For those of you who don't review providers on this site, why don't you write reviews?   This is a review site, after all.

The answer is obvious to some but obscured by many. You can't bite the hand that feeds you.

I hope it does not get censured because it is worthy topic for discussion. To be fair everyone is entitled to not review if they wish. Is their prerogative.

That doesn't mean I won't.  But the notion that every girl I see I am obligated to review is just insane.

When you start subsidizing my seasions, you can tell me that I should report back.

Now...I am more than happy to share with those who also share via PM.

Check yourself...before you wreck yourself.  

1. I feel the same way.
2. I feel too many reviews are not worth my time to read them. If the pool is polluted then new water will be polluted the minute it enters the pool. Until the whole system is improved, IMHO reviews are of very limited use (at least for the LA area).
3. I don't like how this community feels. There are too many bullies and mean spirited people. I don't care to share my experience with them.

It's just my 2c. You do what you feel is right for you.

If you are busy and you pay for vip, then there isnt much inentive to put forth the effort .... For many.

For me I dont mind reviews because I feel that i'm helping the girls with an honest review that guys who would like them would read.  I also feel that i'm helping tell the guys that the girl is leggit.  I dont need to write elaborate time consuming stories to pay it forward as it were.

I have never had a bad time when doing my homework on ter.  There are some reviews that are too good to be true, and those are nice too because I wont waste my time or money on those ladies.

There are way too many freeloaders who adhere to a 'you owe it to your bros" code of bullshit, to be frank.

When said "bros" pay for my sessions, then I "owe" info.  Otherwise, be happy I even gave you the info I did.

Sorry to be harsh and direct, but this is one if my pet peeves.  I give an inch, you take a mile.

So why should I spend time to add no value?

The first review gives a review. It should say if the experience was a no show, flake, fake pictures, robbery, pimp, unsafe, dirty, etc.  you get the idea.  It can be more specific, like I read recently, which said the incall had someone else in the apartment - something I like to know and would change my mind from a yes to a no.

After that, what's the point?  Until someone has something new to say (like the girl was good before but now is a crack addict with a knife and gun and drug paraphernalia collection at her incall) I don't see the value add.

Waste of time.

But now that you mention it, I'll give some reviews (vs none). I had a couple instances of mild things that some won't mind but others might, and that prior reviews don't mention.  Good post.

But I suspect they won't get accepted, since I have no desire to give anything but objective informative reviews.

How can you say that? Do you guys know each other? How can an alias with no reviews accuse another alias of having no reviews?

I won't even get into the should you or should you not review, or why do you not review arguments.
I just find your post really funny. You may very well have 500 reviews...or zero. And the same goes for the person you are replying too. YOu are both posting with aliases that show zero reviews.

And why did you post this twice to two different people?

Yeah..I agree in that it is weird that they refer to reviews and yet post with an alias...

I was blinking my eyes and kept wondering what reviews was he talking about?

Strange..



edit:

Actually looking back, I think he thoguth he was posting with his real handle...just my 2 cents..


To post or not to post is the person's choice...

-- Modified on 8/1/2012 7:53:01 PM

When I search by reviewer, it shows 14 eeviews by "crazyshit" since Feb.

When I search using his name, I get...zero.

So don't tell me I don't contribute, because you have no idea what you're talking about.

Search by reviewer.  See what you find.

i have been a member for a long time. I don't write reviews. I tried writing a review years ago and it was rejected. They ter never gave a reason. The reason I belong is the rating system. I like to see providers with scores of 8 9 or 10

1). I find the process to be cumbersome and time consuming
2). I see only ladies who have at least a couple reviews.    Generally they are great experiences and so there is nothing I could say which would add useful info to her file.    I'm not an aspiring author who would use a bunch of flowery language.    Let's face it - I (she) arrived, she was hot (young, petite, and exactly as advertised in her pics), we kissed, had oral sex, fucked, I blew in her mouth, had a fabulous time, then I (she) left.   Would repeat and probably have.   There, would that make you happy?
3). In those instances where it was a horrible experience (photos were inaccurate), and there have been a few, if I wrote a bad review she would complain to management and somehow the review would likely be removed or I would be browbeaten (or worse, have my personal info put on some national blacklist by the psycho lying provider).    It happens and I have seen it several times.  

So I pay the membership fee and don't write reviews.  That's my story and I am sticking to it

I like your story!!  My reason is the freaking reviews are all a scam. Ive seen 3 providers that were given all 10 scores that in my book were at best a 5 . I tried writing a review about it but it got rejected .These ladies that think that they are a 10 are so out there its a joke and when they get a below average score think the guys got the problem or was lying. If the girl was a 10 she would be a super model on a magazine , unfortunetly some of these guys think anything with 2 legs is a 10 . I do my communication on the TER mail with other guys and exchange who we have seen and give each other information that if was given on a review would cause a scene with the provider and get a threat that Im ruining her buisness by the low score .So why the Fuck bother. I dont want to cause any problems with a provider so I give back thru the mail to my fellow paid  members.

But you take and don't give.  Bullshit...search by reviewers under the "reviews" tab, and I have 14 reviews since Feb under just my alias.  

If you pay VIP, you are not obligated to review.  

I alao agree with using PMs to share info.  Key word being SHARE.

I didn't know you could search an alias for reviews. When you post reviews with your username, it shows up by your name every time you post. An alias shows no reviews. Didn't know the search feature could bring up alias reviews. However, most people do not review under alias, so if you search under their alias, you will still see zero reviews, and they may have many reveiws under their username. You are still wrong in calling out scoremore and loves2hobby for not having reviews. They have no reviews under those aliases, but you have no clue how many reviews they have under their handle.

Oh, and I never called you out for not contributing. I said in my earlier post I won't get into any of that argument. Whether people contribute reviews or not, is not my argument. I had a problem with you calling out other poeple when you have no idea if they "contribute" or not.

So don't suggest I don't.  I do.  And anyone who thinks I should contribute more can suck it.

Where do you keep getting the idea that I said you don't contribute??!!

Apologies to you.  I am just seeing that there are responses.  Not paying attention to who is saying what.

I found that sometimes there are reviews but not linked to the ads. The reviews tend to be bad therefore they aren't linked. Or for example, when you click on a review link, it takes you directly to an actual review and not the profile. You'll discover that they do this as well to hide the bad reviews. Sneaky Sneaky

have many reasons for when I do not.

First, I agree with most of the reasons already mentioned, but also have some of my own.

I tend to post reviews only if I like a provider and know she wants to work more. If I am told, or if I suspect, that this is not really a "career" for the provider, then I do not think it is appropriate to treat her as if it might be.

Also, I tend to think of my experiences as special and having some personal, intimate value....even if another part of me knows that is nonsense. Writing about the experience for all to read ends even the pretense of it being private and personal.

Next, after all these years I still have the thought that this world takes part in things that are not lawful and are disrespected by some part of the world. So I still try to be private about it. Which is why I have never attended a Meet and Greet, which I would love to do someday. Posting a review makes me feel a bit vulnerable.

Also, I get frustrated a bit by the VIP part of the reviews. You are told you need to get more graphic if you do not write enough about positions. I do not find the positions part of reviews at all interesting; i even find them a little silly and even a turn off at times. RCG; mish; doggy...just hearing the terms and then counting them strikes me as what great sex is not at all about. So I do not like to be encouraged to use the terms and add them up and get a bit bugged when i am.  

Last, the reviews i think are most useful are the ones that are not allowed: the ripoffs and no shows. Those experiences are hard to post reviews about. I have tried in the past and then had my review refused because i was unable to discuss the experiences required. Since I got accustomed to TER I no longer have these experiences anyway. But there was a time when i did and could never post reviews about them. Thankfully, that was a long time ago!

Crazyshit it seems your PM is turned off so no one can see that you have reviews without searching. Usually their is a link to your reviews under your user name when you post on the boards and an envelope to send you a PM. Without seeing those by your name it appears that you are using an alias. In your case you're not using an alias and do have reviews but without the telltale signs people will get the wrong message.

Does not mean my PM is turned off.  In order to PM an alias, you must to go the "Mail" tab above, and then to the option that says "Compose."  Put my name "Crazyshit" in the "To" line, and then type away.  Also, if you want to search my reviews, just go to the "Reviews" tab and then go under "Search by Reviewer."

It really isn't that hard.  Anyone bitching about this is too lazy, and hinestly doesn't deserve an answer, in my opinion.  It's a few mouse clicks.  If you are that lazy, then go away and bother someone else.  Just being totally honest.  You are asking me for a favor, not the other way around.

I am using an alias.  I have my reasons for that, but you basically just proved why.  It is a way of weeding out thr knuckleheads and time-wasters who just want to suck you for info.

This is NOT directed at you personally.  I just get very indignant when jackasses don't know the facts and easily could have found out the info given above.