Hey all, I'm having a very hard time coping with the loss of an ATF who quit the business without a trace.  I wish she would just talk to me one more time but she's gone radio silent.  

I really liked this girl.  We shared a great connection.  This truly sucks.

Get out there and try to find a new spark with someone else. Or revisit an old fling and see if maybe there's something there more than you realized. Or hold out - some ladies leave and come back. Chin up!

with all of the 10's you've given, you would already have the next one lined up.  

Seriously, its the nature of the business.  Didn't Hymen Roth say, "This is the hobby we have chosen?"  You take the good with the bad.

Get over it dude, these girls don't give a f##k even if they made you feel like they do. Just keep your head up and go slay some bunz. Endless supply and women out there.

Yeah, it's time to jump back in.  I also recently got close to a girl I met at work, we had amazing chemistry, then she dumped me for a drug dealer.

All the women in my life slip through my fingers.  My life is a rose that is losing its petals

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"The best way to get over somebody is to get under somebody else".

Goldie certainly knows what she is talking about!  Move on!

Thank you for that insightful response.  I'm going to frame it up on my wall where I can read it every morning when I wake up.

Again, thank you so much for taking the time to respond.  Your infectious knowledge and list for life is unwavering.

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LAMENT OF THE FORLORN JOHN

What to do?
What to do?
Whatever shall we do today?
The girl we paid
To suck us off
Has up and gone away!

She told no one!
She left no clue!
Oh whatever
Shall we do?!
The girl we paid
To suck us off
Has up and gone away

what's first on that list?

is my kiss, my kiss, on your list?

Your moms stale vagina  

so witty!  so erudite!  so mature!

You can put down that thesaurus any day now

Replace the word "do" with "say" in your 4th to last line and it would be perfect

Still, solid work

LOL - thanks, needed a giggle

the best way to get over a girl .................. is to get over another  

a Kgirl?   If so, then I know where you're coming from.  Just noticed my favorite of all time just up and vanished.   I realize that they come and go, but sometimes  a girl has that specific look that makes your heart flutter.   I felt a little bummed just like you.

Those of us that have been in this hobby long enough have lost an ATF. It is the nature of the hobby. You have to recognize it while the ongoing encounters are happening and really enjoy the connection.  

The men here are fortunate to be able to be involved in this hobby for a long time - this hobby should not be a career for the ladies.  

But the sheer enjoyment of finding a possible new ATF!