Was talking to a provider that I have seen many times and she mentioned that she sometimes has to wear adult diapers due to anal leaking.  Then she laughed and I decided not to probe it.

Was she lying to me?  If you do greek can your sphincter lose some ability to constrict?

Yes, I have a gay friend at work who's had a sphincter-tightening operation because he's an active "bottom." The rectal muscles just aren't meant to take repeated penetration.

Good Gawd! I'm going to pretend I never saw this