Ladies...

You know, when you don't specify Outcall only in your ad, don't get pissy when a guy asks for incall.   And on top of that, what's this crap with hanging up on a person who: isn't asking a bunch of stupid questions, who is being polite and respectful.  

I can understand being mean to a guy that calls up and says, "Hey can I come over and eat your..." or "how much to..." or some other uninspired insult.   But why be bitchy to a guy or just hang up after YOU ask a potential CLIENT if he's looking for in or outcall and he says incall?  

Even if you can't do Incall today - just don't hang up the phone.  Maybe the guy can get a hotel or will set up an appointment with you another day or call back in a week or so.  

SO to the woman who just hung up on me - you were on my list for awhile, I would've called back another time, or maybe had you over.. but you were rude, you were mean so guess what - someone else will now get your money and I'll never call you again.   God damn... why are things that should be so easy made so difficult?

I know I've gotten condescending and arrogant treatment just as I suspect many of us have.  Without knowing or necessarily needing to know the details of your exchange with this lady I think your best bet is to move on. It happens.  Lots and lots of nice ladies out there.

Sometimes we can get overwhelmed by the amount of rude calls we receive as well, so some days a lady might get caught up in the moment, even if the person's intentions were good

Yeah, that's what I do.  I know these aren't Harvard grads, but one would think that ANYONE - EVERYONE knows that if you treat a customer poorly (except for the ones that want to be treated poorly) they won't come back.  Why push away potential or imminent income?

Just ranting.  

To all the angels and princesses out there that are nice, kind, fun and accepting - thank you.

from a k-girl. Never ever. Just sayin'  

As you and others have noted, when confronted with such nonsense, the girl goes directly to my own, personal little blacklist and look to see who else is available!  

Same analysis obtains with girls who don't post pictures, a behavioral pattern I see here and elsewhere that makes NO fucking sense to me!  We, in general, and men specifically, are a very visually-oriented species.  Has something to do with the forward-facing, binocular vision thing (saw that on the Discovery Channel once!). If a girl is too lazy or clueless to not put up SOME pictures (I get and am fine with not showing your face altho this too makes me less likely to reach out), I don't care WHAT her ads say, she's not hearing from me!

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my first try at a k-girl resulted in a very annoying experience. Was told to call from address given to me and called and texted when I got there and never ever heard back as to what happened.

So tired of the high and mighty white knights for k-girls. yes many are very good but like any demographic there are sure to be some who don't measure up.

And I'm just saying.... see who you want to see and see one that wants to see you.

Such a dominant force innLA. Being  courteous , respectful with desire to please is one of the virtues that separate K-dolls from the competition, who make it sound that they are doing you a favor by taking your $$$.

It happens in every other city, too.  

Every lady is different.  Maybe she is new to this.  Or maybe she isn't and is jaded.  Or maybe you just caught her right after she had to answer the same question to three other guys before.

I always phrase the question as..."I read through your ad and didn't know if you were offering incalls or outcalls.  Sorry if you get this question a lot, but I just wanted to raise the question."  Usually that does the trick.

That's a good way of asking.
You may be crazyshit, but you arent crazy.
No wonder your methods help you "do the trick!"

book another girl in a different city for a night of fun.  I must have called 30+ providers in that city and they either hung up or had a terrible "phone voice".  This one woman actually had the nerve to get all technical and ask me a ton a of questions about what my date and I wanted as if she was filling out a freaking intake form at the ER.  
If there was one time I wished I could have seen some of my beautiful ladies in SoCal it would have been then.  The phone etiquette left me frustrated and in disbelief of how incredibly rude people in "MY" industry could be.
Most of the women I have had the pleasure of getting to know in the biz are sweethearts, maybe they thought I was someone's wife snooping LOL.

Either way, for future notice is there a proper way for a girl to call another provider for a session and get a more positive response?

Hope I was not too off topic, the subject just got me aroused!

XOXO
Eyva Ferrari

...A cold call from another woman can be unnerving to a provider.  As you say, you could be a suspicious wife or even LE.  

If you send them an email they can check out your website and then get back to you.

and their competition as BMW ( check link below for the racist comments)
in your first post about K-doll

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?BoardID=1&SortBy=DateCreated%20desc&SearchType=1&Author=RDHIII&DayFrom=990&DayTo=0&MessageID=264780&frmSearch=1#264780

 you have zero credibility when it comes to K-dolls . Incidentally your referred to K-dolls as Kias on the same thread that your blonde herione BB referred to  K-dolls as Ross and herself as Chanel . She and her racist posts are long gone but you still seem to be  carrying her water. 

You are  an opinionated and  outspoken veteran  with tens of posts on the discussion board yet you never referred  to being stood up by a K-doll Booker , it seems rather odd not to call them for wasting your time given how prolific you are with posting  comments.  Where is ten evidence.  

There is nothing in you posts and reviews that would suggest you'd want to see a K-doll.  9 of your last 10 reviews are of white girls most of  whom where referred to you by other white providers. You seem to have certain disdain for the K-dolls as you below posts shows so why would you try and see them  

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?BoardID=1&SortBy=DateCreated%20desc&SearchType=1&Author=RDHIII&DayFrom=990&DayTo=0&MessageID=248288&frmSearch=1#248288

Who you prefer  to see is a matter of choice but don't try to defame the K-bookers with slanderous allegations you can not support. 

It seems you are lashing back because your feel your girls are being called for their rudeness , bad manners and poor people skills.

I would  trust  an honest credible white knights ( for any providers  not just K-girls)  rather than someone with a dark evil heart who is part of Brennan's secret cells of hate . I considered your description of K-dolls as Kias racist and theta is no need to think otherwise

In any other profession one would be FIRED for being rude to clients!!  I swear I get sooooo irritated
when I hear of ladies being such prima donnas!!  We are in a SERVICE profession!!  Our JOB is to make you guys feel like the Gods that you DESERVE to! When you gentlemen are polite , clean and willing to pay the donation you should NEVER have to put up with rude behavior!! I swear some of these ladies take too seriously their own 'hype" and start thinking they are super models or something.  Let me be clear.. Don't you guys take any shit, the ladies that are doing this will get the hint when they are BROKE because nobody will put up with their crap! It  makes those of us who take pride in what we do and are so grateful for the financial support you so generously offer  look bad!  You guys don't OWE us ANYTHING we OWE YOU the quality experience and service you are f-ing  PAYING for! OK, now I'm gonna go and lift something heavy to get rid of some of this frustration LOl!

Phone # is a privelege to have, and should never be disrespected.  I took my # off line over 3 years ago to keep my sanity & it was by far the best decision I have ever made.  Some guys have no manners.