Question about this. For me, personally, this is hands down my favorite thing about an encounter. While I enjoy all aspects of sex, I find this to be the most erotic. it stimulates all five senses. My question is are you really into it? Do you find you can really let yourself go?

daty is my hands down favorite if it is done right.  it makes a big difference when the person giving the daty really likes doing it.

I LOVE a guy or girl who knows the ART of eating pussy in a sensuous teasing way.  

The Pussy-Licking-Guide for evolved people in a few magical steps

#1: Tell her she is beautiful and mean it.

Most women are shy about their bodies. Even if you’ve got the world’s most gorgeous woman in bed with you, she’s going to worry about how you like her body. Tell her it’s beautiful, tell her which parts you like best, tell her anything, but get her to trust you enough to let you down between her legs.

#2 Stop and appreciate her unique flower

Now stop and look at what you see. Beautiful, isn’t it? There is nothing that makes a woman more unique than her pussy. I know. I’ve seen plenty of them. They come in all different sizes, colors and shapes; some are tucked inside like a little girl’s cunnie and some have thick luscious lips that come out to greet you.  Appreciate your woman’s unique qualities and tell her what makes her special.

#3 Women are more verbal: Talk to her beautiful pussy

Women are a good deal more verbal than men, especially during love-making. They also respond more to verbal love, which means, the more you talk to her, the easier it will be to get her off. So all the time you’re petting and stroking her beautiful pussy, talk to her about it.

#4 Lick her outer lips, inner lips and find her clit

Now look at it again. Gently pull the lips apart and look at her inner lips, even lick them if you want to. Now spread the tops of her pussy up until you can find her clit. Women have clits in all different sizes, just like you guys have different sized cocks. It doesn’t mean a thing as far as her capacity for orgasm. All it means is more of her is hidden underneath her foreskin.

#5 Whenever you touch a woman’s pussy, make sure your finger is wet

Whenever you touch a woman’s pussy, make sure your finger is wet. You can lick it or moisten it with juices from inside her. Be sure, by all means, to wet it before you touch her clit because it doesn’t have any juices of it’s own and it’s extremely sensitive. Your finger will stick to it if it’s dry and that hurts. But you don’t want to touch her clit anyway. You have to work up to that. Before she becomes aroused, her clit is too delicate to be handled.

#6 Tease her & approach her pussy slowly

Approach her pussy slowly. Women, even more so than men, love to be teased. The inner part of her thigh is her most tender spot. Lick it, kiss it, make designs on it with the tip of your tongue. Come dangerously close to her pussy, then float away. Make her anticipate it.

#7 Play with her

Now lick the crease where her leg joins her pussy. Nuzzle your face into her bush. Brush your lips over her slit without pressing down on it to further excite her. After you’ve done this to the point where your lady is bucking up from her seat and she’s straining to get more of you closer to her, then put your lips right on top of her slit.

#8 Kiss her, gently

Kiss her, gently!!! Now use your tongue to separate her pussy lips and when she opens up, run your tongue up and down between the layers of pussy flesh. Gently spread her legs more with your hands. Everything you do with a woman you’re about to eat must be done gently.

Seriously.  I love eating pussy and while I'm not deluded enough to believe I've brought any ladies to multiple Os while doing it (although there was that one chica in DC) I believe my technique is always improving with practice. And the wetter the lady gets the better i figure I'm doing.

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Daty is awesome as long as the person giving can connect with the person receiving. When its just a sloppy, slobbery mess down there...ughhh I just couldn't wait for it be over. I usually will then take over, and show them how I like it reciprocated on them. Know what your doing!

agreed

Printing this out for our next date 😜

It's a turn on for me if the provider is into it. I love DATY but there are some girls that just aren't into it. I know it's about chemistry and not everyone can get into it, but some of my best experiences (funny enough they were with Alanah and Marie) when the girl says "This is what I like....". I don't mind taking instruction.

ask a woman if she likes direct or indirect pressure on her clit. Some of us live for it, for others direct pressure can really hurt. Communication is SO important- asking what she likes will result in a better experience for everyone!

Nice write-up Alanah!  

talented giver and a wanting receiver

Are you available TONIGHT???.

Will you marry me??!!.

Damn Gurl..

Thanx for taking the time to write that!.....You are certainly a P***Y pro!!.

Loved it!.

 

 
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I would say "Don't ASSUME anything" and I don't think I have to explain that any further!
Always ask but don't make a 5 page email essay out of the Q and A.  
XO
Alanah

My tongue actually comes, i swear.  It goes straight back into my jaws and temples and shivers down my neck.  I have to DATY to have a descent session.  So please, sit on my face and enjoy!  My tongue has multiple orgasms when it licks a clit!

I love Daty, but had to take it off my menu because many here are carrying yeast & not aware of that fact.  Yeast in ones mouth can be found by spitting in a cup of water.  I can not afford to visit the Dr. after each visit to treat yeast that is reoccurring.  The sad part is many providers do not care & will work with BV & yeast infections, so the guys never know.  Get yourself checked you could have yeast in your mouth now, and spread it to your SO.  No bueno.  Yeast is better, than an STD, but still not worth it to me.

yesssssssssssssssssssssssssss when done right ,,

Thank you for the advice Alanah on how to please your date. I guess I need more practice.

 

may be a virtue but it is essential when DATY. Many women have a long slow rise in excitement before the climax and a guy has to be committed to the process, which can be taxing when the meter is running. This is where verbal cues are very much appreciated as you start to wonder if your talents are failing you at the ten minute mark with no end in sight.  It can get lonely down at the abyss so ladies cheer/spur us on.