I had my first unexpected BBFS and CIP session last night and Im now feeling very paranoid... seemed like a good idea at the time lol... #nervous #anxiety
doesn't even matter. BBFS or any other pussy to penis activity like camel slides can spread an STD. The girls who are doing this have an occupational hazard. For the mongers, it can be a life-changing disaster, especially if they are married or have a SO.
Yes, when I used to do this many years ago with UTR girls, I caught bacterial STD's a few times. I just notify the girl and put myself on the bench until the antibiotics run their coarse. I stopped doing this about five years ago when a local monger friend caught Genital Herpes, which is not curable, but can be treated. He gave it to his wife and his marriage ended. He actually posted on this board what happened and said he was out of the hobby now that he had an incurable STD. TER mods allowed it to stay up for several days before taking it down.
What put me off, besides what happened to my friend, was the realization that I was depending on Mongers I did not know to do the right thing if they became infected, IOW, bench themselves out of the hobby until they are cured. I grappled with the question of whether it was smart of me to trust random strangers to put the health of other hobbyists, not to mention providers, above their own interests in having as much sex as possible. I decided it was lunacy to expect that, and I have not had BB sex with a provider unless we are involved in a real-life outside relationship, which means I don't pay her for sex. Just like any other "open-minded" civvie relationship, we only go condomless with each other. She requires a condom with her customers and I use a condom with other providers I see.
Great perspective Mr Coeur! i got her to dip the old boy in a cup of alcohol disinfectant at end of session. it stung like fuck but hopefully killed any bacteria attached. What do you think? am I safe or will the bacteria still spread (if any) was present?
I was always against the BBFS service for many years. I wasnt even expecting it during this session but in the heat of the moment it felt great. Right now it feels unforgiving.
I guess its a nervous waiting game to see what comes about...hopefully nothing...
With the incidence of COVID spreading faster in LA and the rate of a symptomatic carriers as high as 20% you are much more likely to be infected by sharing the same breath space for 15 minutes than you are to catch an STD from one exposure to BBFS. Being in the older demographic, the risk of death from COVID is very real.. as for the STDs ..even HIV is now treatable.. With the increased spread of the virus this week I have put myself on the bench. I would advise all providers and clients to get tested. Though not perfect, this would give us all a better idea of where we stand to assess what risks we are willing to take.
I myself personally go to the Dr. after every encounter. I do not play much, but like to keep my risks low. My health is important as a single Mom, so is my safety.
The fact is that many providers don't give a fuck. They don't know they have infections because they do not care for themselves by visiting the OBGYN on a regular basis. SW are more at risk of catching STD's, so they should be seeing a Dr. more, than once a year, or quarterly, depending on how active they are daily.
If you know STD facts, then 1 in 4 have the herpes virus. I am surprised the post was taken down. More power to the monger who took himself out the hobby community. I am sure some providers are still working under these conditions. Integrity & common sense are not, so common. Professional courtesy is hard to find. Happy hunting!
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