I used to get email from affluentconcierge.com (i only used them once); they seemed to have sister sites: privateencounter.com and blackbookdate.com

Now that you mention it, I noticed I no longer got notices from affluentconcierge. however, blackbookdate.com seems to still be there. Is this the lady? at http://www.blackbookdate.com/tiffany2.html