of providers to connect your real identity to your, um, activities?  For many of us, publishing that info on the web would not be a good thing, and you would have no way of tracing the disclosure to the source.  Yes, I understand that giving out your alias helps you get in the door.  But it's not worth the cost, imho.  When a new provider asks me for my TER alias, I say I'm not on the site.  Just my view...