sampletaster, I feel posting her name would be inappropriate. I don't want to get revenge or hurt her, I was just so surprised, I was looking for advice. she actually told me because of my reviews she was cancelling. pm me.
I write reviews of my experiences with providers that are honest impressions. Thought it best for my fellow hobbyists. Plus I've gotten nice notes from providers who I've raved about. Today a provider I haven't met yet cancelled an appointment due to my reviews, which was a surprise. Are we to soften our reviews for fear of backlash?
Just as you are . Hopefully it wasn't a short notice cancellation . Just move on , I'm sure she will
If she canceled at the last minute or close to it, then that kinda sucks. Don't really know the timing of this. Maybe a bigger fish entered the pond $$$$$$.
I'd say call her out but I'd get flamed for that....lol. Shit, PM me......
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I'm not wk'ing for her, but poor reviews are bad for business. I didn't read your reviews, but I looked at them. Not sure if you're a tough grader or what, but she doesn't want to take a chance on you. Just move on.
I looked over your reviews at first they looked pretty low. Then I thought I'd look and see how they compared to how others rated those same girls, yours seemed pretty on par with most except for one that was low and one that was high. So I'll say that you seem to be a fairly reasonable grader. Not sure who you were planning to see but if she was someone with an average score above what you usually see she might have been concerned.
Scores at some level are a chicken and egg thing. We are more likely to see a girl that scores well than not, assuming all other considerations are the same. The girls aren't stupid, so if we care about scores, so do they. It's a business and like any other business if accepting some work will lead to a future loss of work, would you take it? Of course not, it's no different here.
Most of my reviews are positive because, while I've seen a fair number of women, I tend to only review the ones I like. The only time I write less positive ones are when I have an experience that makes me wish someone had warned me. I'm a paying member so there's no bonus for me to write reviews, but I try to be honest in what I write because I want to give back to those who wrote honest reviews that I used and appreciated when deciding to see someone.
I'd encourage you to remain honest with your evaluations and not let one bad experience deter you.
*edited for clarity, typos and punctuation
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But some ladies won't look past his page at those he's reviewed. Even if they did, he seems to see a lot of lower scoring ladies, so if he was trying to see a "high end" lady (whatever that may mean), she may not think they would be a good match. So it may not just be a scoring issue.
why would someone see women who scored so low, to begin with, or who did not score fairly consistently high.
you tend to see providers who already have low scores and it looks like you are the bad guy.
thanks to all for the feedback. It is helpful.
Just from looking at your reviews and scores I can see why some providers would not want to risk getting a low score. Try to research more before you book your next one so you will have a better chance having a good time and have higher average review ratings.
I am not saying to stop being 100% honest in reviews because that is what this site is for but your scores that you gave out over 10 reviews are really low.
Good luck!
I think your low scores are hurting you!
did some math of the 9 girls you scored and your average in performance is a 6.
your score on looks is a 6 as well
it looks like you have just had a hobbying lesson lol.
good luck for future adventure
Sx
With the way donations have been inflating and 10/10s as common as penny candy it is obvious which choice many are making. The rub is that the penny candy is costing hobbyists Hundred Dollar bills.
actually i'm just yanking your chain, ghost.
what i wanted to add is that captainlinger is either a guy who tends to rate low (i'm a guy who tends to rate high, so i have nothing to say about that), or else he's had the worst luck of any hobbyist here.
if 9 out of 10 of the ladies i saw were only a 6, i'd rethink my approach to research.
captain, i'm not saying don't write as honestly as you can. but i'd try to re-evaluate what i look for in a companion, how i go about finding them, and how i am when i'm with them.
the alternative is do what you do and let the chips fall where they may, even if they fall on cancellation because girls don't want to risk a low score.
safe hobbying to everyone!
Unfortunately a lot can happen before a session that reflects on a provider and TER does not allow posting a review unless you have seen a lady. So please tell so your fellow hobbyist has all the facts before making a decision.
sampletaster, I feel posting her name would be inappropriate. I don't want to get revenge or hurt her, I was just so surprised, I was looking for advice. she actually told me because of my reviews she was cancelling. pm me.
I can share anecdotes as lessons learned.
I once recommended a guy to a provider. He has good credentials, many reviews & 7 whitelists. He got back to me and said that he was rejected, and wondered why. Later I found out from the provider that she dared not risk any dispute over his idiosyncrasy of squeezing nipples.
A kgirl told me that she saw a guy of certain race once but never any more of that race. I said why, it's kind of blanket discrimination. She related her bad experience. The guy insisted on anal, and said the booker said it's OK. She said no, and offered to give back the money. But the guy tricked her into doggy & raped her. She later complained to booker who said the guy told bald-faced lie.
It is not worth the $$$ to bring their scores down. Not saying that this is what is best for you brother hobbyists but it is the way it is. I had one provider threaten to contact an SO if I didn't give a high score. I didn't review her as I don't need that mess. I have met some providers that in no way deserved the scores they had. I hear it is worse in the smaller markets. I put a post on the Phoenix boards the other day and was warned of the overrating that goes on in that town. They guy that warned me was from LA and relocated.
Any guy who is handing out 5s can bring her score down.
I don't believe we owe anyone anything. I don't owe my "bros" reviews or any info, since I pay for my VIP.
And I don't owe any providers reviews, to speak nothing of giving nothing but positive reviews.
Just realize that when you publish low scores, you give her a legitimate reason not to see you.
hello ter peeps
there could many reasons that the providers cancels the appointments.
alley
xo
Alley-Sid, she did tell me it was because of my reviews.
that's what she said!! (ba-dump-dump!)
I would say as I was reading the reviews the low scores is why
maybe try some mature ladies -----
I know I have passed when I see reviews with low scores given
make me think he may be hard to please or he's going to pick me apart in my reviews
it does happen ..
Just my 2cents
Gin