For me...
1. Clean
2. Attitude/happy, and fun to be with
3. SEXY
4. Like to tease and has FUN with Sex
5. Toned body type
6. Tan
7. Loves to kiss while having sex
8. Passionate while having sex
9. CUMS
10. CIM and shows it to you before she swallows!!!
11.  not only licks your balls, but sucks your cock and lick your balls in the same movement.

If she does these things....I cum back for seconds and 3rds.  Ask Sarah Jessie  :  

I'm thinking by factor 11 your meaning deep-throat skills?  If you do, we're in agreement 100%.  

You just described the perfect experience, and I would come back for 4th, 5ths...and then some. My ATF's do just about all those things.

Some combination of your first 5 items.

1. Clean
2. Attitude/happy, and fun to be with
3. SEXY
4. Like to tease and has FUN with Sex
5. Toned body type

If a provider is attractive, fun, is into it or seems into it and I have a great time then, I'll be very happy to see her again.  Gotta factor in a great personality at all and some kind of chemistry.  That helps a lot.  I've seen some ladies and we'll talk, laugh and get along very well during down time.  Even if it's not all laughs, we'll talk and enjoy getting to know one another and that continues with each successive visit.  

And, with one person we got into a tickle fight.  It was so much fun!

For me, most, if not all, of the ladies I've seen meet your initial criteria...all have been skilled lovers who for the time I was "on the clock" made me feel special, cared for and who enjoyed sex as much as I did.

What makes me a "repeater" with a particular lady is what happens between us BETWEEN sessions...

1) Does she remember me? Or at least convince me that she does?
2) Is she open to the occasional friendly "Hi, how you doing?" email exchange and does she seem happy to hear from me and share some brief off the clock rapport in writing?
3) If I schedule a follow-up appointment, do I get the vibe (whether genuine or feigned) that she's excited by the possibility?

I guess another way of putting it for me is...most ladies are skilled at making us feel good the first time (or while you're on the clock)...it's their business after all.  But the ones who can make me feel like I'm a valued client OFF THE CLOCK and whose repeat business would be not only appreciated but welcomed is the one who will get it.

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HHHHHHHHHHHHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!

A flat tummy and a girl who appreciates a fit good looking guy...

Ha!  Actually rimming is "not my thing".  The idea of it has disturbed me since I first read about it as a teenager reading Naked Lunch.  I've never requested it, never performed it, and always steered partners to the front of the bus it they headed back there...  I was actually pleased that it wasn't on lovemaking's original list.  But I suppose I could be converted... if I lost my penis in a freak accident.  

That assumes that I already did my homework and found someone that I find physically attractive.  I've found you either click or you don't, and if you don't, all the things on your list don't much matter.

About the only real deal breaker for me is CBJ.  I won't waste the gas to drive somewhere for a CBJ- I don't care how good someone thinks she is, I'll pass.

Had a great time with a total sweetheart last night.  Met at my one of my fave hotels.  Jacuzzi, drinks, sweaty playtime, dinner and more drinks, then extra fun at the hotel.  She is the epitome of what I look for in a date.  She makes me feel young and sexy.  Fuck, I am out of shape!

Clean

Pretty face

Shaved pussy

Swallows

Anal "Yes"

Lively, fun, and adventurous between the sheets, on the kitchen counter, hanging from the ceiling fan etc etc.

My tonsil tickler woke up on that one!!

RIght???!!!!!

LADIES PAY ATTENTION TO THIS.....did you read this?  If not, get on it!!

LADIES PAY ATTENTION TO THIS.....did you read this?  If not, get on it!!

HHHHHHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!

I was at a M&G when a Lady I had seen several times, Sent many emails, and taken out to dinner arrived. I started to chat with her and realized she did not remember me! Later that night as I was leaving she tried to sell me on a session. I have had several ladies not remember me after several meetings... In some ways it is a little disrespectful. I remember all My customers of my business!

def. a buzzkill.  i had exchanged many emails w/a lady whom i had met in person before, about the possibility of meeting, and i thought she was looking forward to our eventual hook up.  then at a m&g she walks in, walks right by me w/o even looking at me.  later i approached her and asked if she remembered me, she said she did but made no effort to convince me she had. in fact when i went to give her a hello hug she stepped out of it rather specifically.  kind of odd, considering the intimate details we had discussed in our emails.  so i got the message. needless to say i didn't follow up for the meeting.

The op i agree for the second visit. The stuff between visits 1-2 or 2-3 helps a lot with visit 3-4+.
But to me ultimately it's education, intelligence, and/or interesting stories.

I think I'm in a minority though.

Many providers have the belief that they know what you mysterious creatures((MEN)) want. To a certain extent we do. However there is nothing like hearing it straight from the horses mouth. We get your illustrations and POV. Id call this priceless market research. Continue the great threads and constructive input.
Ok now I gotta go tan and do some situps)) j/k)

anything less would be unacceptable.  a valued client is just that...a VALUED client.  if you dont feel like you are appreciated for what you bring as a repeat client then i suggest moving on.

Here's the deal...I can get laid by a fat chick or a women that is not in shape any time....easy to do.  It's much harder getting laid by a Los Angeles 10.  Tan, tone, body, in shape, beautiful face and body (you know what I'm talking about).  That's what I'm paying for...if I'm going to pay for sex, it's going to be with a 10 plus!!  Sarah Jessie is a LA 10 for sure, tone, tan, and HOT...big tits, flat stomach, tight little ass....looks great with clothes on and OFF!!

repeating. I used to, but there are too many hot K-Ladies and not nearly enough cash. Also in my experience, between the smoking hot CV pics and theanticipation that builds after reading the great reviews from you my fellow mongers, the first time is always the bes. And I can't have sex with a hot K-Lady for the first time more than once.

That being said I've been REALLY tempted recently...

Hmmmm. I rarely repeat. Sometimes it has less to do with a provider's looks/skills and more about who you know just delivers at least basic 'that-hit-the-spot' sex and who is actually picks up the phone and is available on short notice.

When i first started a decade ago, the two or three main repeaters I dealt with (about 3 times each) were usually because they fed the fantasy. It was a little more about purely looks then. The college girls I wished I'd gotten fantasy. All of them were early 20's, pretty, slim with perky B cups and nice firm round derrieres. I'm an ass man all the way. Two were brunettes but the third was more of a Cali beach blonde girl. One of the brunettes really delivered that close girlfriend sex- sweet, good conversation and the sex was always hot & intimate. I would have fallen for her if I didn't know better! Her only drawback was she was strictly a one pop per session girl.  The 2nd brunette was all about the sex - especially doggie. The Blonde though was just totally chill, super fun, just a blast. Perfect friends with benefits vibe. She's the only provider who 1) gave me probably the BEST BJ I've ever had in my life. And I'm not usually one for BJs - I prefer to get right to it. 2) knew just exactly where and how to kiss my ear and neck- my achilles heel- and MELT me into submission. When i think of perfect, hot, quintessential sex- she's always in my top three memories.

The other big three repeaters I saw a couple of years later was the same kind of mixture. One was another young blonde college type, slim, great ass, fun sex - I probably saw her those subsequent times for the squeels she made alone. Again it was the fantasy. The other two though were a little older - early-mid 30's (and I was 27-28 at the time) and it was MUCH more about the chemistry. They felt like women I could have really dated or hooked up with in the civvie world which probably made it that much more intense. They were both attractive -  nice derrieres but more balanced with heavier natural C cups. One redhead, the other a brunette latina.

The biggest things with these two was that being with them really made me forget the service. Clocks were totally unwatched. 1 hour sessions went WAY into overtime (not that I ever expect this but it's wonderful when a provider trusts you enough to let this happen) - These often felt like a casual afternoon/evening with a friend with benefits/ a fun booty call with an ex or even occasionally the 'date-gone-lucky' vibe.  I really clicked with them, we'd spend half the time talking, light foreplay and the other half with multiple rounds of intense, ball-draining, mindblowing sex. One even gave a great massage in between/afterwards. The last one in particular I felt I honestly could have asked out beyond our arrangement. While this was tempting, I also knew the pitfalls that went with that and I didn't want to ruin a good thing (almost the opposite of not wanting to ruin a friendship with sex right? lol). But sometimes I think back and wonder.

So sum up-

Hot body/looks - everyone has their type. I have a preference for caucasions and latinas with dark hair, dark eyes and a fine ass.

Loves sex- actually has (or at least acts like) a passion in the sheets.

Is okay or prefers to playing safe. (lately for more peace of mind I've been re-instating a CBJ, No DATY rules)

Open to & encourages multiple rounds in a session.  

Good conversation/intelligence/chemistry. You can't always fake this, but at least a fun, pleasant attitude goes a long way.




Strangely it can't JUST be like one of these things. it really does take the magic combo. I've been with some very nice girls who were very willing but didn't hit all my buttons physically. Conversely I've been with some super hot chicks who were distant/mechanical, which still scratches the itch but leaves me cold.