Hello guys. So not only am I new to TER, but have no experience in the hobby as well. There are a few women I would really like to have my first experience with, but there just seems to be a lot going against me.

1. I have no reference or contacts
2. I am self employed ( poker player )
3. I have tried to do some research on getting verified on places like p411 etc, but they require employment verification?
4. I don't live here in CA

Are there any providers out there (preferably K-Girls) that are "newbie" friendly, that people have had experience with in a similar situation?