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Provider recommendation problem.
Françoisé Øye 577 reads
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I recently saw a well reviewed provider and I had a great time with her.  During my visit the provider gave me a recommendation for a friend of hers and said I would like her a lot.  Okay, that was cool.

So, I finally connected with the recommended provider.  I was running late, I was told no worries, take your time.  Then, in another phone call she sounded worried.  Turns out she was meeting someone for dinner and now time was an issue.  I asked if she still wanted me to come over.  It was up to her.  I absolutely did not want a rushed session, which is why I chose to call her in the first place.  I was assured that all would be well.  If she was as cool as the provider who had given me her number I should have a good time.

Well, it turns out that our time together was very rushed in the end.  All was going great, I liked her personality, she swallowed and then was getting dressed after only being there for 20 minutes.  Maybe half that time was in the bedroom and she never took off her thong.  I was very disappointed.  Had I known that she was going to cut things short I never would have agreed to come over.  $$$ for a BJ is very steep.  

She was somewhat apologetic after I said something about the short time.  She offered to spend a little more time with me, but we were dressed already and I didn't want something rushed.  Then, she says that next time I'll get the full hour, but did not actually say would make it up to me or offer a discount.  I  feel she owes me.

I just need to vent to someone.  This here is part of my venting.  I thought I would email the provider who gave me the number just to say that I finally called her friend and she was cool, etc, which she was.  However, I am wrestling with whether or not I should mention that I was disappointed with meeting her friend because of how she wrapped things up so quickly.  Should I say anything?  It was her recommendation, after all.  Of course, I wouldn't be mean.

If the recommended provider was reviewable, I would have to leave a bad review.  Everything was cool, but when she effectively ended the session, it put a damper on everything.

Adrianna Azzure See my TER Reviews 338 reads
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2 / 5

I think this one could kind of go both ways as far as fault and resolution.  --Your teacher may give a possible make test w. some extra credit??--It depends on how late you were. There's a difference in 10min vs 30min vs 1hour you know. if it was under 10 min thats fairly understandable. However you should have said something about the shorten session if you actually booked for an hour and it turned into 20min right then at the 20min mark not later and maybe the two of you could have come to a different resolution that would have made both of you feel a win win. She did tell you about her other plans, but she also knew she cut 40min from your hour.

However its def. not the recommending gals fault. She couldnt have anticipated or changed this unfortunate incident.  
You said she was apologetic if you want to see the gal who cut the time just email or call and see if the two of you can work it out for the next time. If not just keep seeing the gal you like and try to reschedule if you know your late and the gal sounds worried or mentions she has other plans up front. and if you were really set on hanging out with the first gal and cant call a gal you have good relationship with and she may see you short notice. hope that helps.

dontleavehomewithoutit 75 reads
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3 / 5

at the set appointment time so if you were 40 minutes late all you get was 20 minutes...sorry it happens, next time just cancel the meeting

Françoisé Øye 244 reads
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4 / 5

this afternoon, the second provider that was recommended to me called and left a voicemail to say she enjoyed meeting me, etc. and that  she'd like to see me again and make it up to me.  She feels that she owes me and I agree.  I feel much better about possibly seeing her again.

It's always nice to know that there are some good, conscientious providers out there.  

I did email the first provider who gave me the second provider's number and thanked her.  I barely mentioned anything about out meeting other than she was cool and our time was short.  I doubt it had anything to do with the call wanting not make it up to me.



Adrianna Azzure See my TER Reviews 137 reads
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5 / 5

Well good. sounds like it will work itself out. Win Win. :)

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