So I had something happen the other day that kins blew me away and was kinda funny at the same time. I'll try to keep it short. I had been going back and forth with a lady from another site about a date.  This has gone on for a couple months. She actually canceled twice on me pretty much  an hour before the date both times. I get it life happens and clients can't ask for deposits like the ladies can lol. Anyway we are going back and forth a day or so ago on a meeting day and time. It comes up that I have some time restraints cause of home life. It comes out that I'm married and the next message I get is. "Your lying to your wife YOUR MARRIED i don't think we are compatible to meet". Huh!! Your an escort it's kinda what you do. I would think its a large part of any of you ladies client base is married guys correct me if I'm wrong.  She's not new and has been around a while. I get it she didn't want to meet and thats fine its happened before from time to time just come up with a better reason. Hey tell me straight out I don't want to meet lol. Anyway so ladies how many of you have issues seeing married guys now I'm curious.

But a lady can set any rules she wants about who she sees. Over the years I can remember 1 lady specifically telling me I "shouldn't be doing this" back when I was married (not your decision to make lady), and another who was "surprised" to find I was married (really?).

I've found many more ladies who prefer married guys because they're less likely to start thinking the provider is a girlfriend.

complaining about girls that don't see married guys.
I've heard some don't want to see black guys. Yeah that was from bp and some of the girls were black themselves.
Somebody asking if he might have been exposed to Covid and the provider don't want to give pre-appointment money back.  
I go to cheap apt. girls.  NO background checks, no upfront money. When I'm by the door I call them and say I'm here let me in. Yeah, I might now the place. But if I don't know me, same thing. I call they tell me to get close to the place and call again. MP's you just walk in.  
Just like they won't put up with stuff, which is good and agreed and approved. Same thing here.  

ABout that girls holding the pre-appointment money: "Sorry, it was a negative positive OK. We still on? Ok, I'll see you there".

And many are in marriages without regular intimacy.
Providers we fill that void seems a little odd that kind of response from a provider.
But her choice I suppose to only see single guys.

Yeah it did seem kinda weird to me and this was after many many correspondences we had. I get it not everyone is compatible I never hold hard feelings if someone doesn't want to meet for whatever reason. We all have choices in this no big deal just seemed like a crazy thing for someone in this line of work to say. Anyway I see you are coming here next month. I would love to meet you if you have time.

prefer married guys.  They tell me married men are more reliable, more appreciative and less demanding. That makes sense to me because men with more responsibilities are usually not flakey.  

 
I hope she sees the irony in a sex worker claiming moral superiority over a customer.  LOL

RIGHT!! I didn't get it but whatever there are many other beautiful ladies out there to see.

A booker insisted I see an adult film star in her "secret" list.  Now this was back when I had this thing they call money.  She gave me the address and I rolled out to somewhere deep in the valley. Her apartment was a nightmarish mess, which when she opened the door, cigarette smoke spewed out.  

She greeted me in underwear, and obviously tipsy, if not totally wasted. The first omen.  

And a cigarette in hand. For former smokers, old smoke is really ugly. But I'd  seen her clips, and wasn't expecting a romantic evening in Paris.  

We chatted a bit. She played hip hop REALLY loud.  Second clarion I should leave.  

In conversation she told me about her ex husband, which is why she was in the business. Opened a can of tuna and ate it directly out of the can with a fork. (At least she used the fork). Strike three. I started texting the booker to get me the fuck out of the room, when the porn star asked if I was married.  

Of course, I answered, aren't most men my age who are playing this game?

Then she launched into a rant about her contempt for married men who cheat. This from a porn star whose ex got her in the business.    

I slammed down half payment on the kitchen counter and told her I was leaving. She expressed outrage I would leave.  

In the car I called the booker and told her she owed me big time.  

She made up for it later with a hot as shit spinner who graced the business for about three years.  But that one's another story. And worse.

in a brothel scene of Boardwalk Empire series the madam says to the younger new girls.    "if it wasn't for married men we would be out of business!"  

I did come across a provider once who had a policy of not seeing married men....very strange.  Plus all someone has to do is say they are not married.  It's not really any of her business.  

Yes I completely understand it's her choice who she sees . I'm not disputing that at all and that's cool. I've been around here a while and like you I've had some tell me the same thing I shouldn't be doing it but she still took my money lol. It's just the first time I'd ever had a lady refuse to see me because of it. Also the way she did it after several email and 2 canceled dates that she had to cancel. Just seemed odd I think there may have been something else I don't know. Just kinda weird to me.

If somebody is a professional provider they shouldn’t really be getting into your business at all I once asked a provider if she sees a lot of married guys and her answer was I don’t know because I never ask .that is how providers should be

Most men I know are married & I respect their privacy.

Most of my Clients are married which is precisely why they're visiting me!
They want hot fun which their Wife has stopped providing in the marital bed.

As long as a gent is reference verifiable, respectful, and kind, I care not whether
they're a "swingin' single",  betrothed, or married.  

xo  Angelina Jones