I've seen this ATF of mine a few times already, but whenevr I send a text or call to set up an appointment she rarely responds back.  It is starting to tick me off. Should I confront her about how annoying that is? I mean I'm giving her money and she rarely responds to my text. I usually have to text a few days later or she responds a week later. Do al ot of providers do this and why do you do it? Playing hard to get? Or just too many clients?

her actions are saying she's not too anxious to have any more of it. That's a pretty BIG clue my friend. Move on.

She may be too busy - move on. She may be very unreliable - move on.

More than likely - she doesn't want to see you anymore - move on.

This isn't rocket science, just common sense.

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Move on ...When she calls you when she needs the money to set something up .Tell her your busy and youll get back to her .Put the ball in your court .Your paying her your hard earn money and she is treating you as you dont exist. Theres other providers out there that would like your buisness in this economy that will appreciate a good client

Whatever the reason. Time to move on.
This is supposed to be pleasurable and when
it becomes a hassle it's just not working.
Next week you'll  find someone who will make
you forget all about her.

Why bother with one who is flaky and non-responsive? Take your business elsewhere. If you want super-fast response times, the K-bookers in L.A. are about as good as it gets. I am always amazed at how fast they can make an appointment. Measured in seconds. It's like a machine.

Some indys are great, too. Just depends on how professional they are and, I suppose, how busy they are.

If you are texting for an appt (and you are known to follow through) then that's a pretty big hint. She does not want/like/need your business. Move on, there are plenty where she came from.

If you are texting her just to chat and she doesn't respond then even if you've seen her many times, she might feel like you are wasting her time and maybe giving you a hint by not responding to your personal texts. I have a few clients, or ex-clients if you ask me, who feel that just because they have my phone number they can text me whenever. They are in for a surprise, I'm changing my number soon and will only give it to my bona fide regulars.

based on your side of the story I  would not tolerate such disrespect or lack of professional integrity. Even if she does not want to see you anymore the least she owes you after the time and money you have invested is seeing her is a response letting you know. Just move on there is plenty of fish in the sea.

One thing I appreciate about the K-girl bookers I deal with is their professionalism, despite their work load , and some a booking 10 or more girls , they respond instantly often  within a minute of my text and pick up the phone. Others may have had different experiences but I am satisfied.  

Perhaps she is doing something or she is with another clients. The usual rule of thumbs is that most gals have other jobs and a life and they are not always on call to answer calls or texts...how about if providers would do that to us hobbyists..would you like that? I would not

You are so Right!

When someone doesn't pickup your calls, doesn't call you back and ignores your texts, it is saying, " I don't care at all about you".   And therefore the ONLY response for you as a man is to move on to another woman.  

No woman that does those things without the courtesy of even a 5 minute discussion is worth your time.