Well, it's a surprising world and I'll share the story.  So, been seeing a hot provider for around eight months and recently, she has stopped taking the donation and has put the gift back into my pocket.  The first time she did it, I did not know it had happened until after I had left and was buying some groceries at a store.  Reached into my jacket pocket and there was the donation.  I texted immediately and she sent me some kisses in return.  (Not going to divulge the Provider's information and have not reviewed her.)

Oh, daddy, opps I mean John, I need 9k for that boob job, can you help me out,pretty please????
Or, Oh Honey....I'm very short on my rent, can you give me $xxx for this month,ahhhhh come on now, please....
It's coming so be prepared to "Hit it and Quit it"...because you will be sucked in....it's just a matter of time.
Oh and thens there's the request for monthly "girlfriend" money that she'll need for last minutes items.
Hell, been there and done that.....

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It sounds to good to be true.
She is in the business for mutual benefit - you provide
$'s for her needs and you get a good time.

Looks like a move to the next step to me. If you don't have an SO, that may be where this is going. It is obvious you stopped reviewing ladies in August. Looks like you may not want her to know you still hobby, assuming you do. I would keep business ...business unless you are will to take the next step. I wouldn't though but to each their own. Good Luck.

Keep your wits about you and listen to your spider sense.  Believe it or not not every chica is looking to entrap a man or pull some type of scam. Sometimes--maybe rarely--a woman in this recreation takes a liking to a client and wants to make it feel special.  Whatever is going on you'll know soon enough. Given what we're doing here it's easy to be jaded, cynical and suspicious.  But that doesn't mean they're all man eaters.

Put a review in today, to your point.

That's how it feels right now; I certainly am experienced enough to not buy into the "Sugar Daddy" role.  Appreciate the outlook.

Really appreciate the honesty and insight; I am, by nature, optimistically skeptical, however, attempting to leave room for "what is", and so far it may be that we really enjoy and like each other and that is that.  I've had my "friendships" in the hobby, however the money thing has always had a clear boundary, that is until this current experience.  Will keep the Spider sense dialed into the right frequency.

she probably wants a relationship with you. so if you have not paid her you are in deep shit now!

how in the world do you expect anyone to believe this?

Believe me I know how these things turn out. So I can believe it. Although my thoughts are that this may not end well. The guilt will set in and you'll feel obligated to help her in some way. Or she will ask for something eventually. Some ladies that I  know want a guy to help out with the “bills” so that they can continue on to what they really want to do in life. The stories I hear....and have lived.

She either wants to date you or at the least, you're her sex toy.

Amazed at some of the negative comments.

Shauanna,

Appreciate the feedback and comments; when the heart is involved, it's easy to lose perspective.  Certainly brings out each person's personal projection(s) and outlook on what is possible, or not.  I know that it certainly feels authentic when we are together and I am going to trust that sense.

BobaBear,  you are certainly entitled to your opinion, it's a public forum; your comments show a personal world view that limits the possibilities for you, not really any knowledgeable advice.  The situation is certainly real, and as others have noted and stated, does happen.

Like providers, many of us bill our clients by the hour. That's the nature of what we do and how we charge for our services. When I'm doing work for a client, the clock is running. And that's true, whether the client is a long-time friend or someone new.

I'd suggest that it's wise now to get things out in the open.  Bring this thread to her attention.  She will have an opinion, and what she has to say may surprise you.  

Appreciate the advice...taking care of it on Monday.

Would be very interested to hear...

I used to, at one point, be fairly generous with my time. But I have found that when you work 'off the clock,' people appreciate less the value of what they are getting. I can tell you that the worst experiences I had with overdemanding clients are the ones who are getting free or discounted work - they demand way more than someone who is paying full freight.  

so who is this wonderful girl you found!

Thank you for the private messages and the thoughtful advice.