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Kyliehunter See my TER Reviews 68 reads
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Thank you, love!! xo

For the gents:  
What is something you wish providers did more of on your dates? And are there things do you wish we did less of?  
Feel free to elaborate and/or share your 'ideal' experience.

More kissing.  I like deep, passionate kisses; the feeling of connecting tongues, lips and heat. I watch a lot of lesbian porn, and I want a woman who will kiss me like the women in a Lezkiss video kiss each other.  

Less gagging during a BJ. I am a man of modest size. I really don't need or want the gagging, choking sounds to make me think I so well endowed that the lady is overwhelmed. At best, it's distracting.

I hear this! I think deep, sensual kisses really enhance the connection. I love it, too! And I personally leave the gagging for the girls that are PSE, unless I have someone request it, then I'm happy to ablige. Good thing is there's someone for everyone out there... And one of many beautiful things about this hobby is the variety of companions available to meet one's preferences. Thanks for your response! xo

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I find a lot of providers seem to want to move fast. Some get right into the action, spending no time on small intro talk. I'm not suggesting a lot, but 5 or so minutes getting to know each other helps break the ice. Then, let's spend some time kissing and feeling each others bodies with our clothes on. I'm not a big fan of providers who are down to their lingerie before we even engage.

 
From there, let's peel off some, but not all of the clothes. Let's even make the peeling off of clothes feel sexy. Let's climb onto the bed with at least our underwear still on. Some more kissing and feeling each other up. Spend some time on BBBJ. Do not assume I don't want DATY. I have been with so many providers who are open to DATY, but still jump to grabbing the cover after some BBBJ. Slow down and at least ask. And, do not stop BBBJ or ask in the first 2-3 minutes. Spend some time down there. Let me then spend some time down there too.

 
Once intercourse starts, slow and sensual at first. If you're yelling give it to me harder within two minutes, I'm like chill. I want to enjoy you. I'm not trying to pop off in ten minutes. Let's take our time.

I think one of my favorite aspects of the encounter is the tease, the anticipation of what's to come.... The initial connection beforehand & the excitement that builds. I love taking things slow and progressing actually just as you describe. I feel this is what a true GFE date is ;-) xo

Sometimes I will ask my date to tell me what they like. The best encounters for me are ones where I feel like she is truly having a good time. Also, I'm always hoping to up my game and I figure who better to tell me how to do that than someone with so much experience? When they do tell me, and then respond to my efforts, it makes the experience more believable.

Its rare that I get a lot of feedback, and I assume its either because she doesn't want to offend by implying I'm not doing everything perfectly (I wish!), or worse, its all acting on her part anyway and nothing I do will make it better (oh, please, no!).

With any lady I meet--civvy or P4P--is don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable just because I asked. After all these decades on this planet, I can usually tell when a lady is uncomfortable with certain acts, and I just can't continue once I sense that.  It's why I see the same duo couples over and over--I hate when a lady agrees to a duo and then spends the hour essentially avoiding intimate contact with the other lady. I would much rather know up front so we can avoid anything off putting and therefore have a mutually enjoyable session.

Oh wow yeah I can only imagine that would feel uncomfortable when u can really sense she is not liking something ... Glad u have some regular duo's you enjoy. As someone who really enjoys both men & women I can tell you that the few times over the years that I have had duo dates with women I don't know, it's not comfortable at all for me either if they aren't really into it. It can definitely be a buzz kill Lol. xo

It was a while ago with a lady who was UTR at the time. I was using the handle Phunhog at the time.  
I can affirm, attest and authenticate that you were a fabulous duo participant. Ahhh . . . memories. 🥲

Ahhh yes, I remember & I remember who you are speaking of....She was so lovely. xo

Or how about maybe you are in no need of instruction? Maybe you don't require feedback because you are already doing everything right....  
xo

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