I see more and more providers asking for a selfi with photo ID or linked in account or business office and #.
Understand that they sure can ask for anything they want but my question is, Do you gentlemen comply with that?

If my references aren’t good enough, I’ll move on to another lady.

There are a lot of great, honest and well reviewed providers who ask for real world info.  So, I'm missing out.  There's a couple of ladies where I may acquiesce to giving my info, but not yet.

I totally respect the absolute right of any provider to take whatever steps she feels are necessary to protect herself. Period. Full stop.

Agreed. Not questioning the lady's right to ask, was just curious to know how most men felt about it