There is nothing quite like the build up.  The two of us have created a fantasy or a scenario that equally turns the both of us on.  One we are going to soon act out together at my upscale hotel.  That quick text...that nuance...the time together will most assuredly be different than most.   Nothing too crazy on the scenario but very detailed...Job Interview, Teacher-Student, TSA Agent-Business Traveler, Real Estate Agent...just to name a few.    

Are you that creative person?  One that loves to make the time special and not just a transactional session but a total experience?  Uninhibited...creative...a great smile...I'd love to hear from you regarding getting together on Jan 31 or Feb 1 at my upscale hotel near LAX...

I promise we'll both have a fantastic time together.....

time-suck for a provider.  If you're willing to pay her time for all of the "build-up" back and forth, you will have better luck finding someone.  If so, then you should state that in your post so that a provider doesn't get sucked into your fantasy for a week massaging your ego only to get a cancellation at the last minute.  Have your credit card ready to pay in advance for the time she will spend texting you back and forth.  I'm not judging you, just suggesting you be realistic from the provider's point of view.  Your ISO post should be clear about what you're expecting to pay for and what you're not, so that they can make an informed decision about whether to respond.  

C- I've always enjoyed reading your numerous reviews and posts.   A bit disappointed you'd feel I'd waste anyone's time as I've been a part of the TER community for several years and am White Listed by more than two dozen providers. I certainly am aware of what a Provider needs to be satisfied with the time spent and have a pretty good track record that indicates that.

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I'm just suggesting that you make your post more clear. I don't know you so I can only go by what you posted.  Providers here are not shy about jumping in an ISO post when it is clear what the hobbyist wants. So far, you've got crickets. I think my post is a good analysis of why.  I'm just trying to be helpful. Sorry you're disappointed with my efforts. If you know my posting style, you know I'm usually direct and don't mince words.

Thanks C....my bad on not being clear.  Yes I'm a big fan of reading reviews and always enjoy reading yours.   Hope all is well and any suggestions much appreciated.   Have a great year...hope to meet you one day at and M&G.  

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They only do that in Seattle.

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Booked with me for 90m outcall  few days ago to LAX for Feb 1 then next day after we talked said the Chemistry just wasn't there ..  
 he did PM me Call and text  

I do roll play all the time and love it but I don't need a 3page bit by bit    .. I get what you need )
 
  oh he will want you to have a long and drawn build up
 hr of texting back and forth about want the Scenario was ( i did ask for a rundown but didn't know it was going to get played out in a text for a hr or so ..  

 and I try to keep it short  to the point when texting someone I have never met or talked to before . just for the shake of them taking up my time for Free and all tho I don't feel he was trying to get off by it  ,, But wanted more to know I was into it bah bah bah  

 ( I did tell him I'm not a Texter  to get to know someone ( all my adds say no texting )  

he did a bit by bit  Scenario by text I say like a Novel and then at one point ask me if I was getting wet ( bah bah ) I just let it go and said something not sure what I said but wasn't wet at all  

and then we agreed to chat on the phone the next day and gave me the same Scenario all over again  bit by bit ( to witch I bet I sound like I had better things to do with my time lol  

we agreed to a day time and where  
 BAMB get a email the next day  
 Sorry Gina I did't feel the Chemistry  
 
So Yes It's Was A Waist OF time for me  

In the End I was glad he Cancelled !!!

Kinda strange today I see this ...

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Well, I think Gina may have slashed your last tire on this, but to the other poster's point, I think what you are looking for is great.

Being clear about what is expected and what is offered is much more compelling. Most of us really aren't creating elaborate fantasies for our visits with you, I am sad to report. But, incentivize? You bet I do.  

So put the prize first. This will have providers really looking at your post and considering it, rather than rolling their eyes.  

My two cents would be to clearly state something like, " Addition compensation for prequel to our visit, includes sexting and fantasy immersion"

Or something like that. Put what you're willing to pay per day for access to texting, etc.  
Try it on me first and see how it works. LOL  
Kisses,  
ShanaLay

Shana, thank you for the thread and all fair comments.  I've had a decent amount of PM interest and when I reached out to Gina I indeed had every intention of seeing her even though I had a couple of other great responses.  After speaking with her on the phone I honestly knew that there wasn't much of a connection and rather than waste her time and my money I felt being honest was the appropriate response.   By the way all of this with almost a full weeks notice before the scheduled time.  

I haven't a doubt there is a reason I have been so fortunate with so many White Listings.  The Providers who spend time with me have a great time and many of them I have seen time and time again over the years.  I could have seen Gina and written a bad review if the experience wasn't great.  Not good for her and not especially fun for me.  Every hobbyist I know has said the worst feeling in the world is realizing almost immediately upon a date that this isn't the right person for them.  The second worst feeling is immediately upon a date ending, wishing you had the time and your money back.  I do my best to avoid that by trying to form some level of a connection prior to meeting someone for the first time.   What reasonable person would disagree with that?  

Yes I have a wonderful encounter set up with someone who I highly doubt thinks getting together was a waste of time.  I had to smile that I will try it on you next time and see how it works.  LOL. I'm sure you're delightful and have the personality to go along with your beauty that would keep me interested.