boy, i don't know, because i've been on the receiving end of both opposite types of behavior.
i had one girl ask me if i wanted to shower and get ready to leave while i still had 40 min left on my 2 1/2 hr appt.
i had another girl set a clock in her entertaining room 15 minutes ahead of the real time ("bar time" as it's known) so i (and presumably her other clients) would hustle out, thinking it was 15 minutes later than it was. when i called her on it, she just laughed it off, saying the clock wasn't "right."
i just had someone specifically tell me my time was up, it's time to get ready to leave, tho she was very apologetic about being a clock watcher.
on the other hand, i've had ladies go way over time with me; and even those who are relatively wihtin the time frame have not acted like a "clockwatcher" who wanted me to get the hell out.
i appreciate the attitude...if a girl can subtly get me going on my way out w/o seeming like she's "kicking me out" then she gets points from me.
i don't want to over extend my welcome, esp. as this is a business..it's like expecting a restaurant to bring you free dessert just because you're a great guy. i donate for a certain time, that's what i'm allotted.
still, it's nice when a lady doesn't act like a clock watcher, whether or not she is.
I was reading a couple of reviews and noticed something that piqued my interest. When some guys meet a girl and they don't click, I see them put in their review that the girl is a clockwatcher.
My question is:
Is she watching the clock because she is busy or is she is watching the clock because she just wants you out of there? Pretty generalized question but I guess I was thinking into it too much.
One of the things I hear from some of the girls I see are how a lot of the guys are just dicks from the moment they meet at the door.
Just an observation and had a question about it.
Beemer playing hooky!
To me a clock watcher is someone that sees multiple guys a day so they want you out of there to see another client .
Another bad sign if you see a girl is when you make a appointment and she tells you on the phone that shes going out after she sees you .That tells you that before she sees you that ill be in and out so dont even think about going a minute over . The smart girls will never say that because meeting a client for the first time they will try and spend a little extra time getting to know you to make you a regular especially if you click well with her . Thats called a smart buisnesswomen.
My question is:
Is she watching the clock because she is busy or is she is watching the clock because she just wants you out of there? Pretty generalized question but I guess I was thinking into it too much.
One of the things I hear from some of the girls I see are how a lot of the guys are just dicks from the moment they meet at the door.
Just an observation and had a question about it.
Beemer playing hooky!
boy, i don't know, because i've been on the receiving end of both opposite types of behavior.
i had one girl ask me if i wanted to shower and get ready to leave while i still had 40 min left on my 2 1/2 hr appt.
i had another girl set a clock in her entertaining room 15 minutes ahead of the real time ("bar time" as it's known) so i (and presumably her other clients) would hustle out, thinking it was 15 minutes later than it was. when i called her on it, she just laughed it off, saying the clock wasn't "right."
i just had someone specifically tell me my time was up, it's time to get ready to leave, tho she was very apologetic about being a clock watcher.
on the other hand, i've had ladies go way over time with me; and even those who are relatively wihtin the time frame have not acted like a "clockwatcher" who wanted me to get the hell out.
i appreciate the attitude...if a girl can subtly get me going on my way out w/o seeming like she's "kicking me out" then she gets points from me.
i don't want to over extend my welcome, esp. as this is a business..it's like expecting a restaurant to bring you free dessert just because you're a great guy. i donate for a certain time, that's what i'm allotted.
still, it's nice when a lady doesn't act like a clock watcher, whether or not she is.
when they don't click, especially with no clothes on and trying to have an erotic experience, it can seem interminable. for both people. but a lot of folks are embarrassed to admit they put out a lot of money for anything short of a porn movie scene.
I think for the most part. LA hobbyists are a pretty descent group. But from what I've heard from my regualrs, there are a few names that come up over and over again, guys that are just abusive woman haters.
If the guy is a jerk, or we have no chemistry, then I will keep track of time!
Unless someone is lacks hygienic skills or is acting or behaving like a jerk , in which case his appointment should be terminated , there is no reason why a paying customer should feel a provider is obviously clock watching.
A professional would realize it is good business to make a client feel that he is having the time of his life . Not all clients are young , smart , good looking or sexy but having parted with their hard earned cash they are entitled to their magic carpet ride. Noticing a prodder look up to the clock destroys the fantasy.
It is common for newbies K-girls to have their clocks up to 15 minutes fast , this is not to shortchange the John out of time as much as it is to help her complete her routine which the prescribed time. One ends up getting their full time even if the clock shoows he has overstayed their welcome.Seasoned K-girls have their routine timed to a T. During a time frame between 50 to 55 minutes they make their johns see stars in the middle of the day and the sun near midnight .
One has to be mindful that providers have a waiting customers waiting for the same courtesies and favors , and also appreciative of the occasion the provider has. A gap in her schedule and ask him to hang around for a drink , chat or what
have you off of the clock. And move on before getting asked to.
But there nothing more off putting than seeing a girl glance at the clock in the midst a gig, conversely this in nothing more annoying than s guy hanging about after dragging his feet and delaying the girl from preparing for the next client.
Mutual consideration and respects makes the experience better and more fulfilling.
My 2 cents.
My question is:
Is she watching the clock because she is busy or is she is watching the clock because she just wants you out of there? Pretty generalized question but I guess I was thinking into it too much.
One of the things I hear from some of the girls I see are how a lot of the guys are just dicks from the moment they meet at the door.
Just an observation and had a question about it.
Beemer playing hooky!
I'm sure if two people don't click it becomes very awkward for both of them. You start noticing more things that are not right and your probably more critical of her looks and performance. Unlike if you just hit it off with someone you don't necessarily notice their faults as much. Some guys can be rough with the girls (per their description of the date) so I'm pretty sure the girls aren't so excited to offer 2nds and will watch the clock a little more.
i dislike the girl ending the date before the allotted time is up. and when it's happened to me, it was always a surprise to me, that is to say, i was having a good time, so i was surprised the girl wasn't.
luckily, as i've said, i've had as many ladies let me go over time as those who shut me out early, so like everything else in life, it all evens out, i guess.
From my two cents, if the chemistry works in my experience the clock never gets watched, if you are a nice, clean and courteous generally the clock is not watched, if the chemistry does not work it gets a little awkward and the clock may get watched and if you are an a-hole who does not respect the lady then the clock gets watched or even adjusted.