All the ladies have their own way of screening that they are most comfortable with. If you check the newbies board, and do a search for "screening", you'll find a wealth of information there. You might want to consider joing one of the verification sites like Date-Check or Preferred411.

If you're willing to part with some personal information, I'm sure you'll find a lady willing to see you. You might also ask the people who run the parlors you've been to if they provide references.

so you need to determine what and how much, and to whom you feel most comfortable doing so with. However, even with giving personal information, you will most likely need to references from ladies, agencies or mammasans. Registering with Date-Check or Preferred411, or some of the others will keep your personal info. in the fewest hands, and you can check on, their listings, the women who are "newbie friendly." Some guys like to start with an agency in their area that has well reviews ladies, since often the agencies are a bit more friendly to newbies.

Some may screen little to none so you should just call and find out.