This sounds very similar to the experience I had recently, except mine went a bit further. My first experience with this provider happened during her holiday special, I arrived at the location and never received her prearranged text. After an hour and a half I had to leave and later got an email (not text) apologizing for double booking. Set up another date a month later, she confirmed again, and this time I waited at the location for 3 hours, no text or email from her whatsoever. I PM her weeks later with my references again, she tells me she'd love to see me at her new rate and to contact her new booker. I contact the booker and I'm then told the provider no longer wants to see me; apparently I made her uncomfortable because I kept asking for the holiday rate, even though I never once mentioned the donation. Later I get a PM from the booker after posting on a discussion board saying she definitely doesn't want to see me now because I was whining. Needless to say I'm staying far away from this provider.
Wonder of any of you girls has insight into this...
After getting screened, giving great references, a top Los Angeles provider made an appointment with me, only to cancel a few days later saying she had a calendar mix up. We went back and forth on new times, then out of the blue her new booker emails me and tells me the young woman has decided she doesn't want to meet me at all. I asked for an explanation but got none from either the girl or the booker.
I have never had a bad experience with a provider, have a good deal of reviews in ter, the best references...
Wondering what might have happened?
I've had the same thing happen to me as well. I think it's maybe because you have no recent reviews. Mine is the same, thus the same as happened to me
But I still have no problem booking. Maybe that theory, that failure to review caused turndowns, is weak. Mufftime? What do you think?
I think we've all had something similar happen. Maybe the girl
heard something negative between the first contact and the
time she decided against the appointment. It has to be an
explanation like that or something similar. There is always a
reason even though we don't know what it is.
Move on.
This sounds very similar to the experience I had recently, except mine went a bit further. My first experience with this provider happened during her holiday special, I arrived at the location and never received her prearranged text. After an hour and a half I had to leave and later got an email (not text) apologizing for double booking. Set up another date a month later, she confirmed again, and this time I waited at the location for 3 hours, no text or email from her whatsoever. I PM her weeks later with my references again, she tells me she'd love to see me at her new rate and to contact her new booker. I contact the booker and I'm then told the provider no longer wants to see me; apparently I made her uncomfortable because I kept asking for the holiday rate, even though I never once mentioned the donation. Later I get a PM from the booker after posting on a discussion board saying she definitely doesn't want to see me now because I was whining. Needless to say I'm staying far away from this provider.
Frankly, you're nuts! I invoke The University of Chicago Rule: if the professor is 15 minutes late for class, I'm gone...! The Cap'n Has Spoken!
I use the 15minute rule also. If after 15min you have not called to say you're late or need to cancel I consider you a FLAKE and proceed with my day (usually very annoyed, LOL).
Thus far since I began independent I have only had one mix up and he didn't mean to oversleep and made up for the mix up.
Fool me once shame on you.
Fool me twice shame on me.
Then you started to look like a stalker. An hour and 1/2 and 3 hours and then posting. Your looking that way to me dude.
No offense meant.
Im so sorry about your difficulty. These difficulties seem to happen rather too frequently. But please tell me, why do you guys keep booking these girls who stand you up and treat you like garbage? There's so many of us who will treat you like a king and be professional and grateful for your business. I averaged about 4 appointments this month. But I see many of you are being stood up while a girl like me is alone. You know the ones here who will come thru for you. Myself, Ashley, Kate, Carla.. I can't remember them all but they post here on the discussion board and are reliable and friendly. I've never met such sweet loving women ever before as I have here in LA. Who are these girls you are picking? Try sticking with the ones proven reliable and who love this job and love you wanting us. Goodness, I can't remember the last time I DIDN'T bend over backwards to please my gentleman.
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There are so many terrific providers, with hot bodies, beautiful faces and wonderful attitudes, WHY ON EARTH would you rebook with a no show? Absurd!
If you go to a restaurant and get shitty service, do you go back? Not in NYC or LA or Chicago, where there are hundreds of great joints dying to give you superb service and terrific eats.
TCHS
I was surprised he still tried to book her a third time. Waiting 3 hours? Fuck that noise. I may have waited 30 minutes tops, if that.
Maybe she was cheap? LOL..
I can't believe that the posters were that dumb! Sure, there are some very attractive women who provide great services here .... but to be treated like that? C'mon! Man up!
Waiting 90 minutes ... and then waiting again for 3 hours? WTF? You're the customer!!!! Take your money and find someplce else to spend it.
Agreed!
In fact, maybe if you guys OUTED these ladies who refuse to see you with NO EXPLANATION the might stop because word will be out that they are difficult (and you might save some people a lot of time and energy).
That's what I was just thinking. Or are there rules against this on this board? I have seen other reviewers complain before about ladies--at least write a review and state that she was a no show.
You can't submit a review on someone you didn't meet.
Hmm, I thought you could if they stood you up. Which this guy was.
But yes, you can post your bad luck on a discussion board. However, that is seen by other women, and it can also bite you in the bum later on when trying to book somebody else, as they fear you. Make decisions wisely gentlemen.
I think if the guy has a legitimate gripe, he should be honest and post the name of the person. A good provider has no reason to fear a good client who has had a bad time.
There are reasons, explanations and rules regarding why it is not good policy to what is being suggested here in this forum.
Possibly in another forum for that secure purpose perhaps would be better but for now here is the problem with 'legitimacy in any one person pointing fingers at any one person.
Example:
Not saying all, in all forums but there are some that have agenda's.
Or might be fanfare of certain providers that might believe they are looking into their {provider-pick's} best interests {if you will} by knocking a select group of contrasting providers or another way to say it "the competition"!
Yes believe it or not, I have seen clients literally saying nasty articles about their provider’s competition just to drive more business in other directions.
Who is really to say that any one person is really throwing out to any particular forum "the whole truth and nothing but the truth"?
Who is to say that person does not just want to get a rise out of the crowd, probably knowing that there are those that will take the bone [no pun intended] and run with it.
Who is to say that they do not lean towards exaggeration or that they embellish most everything they say or are in truth just pathological liars?
The answer is; no one, unless they know them on a personal level;
Then again what would any real friend do for another true friend, of course the obvious, back them up no matter the outcome?
So to say the friend commenting says a {little white lie about any person} in the forum, the first thing the “true” friend is going to do for their friend {knowing full and well it is a lie} is to whole heartedly back them up no matter the outcome!
If it has not already begun;
A witch hunt, then ensues!
Unfortunately, in this business a Flake can do well.
I use the Top 100 Providers List" as a guideline only. Ya don't have to be an Analytical Statistician, to realize the top 10 or 20 ladies generally have only 20 to 40 reviews. Flash-in-the-pan? Maybe. A new young hot lookin' chick great service at a bargain introductory rate, is going to get her share of 10 / 10's. Especially if she solicits only 10 / 10's (it's been known to happen).
BUT it's the test of time that truly determines of a lady is a Classic True Top Provider. A lady with 100+ reviews, may have her share of 10 /10'S, BUT will also have mostly the more realistic 9/9.
This drops her average, and puts her further done the list. That's just the way it is.
Read the reviews! Not the 4 liners. But the REAL Reviews.
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It is not my intention to "out" any girl for her behavior - she may have had her reasons. Just to ask other providers their opinions on what might have happened, since I'd already been screened and approved.
While you had every right to say what you did, she may have seen your score and decided it wasn't worth risking. Which would say to me, that she doubts her own abilities to please. If she was confident in her looks and performance, then she would not fear a bad score. You have enough reviews to show that you are a fair kind of reviewer. You are not a hard to please person, as you balance your low score with many good reviews. Any provider who is genuine would be able to see that you are a fair person. And yes, there is a little game some play of wanting to get 10s so that they can make the top 100. As someone said, offering specials and incentives can get what they need. When you make top 100 you get more exposure and more business. I have written staff about my disapproval in this system. When the top 100 of the USA list was first created, the line up was different. It looked at the amount of reviews first, then the scores. The top 5 of the USA consisted of Niki Avalon, Betty SNJ, Gina Rollins, Myself at number 5, and another girl I can't remember who. This list was left up a couple days, then the new list adjusted the old list and made it so that only 20 reviews gets you on this list. It is not easy to have 100 or so reviews with high scores. If you see this, then you know that this girl is a sure bet and something special, however, It is easy as pie to get 20 reviews of 10's. Any new girl off the block can spring up twenty 10s.
The original prerequisites of the list made things much more accurate then it does now.
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I agree. I have had top 100 providers in no way shape or form should be there.
I wonder if the new booker just has more stringent requirements to book? Or if she is that much in demand she can afford to see whoever she wants. It is possible she doesn't care for your physical features. When it comes down to it, it is their decision and it is hard to blame a provider or a booker for doing what they feel is best for them. Safety first. Now I am not trying to slight you at all. I had a very nice provider turn me down until she felt comfortable enough and I don't feel I am a bad guy.
Wow, I never thought this would cause such a firestorm. I feel I need to clarify a few things.
1. Some providers are known for being up to an hour late, once you've gleaned that info from the reviews you go into it knowing that it's part of the deal. I've had to wait an hour for my physician so it's not out of the ordinary; not ideal, but it happens.
2. I was there for three hours the second time around, but I was ready to leave an hour earlier and would have if I hadn't struck up a conversation with a couple of women at the bar.
3. Both times when confirming she said she was looking forward to seeing me, there was no indication that there was any issue with me whatsoever, and everything seemed on the up and up. Our only contact has been through email and PM. If she didn't want to see me she should have said so.
4. I surely didn't expect a different result the third time around, after reading her apology on this board I was mostly curious to see if she was sincere.
Moving on.
You know when it comes right down to it, you both have intent and purpose in posting what you did or you wouldn't post on this board. It is just a sly and sneaky way that you did it. Any provider at any time has the right to not see some one. Lick your wounds and move on. Anond, it is not like you were waiting in the lobby like 56028. 56028, you have yourself to blame. With one hand you are telling us about a 3 hour wait with for a provider and now you met 2 chicks in the bar. So what was your intent in mentioning the 3 hour wait on the 1st post. You both get what you deserve, and in this case it appears you get nothing.
The smugness and elitist attitude expressed by some of the posters is: Mind-Boggling.
I’m goin’ to the Beach… Adios Muchachos The Vet
Since I started this thread I think it only fair I get a last word. Thanks for the constructive comments. Not so grateful for people who make personal attacks.
End of story.
Spoken like a true lackey, now she's got you doing her dirty work. I only report the truth for the benefit of other TER brothers, and in doing so I've shown more consideration than this provider ever has. Have you completely forgotten the purpose of this website? You got lucky and got in, now get yourself a spine and man up.
Dude, you had intent and purpose in posting and you know it. Look at your very first post on this board. I am sure you have had other cancellations but you complain on this board. Why don't we all start complaining?