Being a newbie wanted to get your thoughts on this. I had set up a time with a provider and was told to call at a certain time. When I called I got her voice mail left a message and sent an email, the next day she textd me with no apology or reason about the night before. She told me she could come out to see me but it would be an extra hundrend. Thoughts was I being scammed ?

Second, consider yourself lucky she was a flake, because you were probably about to get scammed or ripped or upsold....

Third, if she has no reviews, WHAT WERE you thinking...?  Never see a provider without reviews until you have gotten a few -- maybe 10 -- sessions under your belt and can start to think on your feet.....

RT Urging Caution & Out

I saved a one time client (I was his first, aw)  when I got a ref request from a girl with 3 names, 3 or 4 ads and a few different email addresses.  Sure enough the girl that called him used a different name than the girl he thought he contacted. He canceled with her and I introduced him to one of my girlfriends....last I heard they were in Napa.

The moral of the story:  Meet some reputable girls and ask if they can refer other girls for a little while until you learn to spot a bad deal.  I can glance at an ad now and know what's what, it comes with experience. Most of us girls are friendly and will help keep you safe. It affects us all when you get into trouble.

PLAY SAFE!!  Go read the rip off board to see some of the horror stories that can happen, it's not pretty.
BB

Of COURSE you were being scammed!  You're lucky you didn't see her.  I guarantee if would have been a bait and switch, or a total rip off with no services provided.  She would probably have shown up and after you got going said, you have pay more for that, or she would have said, let me give my "driver" my money and I'll be right back. Woosh!  Gone.

Spend more time on the newbie boards, read, listen, and learn.  Don't go calling some unreviewed gal.  Get information on a girl, people post "have you seen this girl" threads all the time.  Learn how to use Google Image Search and/or Tineye.  It if looks to good to be true, it usually is.

After I got robbed twice, I gave up on BP (Bullshit Pile), and finally decided to become a member on TER.  Best move I ever made.  
Maybe I will write about my experiences at some point.  Live and learn!  I can now spot a scam artist from a mile, and when I do that, I walk the other way.

Getting burned is bad, getting scammed stinks, but getting hurt -- a real possibility with scam and burn artists -- is terrible, and the only time you will get hurt is from taking UNNECESSARY chances.  Stick to reviewed girls until you get your sea-legs....  RT O&O

Listen, you can actually find real finds on BP.  But that just comes with experience, feeling out the situation, talking to the girl, etc.  I have some some real gems through it.  But for the unseasoned hobbyist, best to go with reviewed girls and you can test the waters via other avenues as you get more experience.  You should write about your experiences NOW so some other hobbyist doesn't make the same mistakes you made, that's what this site is about.

Yeah, I am thinking that I should write about it.  Most of BP is white noise, and only occasionally you will find gems.  I in fact found one and I see her maybe once or twice a month.  She's a sweet, awesome gal.  I've sort of dealt enough with people in this business, that I can spot a scam early on.  Do I regret getting robbed, well yes, of course.  But thank goodness I didn't get hurt.

I began , it would have provides a lot of please and saved me time , load of $$, indignation and the humiliation of being royally screwed ( for lack of better word) over and over again.

Heed the the advise of the wise and you save yourself pain , humiliation and your hard earned $$$'s.

If they don't have them and I don't mean just one, FUGGEDABOUTIT.
I always look at the reviews and who is doing the reviewing and
I never go wrong. If you're smart about it you will have a great
time with some great girls.  If you just want to gamble you may get
burned. Just read some of the "ripoff" reviews.

if you have to ask, I think you already know the answer. Listen to your little voice...

Commoin sense please, I cannot under any circumstances think of a reason to leave a client waitng, now I have slept in on a 830 am call once, and I have had transport delays, flights etc, but always you call or text, To charge an extra $100. Pack your little bum and rn. I mean really , its just silly. I pride myself on reviews, yes im not always perfect , I like to think I am but I do my best. Its your money you need to expect professional service

of course give her fake address and don't answer her calls...  

I don't know, but I think you are kind of perfect.  YMMV