Do you ever feel like the provider used to be a guy?  A transsexual?  Its the first thing that I check-throat, hands, and face.  Over the years I have had occasions where the thought is overwhelming and have to stop the session.  All it takes is one masculine trait.  Am I just paronoid or is this rational?

Were you ever sexually abused or assaulted by a male sometime in your life?

Well said BP. I recently had this happen to me... the woman I was with so much more muscular than I anticipated...and the first thing I thought was....did I miss something in the reviews and then... please pull off your panties so  I can get a good look. She did and I was satisfied it was a woman. Is there a telltale trait to know if someone is a TS? If  so, can anyone share?  I do think it's rude if you don't advertise yourself as a TS and you are.

Many years ago, I had a 2 month fling, with one of the hottest girls in my  (60 unit) building.  She was easy, and very hot in the sack. Dang!  She looked like a runway model.
I'm 95% certain that she was a post operative TS.  
Slowly,  I started to notice "little things":
When her hair was messed-up, I noticed a slight receding hairline.
Despite being very slender, She had large Boney knees.  She was, in general, broad shouldered and big boned.
She had narrow hips.
She had a pretty kitty, but it just didn't "feel right"
She constantly had to lube-up.
She was tall: about 5'10"
She complained that her family was so strict and old fashioned she had to leave home.
Several of her friends looked like tranny's.
She had a very masculine tattoo, with airborne parachute wings, on one of her breast.
I found a book, in her collection from the Fort Campbell Library, issued to the masculine version of her name (think Robert Smith, instead of Roberta Smith).  
But the real kicker, for me was her over-the-top feminine gestures.  Just like a drag queen

LOL......

in that situation cause I do my homework on the girl first!

to Tahiland. LOL

I, for one, come onto TER to get honest reviews and hopefully that leads to honest ads from our wonderful providers. I know I need to carefully scrutinize both the ads and the reviews because I like you Cookiehead am looking for genuine females and not a hybrid of one. There are many on here that by their responses to your post are obviously comfortable with the possibility of TS.

"Over the years I have had occasions where the thought is overwhelming and have to stop the session.  All it takes is one masculine trait."

These responses are making me sick. Seriously, guys, you LOOK for masculine traits? If I had anyone inspect my hands and throat, I would leave immediately and warn other ladies (especially TS providers) that someone has ISSUES

Yes dakine18, it is normal not to want any part of a TS. If TS were the norm they'd be born that way.  

You keep on believing that. You go right ahead and enjoy your TSs and the rest of us normal folk will enjoy the beautiful natural women nature intended and produced.

One of my all time favorite movies. I guess that is one way to check.

Relax Cookiehead, this is a free country. You are entitled to be normal and enjoy women. The Peoples Republic of California is only making sure the non-normal are not discriminated against. I do not believe anyone has done that on this board. Everyone has simply expressed their personal preferences. We like and seek normal, natural women and others ... well you get the picture by all the replies.

No it's YOUR normal. You certainly don't speak for me or anyone else.  
For the OP's to have such an extreme irrational reaction to someone who in most probability is NOT a TS in the first place  is not normal at all.  
But you two sound like you belong together.....maybe you both can sit around comparing possible TS notes and not scheduling any sessions......coz you never know, right?

...That's a man, baby!!  Well, she was born male but had sex reassignment surgery at 18 - she's 31 now.  Physically, she's been a woman for 13 years but mentally, she's been female all her life.

I have to somewhat side with HACC3284 on this.  There have been a couple of occasions where the thought did cross my mind.  However, I did not end the session or anything like that.  It was just a thought that was triggered by being able to tell they had cosmetic surgery.  But heck, both genders get cosmetic surgery for other reasons so I don't know.  

No, its neither rational or normal.  

I have no idea what you are referring to in your comment. I am very happy and comfortable with myself and my pursuit of what makes me happy.  There are many things I have no interest in and therefore have not strived to become an expert. Should I be condemned for it? I venture to say you would give me a pass on not knowing much about subjects that do not interest me.

If you are born with a dick.
Then you are a man and it's that simple.
So if a person fucks a TS they are fucking a man acting like a woman.
It does not make them a woman.  
I know a lot of people want to twist the facts but this shit is sick to me and a lot of other men.  
Some men like myself only want a real woman born that way and it's nothing wrong with that either!
 

It's not about research but a choice in wanting to have sex with only real females born that way.
You clearly have a difference in opinion from me and others.
Just don't assume everybody should try and fuck a TS because a lot of us are not into that type of person!

bigguy30-
I mentioned research and learning a bit about TS folks so the OP might become less paranoid about his sessions. I wasn't advocating that he have a session with a TS....that is obviously not for him. But by learning a bit about others, it helps to remove some of the false images, stigmas, and stereotypes that he might have that are stopping him from having good sessions with providers who are most likely NOT TS. We all have our likes & dislikes sexually - to be so paranoid that you abruptly end a session because your mind has created some sign in your mind that your provider is a TS is indeed irrational. Perhaps with some knowledge he can learn to differentiate between real signs of post-op TS folks and the obsessive images that he seems to be creating in his head. How can anyone enjoy any type of sexual encounter if they are haunted by obsessive thoughts about a situation that most likely isn't even real?

Bigguy30 just has the two letters "TS" on alert that he must come to any and every post discussing TS to let others know his feelings on the issue. Lolzzzz... Maybe one day he will just ignore the posts that are irrelevant to his life and focus on the ones that matter. I already had this issue with him like four months ago...

Prejudice asshole says what?

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It's clear you play on both sides and that is your choice.
I choose to stay on the straight side period and fuck only real woman.
So you must not feel secure in yourself if you have a issue with straight people.
This is your issue not mine.

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Bigguy30 just has the two letters "TS" on alert that he must come to any and every post discussing TS to let others know his feelings on the issue. Lolzzzz... Maybe one day he will just ignore the posts that are irrelevant to his life and focus on the ones that matter. I already had this issue with him like four months ago...  
   
 I can't imagine posting on all topics of discussion about alcohol because I don't like it. Lol.. I just ignore them.  
   
 Makes you wonder...

+10 to the second power

i dont have a problem with straight people, gay people, bisexual, people who do not want to have sex.. i do not have a problem with any two consenting adults of legal age and mental capacity wanting to have sex.

I am sure you are all talk and no action behind closed doors anyway.
So it's one thing I am not and that's insecure baby. LOL
 

im all talk..

Just know I would have your cute little ass speaking in tongues. Lol
Also I'm  sure your blowjobs are okay but I don't think you could handle me.  
The asshole part for speaking the truth?
I guess the truth hurts baby.


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the only truth is that youre an asshole.

We both know your little ass could not handle me in the bedroom.
I see why you defend certain people so much.
The asshole is off base but again I expect that from you. Lol

She got man hands episode too many times LOL