My Answer Would Be, Would You Like Me To Get The Shower Ready For You.  

What's Your Answer?

Lick Lick,

Ashley

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Be a gentleman.  Ask for a shower dress hug kiss and thank her for a wonderful time.

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Really, you shouldn't have to ask.  There are those people who are always the last to leave a party, sometimes well after the last guest has bid goodnight.  I always deeply appreciate a provider who can read me, not just what I say, but can gauge the rhythms of my energy, body language, how and what I respond to.  

I do my best to respond in kind and usually try to err on the side of caution, i.e., keep an eye on the clock even if she's pretending not to.  If a gentleman is not as mindful, I would suggest something not so abrupt, perhaps leading the conversation towards the near-term future.  "What are you doing for the rest of your day?" or "I'm really looking forward to doing such-and-such this evening/tomorrow morning," would be polite if I had to hear it.  Failing that, yes, offering the courtesy shower would be a go-to.

If you're a client who has to be given even more direct communication, stop your douche-baggery.  You're booking time, not buying a buffet ticket.

If not, I'd go get piles of money and not let her leave my place because she's someone that I'd want to hold her tight.

It's time to leave.

Asking about the shower is a great segway!

I've always found parting to be a difficult convo when I seem to be the only on ready to move on with the day. One liners like these redirect my clients thoughts back to their day:

"So what are your plans for the rest of the day?"
"Did you need to take a quick rinse before you leave?"
"I'm glad we were able to get together today. Lmk when you want meet up again. "
"Well, I have some errands to run, so we should get going."

Nonverbal communication is always helps me when words don't. I usually put on a robe or sexy pull-over if I sense a lingering. Lots of guys are great with this actually, it's subtle while getting the point across.

For the ladies, keep in mind that the open ended questions work better to signal the session will be wrapping up soon. Questions that require a simple yes/no may work when the time comes you to be more direct. And hopefully, it doesn't get to the point where you have to make a flat out statement to turn on the lightbulb! A little humor goes a long way here.

Gentlemen, take note ; )

VL

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The buffet ticket line will, with your permission, likely go viral on Provider Twitter.

I don't bother looking at the time.

Second, it's always difficult for me in the personal to ask if he wished for me to stay longer.
Then to speak about the right amount of $.  
Dislike this so much!!!

Seems that they forget or act like it doesn't matter.
Last week it happened again.
We talked, played and it was 2 hrs.
He places the fee by the tv in envelope.  
Yet, when I went to place it in my wallet ( once in my car)  He was short.
I called and mentioned and he had to go to the ATM.
Left the rest in the front desk.
So inconvenient for both of us.

Just because we're both having a great time. It doesn't mean my companionship is free After the hour.  

So now u mentione this on my website

One more BJ for the road?

...have to be a clock-watcher - many providers have an hours worth of recorded music.  When the music stops,  it's the opposite of Musical Chairs - you get up, not sit down.

Some guys keep track of the time and make sure not to overstay.  Others think that because you're enjoying yourself too, the extra time is OTC.  You're running a business so you've got to TCB.

put on PJ's

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