Men, What's Something You Wish Women Did More Of?
Ladies, What's Something You Wish Men Did More Of? Lick Lick, AshleyI would wish that women took the lead in initiating bedroom activities more often.
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If you show up with handcuffs, and ask her to put them on you, she will know you're feeling submissive and want her to take the lead in everything that follows. I don't recommend this on a first date with a new girl unless you leave your wallet and watch in the car.
I know it is a bit silly for a guy to think that an ATF might think about us, but we are in a fantasy world here. Sometimes a "hi" to a secure email can make a dat worthwhile.
do this routinely with their best customers. In my experience, it seems loosely tied to the how often I see them. If I'm a once-a-month regular, I will not expect to hear from a lady between appointments, except for the obligatory, "I miss you" text or email, which is really just hustling me to get on with the next visit. If I'm seeing a girl regularly once or twice a week, there is usually some kind of flirty banter that goes on regularly between visits, which makes sense, because with that level of familiarity, there is a social connection that comes into play.
Seems silly, and a totally transparent hustle, but strangely, I agree. A 'hello' once in a while from my ATF's would be nice. I would recognize what it was in reality, but would can't lie that it would make my day.
they are charging you for their time, not for sex. If they charged for sex, most guys would be out the door in 20 minutes. Lol So time is money to them. In order to give them an incentive to spend OTC time with you texting, you just need to up the frequency of your visits. Obviously, most can't afford to do that with every girl, but with one special girl, a little more paid time will often get you some perks like an occasional lunch date OTC after a session, and/or some regular texting, if you are into those type of things. Its their way of thanking you for being a reliable regular while building and maintaining the social connection. We see regulars as much for the social connection as we do for the intimacy. If not, we would only see a girl once and move on. (Some hobbyists do that.) Providers are usually impressed with a guy who is well-endowed . . . . . . in the wallet. Lol
I will be completely candid here, I don't get the allure of having a woman text me or spend OTC time that doesn't involve fucking, unless she actually WANTS to. I don't mind at all paying for NSA sex, "paying for it" does't bother me in the slightest, but paying for "time and companionship" would make me feel like the loser we all knew in school who's mother had to tie a pork chop around his neck in order to get the dog to play with him. lol
That said I have plenty of "hooker buddies" that I talk to all the time, I know a few that if they don't hear from me for more than a day or two start sending out search parties to find out what happened to me. My sincere advice to those guys who want more communication from the women they have sex with is to develop a personality and make them WANT to talk to you. Nothing is more pathetic than whining that the girls don't want to talk to you when they aren't getting paid. Well I guess there is one thing more pathetic and that's blowing up their inbox when it's plain they are either busy or aren't interested in chatting for free. PLEASE, don't be "that guy" lol
But this time, I can't. You are absolutely right, especially about the second paragraph. My post was just reminiscing back when I STARTED in P4P on how I went about having working girls take an interest in me. I learned the guys with the deep pockets get the perks. I don't pay for social time either. I said that spending more on a girl at the incall will get her to take an interest in you as a regular, which can lead to OTC time, texting, overnights, etc, usually piggybacked to a session. At least, that's the learning curve I had in the beginning. Now I will usually just give a girl my number on the second session, and leave it up to her to "show some interest in me" if she wants to, but it certainly isn't required for me to remain a customer if I like the service. Most new girls I see have already heard about me from other girls or the booker might say something about my capacity for working girls. lol
I will disagree that if you are seeing a hooker by the hour, you ARE paying for her time. Streetwalkers more traditionally charge for sex. If you're quick to unload, then the date might be over in ten minutes, because in that arena, you ARE paying for one sex act. When you book an hour, you have bought the time, and many guys can go two times in an hour. However, there are guys who will still leave early as soon as the blow. A few of my regulars have said this happens more than you might think. For a guy who wants the whole hour, he is buying the block of time, even though its unlikely he will last to the very last minute. Lol
But yes, I will concede that I am paying for a block of time, but only for a block of time that we will be doing what "I want to do" and what I want to do with the time I am paying for is to have sex. lol
And to be honest, while I am capable of lasting exactly 55 minutes if I want to, It's something that I rarely actually do, or at least not with a girl that I want to see again unless of course she is one of those rare women who actually like getting fucked for an entire hour at a time. I think you will agree that if you get a reputation for wanting to spend every single minute of your appointments inside of your date, you are going to find yourself having a VERY difficult time getting dates.
Ok guys so I'll tell you what I hear from the ladies.....CLEAN YOUR FUCKING ASS..
The stories I hear.....some guys should be really ashamed. Toilet paper doesn't cut it. Get up all in there and do some serious house cleaning.
Good Hygiene isn't just a something the ladies say to fill up space.....THEY FUCKING MEAN IT!
Ok ladies, you can thank me later,,in keeping with the original poster....::wink wink, lick lick::...lol
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