You know I'd at least cancel! Then make it up if I could.  
   
 Oh well.

i've had a couple of dates flake on me before, but always new dates, people i've never seen before.  but yesterday i had somebody with whom i had a fantastic first date totally flake on me, which was very strange and has left me scratching my head (and holding my balls lol).  
   
 i saw this lady late last year and i thought we hit it off.  i gave her a 10/10 review and we stayed in touch emailing back and fourth.  she seemed pleasant and nice and in one email even told me that she enjoyed our time together.  we even saw each other at a meet & greet afterwards, and she seemed genuinely happy to see me.  so i made a second date for yesterday afternoon, and she emailed me that she would text me that morning to confirm.  
   
 2 hrs before the date, nothing, so i text her.  1 1/2 hr before, nothing, so i email her.  1 hr before, no response, so i call her, text her again, email her again.  nothing.  
   
 15 minutes before the date, i get an email from her saying she forgot to confirm, but she's still up for a 1 pm date.  well, i live more than 15 minutes away and had assumed the date was off so i wasnt ready.  i emailed back asking if we could make it later in the afternoon.  
   
 you guessed it, no response.  called her, left a message.  nothing.  as of now, no response at all.  
   
 aside from being sexually frustrated (which i took care of myself, and i guess quite cheaper in the long run) i'm a little pissed that i have already given this girl high marks and talked her up on the boards.  then she flakes on me, and i have no recourse (other than complaining here) to re-adjust my review numbers for her, or at least add a flake warning on the original review.  
   
 as i said, this had happened a couple of times before (probably to all of us), but always with new ladies i had not seen before.   this is the first time an established relationship went totally south to flakesville so dramatically.  (too bad, because before yesterday, i was telling everyone she was one of my atf's!  now, not so much)  
   
 i wish ter had a flake board where we could post warnings and stories, but as we all know, if we don't actually have a date, we can't post a review.  
   
 oh well, onward to the next girl, and i thank you all for allowing me to complain.

apparently she changed her phone # and didn't give it to me.  i was texting and calling the wrong girl, lol.  who knows, she was very sorry in her new email so i will give her another try...

i've had a couple of dates flake on me before, but always new dates, people i've never seen before.  but yesterday i had somebody with whom i had a fantastic first date totally flake on me, which was very strange and has left me scratching my head (and holding my balls lol).  
   
 i saw this lady late last year and i thought we hit it off.  i gave her a 10/10 review and we stayed in touch emailing back and fourth.  she seemed pleasant and nice and in one email even told me that she enjoyed our time together.  we even saw each other at a meet & greet afterwards, and she seemed genuinely happy to see me.  so i made a second date for yesterday afternoon, and she emailed me that she would text me that morning to confirm.  
   
 2 hrs before the date, nothing, so i text her.  1 1/2 hr before, nothing, so i email her.  1 hr before, no response, so i call her, text her again, email her again.  nothing.  
   
 15 minutes before the date, i get an email from her saying she forgot to confirm, but she's still up for a 1 pm date.  well, i live more than 15 minutes away and had assumed the date was off so i wasnt ready.  i emailed back asking if we could make it later in the afternoon.  
   
 you guessed it, no response.  called her, left a message.  nothing.  as of now, no response at all.  
   
 aside from being sexually frustrated (which i took care of myself, and i guess quite cheaper in the long run) i'm a little pissed that i have already given this girl high marks and talked her up on the boards.  then she flakes on me, and i have no recourse (other than complaining here) to re-adjust my review numbers for her, or at least add a flake warning on the original review.  
   
 as i said, this had happened a couple of times before (probably to all of us), but always with new ladies i had not seen before.   this is the first time an established relationship went totally south to flakesville so dramatically.  (too bad, because before yesterday, i was telling everyone she was one of my atf's!  now, not so much)  
   
 i wish ter had a flake board where we could post warnings and stories, but as we all know, if we don't actually have a date, we can't post a review.  
   
 oh well, onward to the next girl, and i thank you all for allowing me to complain.

   
 She sends you an email 15 minutes before telling you she forgot to confirm.  
 You send her an email asking to reschedule and she goes silent?  
 You come here and create this thread and she suddenly sends you another email, saying she changed her phone number (but her email address didn't change and neither did yours or your phone number).  
   
 She knew how to get in touch with you when she wanted to (before you posted her name).  
 You got blown off. Probably for a better deal.  
   
 If you're alright with being treated like a piece of shit, go ahead and see her. It only reinforces the behavior.  
 

   
 She sends you an email 15 minutes before telling you she forgot to confirm.  
 You send her an email asking to reschedule and she goes silent?  
 You come here and create this thread and she suddenly sends you another email, saying she changed her phone number (but her email address didn't change and neither did yours or your phone number).  
   
 She knew how to get in touch with you when she wanted to (before you posted her name).  
 You got blown off. Probably for a better deal.  
   
 If you're alright with being treated like a piece of shit, go ahead and see her. It only reinforces the behavior.