For me, I love giving pleasure.  Granted, I truly believe that it will be reciprocated, and that's the essence of this reply.  A turned-on women IS a turn-on.  Getting her to that state of excitement can be a hit or miss exercise. depending on her response, or lack thereof, to various stimuli.  We (some of us)  usually adjust to the feedback.  Sometime we get it sometime not.  Sometimes we just get tired, trying to figure out what works, and just move on (cum on)..  Many ladies, are very subtle, in communicating what the like.  Some do it with moans, groans, squirming (assuming she is not faking...Yeah Right).  But, when with a women who knows what she likes and gives direction, a home run is usually guaranteed!  Follow by plenty hot HOT luvin'.  
Not to sound cliche, but I guess the key to any relation, even the 60 min. ones, is communication.
Cheers!!

you were a great leader

Never forget my time with you, it was a great 2 way... =)

Mingdoy

I'm the first guy to stop and ask for directions or for information.  I look at it this way....If I need info to get me somewhere faster I'll stop and ask.  I;m not sure why guys are labeled this way...I gues some are wired different.

The only way we will learn if you tell us how you like it.

BTW Carla....

You give better directions than Google Maps!!!

I don't mind at all when I am given suggestions as to how to please...why should we have all the fun?  It's not like we don't learn a thing or two that we can use at home.

Tell me everything you want and need Carla. I love it

Love directions

And I take directions well...........
Especially during oral sex. A girl that knows her own body well enough to know and share what works for her is a huge turn-on in itself for me.  Though one may actually might know what they are doing on their own. But a little direction — spoken, moaned, nudged by body movement, whatever (with out acting, which is a total turn off) — that might allow one to take something that’s already working and send it over the edge? That’s hardly backseat driving, so................. — give me those keys and let’s going.

Direct away!  I prefer a woman who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to let me know it.  

Now, that's different than "you're doing it WRONG!" but you get my drift - the more I can satisfy you, the hotter it gets for me, the more I enjoy our time together.

That's why repeats are so awesome - once you're over the awkward first moments and you've got some history - it becomes amazing!

With a hot babe like you, who needs a GPS?? EOM

EOM

DATY the right way!   I love directions!  Civi girls have said " SOMEONE TAUGHT YOU WELL!!!"  
The more feed back the better!
And during doubles......someone needs to be the MAMA!!!!!!!
I Miss you MIA BELLA!!!!!!!

and giving instructions, by both participants, increases the odds!

I still have my eye on you!  

if it makes you have a good time with me i'm happy to go slower or faster, higher or slower, softer or harder...

One who isn't afraid to say exactly what and how he likes things, isn't afraid to say the dark things that swirl around in his mind, one who knows how to walk the line between being respectful but very open about his needs...  *That* makes for a hot date!  

I love a guy that can be politely direct about his needs and wants. It makes it so much more fun rather then guessing am I going to fast or to slow or whatever.

Love you girly! You rock!

Xoxo,

Nat

Anyone who doesn't want to hear from his partner what she
likes is just one lousy lover. I understand that this is a service business
and the service is supposed to be for us but if I can make it better
for my partner then she will want to make it better for me.
Just ask some of my white list referrals.
I'm sure there are clients who you just can't wait to get rid of due
to their lack of communication and inability to at least try to satisfy you.
I want to know everything that satisfies my partner and I'm willing to
do just about anything she wants. Maybe more than just about. LOL.

It's getting warmer... warmer... warmer.... now it's hot, Hot, HOTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT!!!!!

That's my weather forecast for this week Carla (lol)

It's not what you say its how you say it....Talk dirty to me (wink wink)

I Love it when a woman takes control of her own pleasure!!!

Carla I have always apprecited your directions when it comes to making sure that you achieve the maximum Mamma Mia!!!! I love and I live for a woman's orgasm....The more O's you have the happier I am so I really enjoy being with women that are as focused on their pleasure as they are on mine.

I say keep directing!

Any suggestions/directions that helps me give you ladies more pleasure simply makes the experience that much better for both of us. For me, it's just as important to give pleasure as to get pleasure.

I'm much better at taking requests than reading minds, especially when there's no blood going to m

brain!  Like most men, I'd gladly do whatever it took to please my partner if she'd just give me a hint as to what that was.

Is talking really filthy, dirty, dominant considered "directions"?

Most every time I request a provider to give the verbal directorial impetus wished they strangely become shy or uncomfortable talking that way.

Giving me some instruction let's me know the woman is also into it.  As long as the session does not become about her, I think that both parties having a good time is lovely.