And the fact that a lot of guys out here work off of convenience.  In other words, I'm stuck on the 405 near Western and now I'm horny, who's in this area that I can call.  So many working people out here spend all day in their car which is exactly why I work from a studio.  lol

Geographically challenged

Oh I love to host a friend for some fun!!  But I am Geographically challenged in that I live in the High Desert.  It's not quite in the middle of nowhere ... but you can see that from here!  LOL  We're not really LA or Orange County - politically part of San Bernardino County but not really the Inland Empire. I can drive 80 mph on wide open freeways for 3 hours and be on the Vegas Strip or crawl through LA traffic for anywhere between 2 to 4 hours to get down to the beach, Downtown or LAX areas.  I think they should change the town motto from "Yay! You made it up the hill" to "That town on the way to Vegas"  LOL

But I have a great home in a very private location with incredible views of the mountains and a well stocked wine cellar so life is not too bad - other than the lack of company - up here!  

I actually prefer outcalls but being south of LAX I find some resist the notion to come out this way.

Lately, I've been doing most of the hosting.  I really enjoy having someone over because I feel safer.  If I know the girl then I don't mind driving out to see her.

Incall & Outcall

Can be convenient or inconvenient for each individual.  
The naughty men usually have a good reason why they can't do Outcall.  
I'm always flexible for either way that works.

My only attempt here in L.A. was a bust. I got my reservation and references in several days in advance, was approved, booked the hotel of her choosing, and then a NCNS. Too expensive to do that when incall expenses is set, and if she becomes unavailable for any reason I'm only out the time and gas.  Now, Hong Kong is a different story!  

I've done outcalls maybe half a dozen times.  Most of those times were good times.  I got ripped off once.  She took the money and ran after getting me to lie down naked and saying she was going to change in the bathroom.  All I got was a little striptease.  She had a driver, too.  Now, I have a story to tell...to certain people.

Lately, I just feel that I'd rather not have someone over in case things go bad and I don't want neighbors to get suspicious of any activity.  That said, I did try to do outcall again last year.  Didn't work out because 1) she fell asleep past our appointment time.  Then, after she woke up and I agreed that she could still come over, she ended up getting a speeding ticket and decided to call it a night.  

And, a lot of the girls I have seen don't offer outcall.

Personally, I do both. Mostly all incall, but i do get the occassional businessman in town for work It's sometimes a really nice change doing outcalls....saving the time of checking in, bringing all the essentials I like to provide for the room( candles, wine, etc) I don't do them often, for the obvious reaon that most clients are not single. When i do get them, they are a welcome request!

I agree that outcalls are very limited here in LA

I prefer "incall only" where I feel comfortable, in control and safe.

incalls available for us here in LA,OC and IE.

I prefer outcalls as I live alone.  The problem is twofold.   1) I have a limited budget for my hobby and can typically get a higher quality experience with incall because that same provider will want a fair amount more for outcall.   2) Probably 80% of the outcalls I have had were significantly late or did not show (with our without a message).   Anticipation is a huge part of the pleasure and when she is significantly late, the buzz can be gone.