I just got back in the business after taking a long sabaticle ... ugh any advice ? screening ? I had such amazing clients back then and now just feel like its hard to connect with people these days and scary ..I hate the thought of taking money up front , its trust and i dont want to see anyone I  cant trust , i saw someone tonight , figured he would pay me no questions asked and of course he pulled i forgot my wallet .total bullshit !!! my fault , lesson learned ...this makes me more nervous that there are idiots like that out there . any nice guys ?

First off where are you advertising that you are attracting the type of Johns that would pull that BS? Regarding your question, first get the provider limited VIP membership on here. Then use the White List, it will assist you in screening. Join the PO board once you can. And I and the providers that I have either met or referred to P411 all have had good experiences. Of course nothing is 100 percent so always screen…screen...screen and follow your gut. There is also Date Check, I used to be a member but I found they do not have as a well run organization as P411, but that was many years ago. Perhaps that has changed. Nothing will beat speaking with references to get an idea of how we are in the session. As far as nice guys, what you want are decent johns, those that will not forget that this is a business and that do not forget their wallet and are clean. Build your regulars and treat them well. Good luck and maybe let us know who you are.

It's sad to hear that you were taken advantage of like that.  LESSON LEARNED, Unless were friends donation always comes first.

All Very Good Advice...

and always remember - this is business. no envelope no play. any guy who flinches at that is a guy you don't want to see.

Thank you for everyones response . yes , I felt a little violated , however i learned my lesson . I am too trusting . I didnt expect that from him .. when he left , I am sure he felt worse then I did . I am just glad I am safe and will be looking for another location other then my private space home to work from . Thatmall i thought attracted better people . however you can never be too trusting or careful ...

 That mall is where I advertise . normally I only see nice professionals . this was a first and totally unexpected . I am going to join p411and roomservice 2000 . what is the white list ? thank you for all the advice . I am just glad I am safe . It could happen to anyone ...