We've all gone thru this.  You set up plans with a girl, and as it's getting closer, emails aren't being returned, no confirmations are coming thru.   You just know it's not going to happen.

What do you all do?   Do you start looking around for someone else to see just in case?  Or do you just let it go and try another time?   What's your backup plan?

Great Question.
Just last week I had set a date with a provider for later in the week.  The morning of the date I get the "still looking for a hotel" message.  She finally messages me at 5:45 for our 6:00 date with a "are we still on"?  Uh, really?
The majority of my best dates have been planned in advance and some of the worst have been when a provider went MIA on the day of our scheduled date and I rushed to find a back up date.  
Due to my history I now just let it go and try again another day.  If it's the first time it's happened with that lady I may try again.  If it's the second time I'll probably never try again.
I love spending money on ladies who can schedule a date in advance, confirm the day before or morning of the date, and then be on time for the date

Keep a list of ladies that have incall close to you and are open to short notice dates.  

If none of them can work something out.  just call it a day and try for another time.
By this time, you will be to frustrated to enjoy yourself and will leave you with that, i just wasted my money feeling

I'm pretty picky, and I'll usually be on the prowl for a particular type. Combine that with my limited availability because of the job, SO, etc. I pretty much just get one shot at the girl I decided on. If she cancels, I'm out for the next week or two. I usually can't even change the appointment time by more than an hour.

It's no different than your car - you always have to have a spare tire in case one goes flat

had a date turn south right away (she didn't have any of the clothes i asked for..not even with her at the hotel, let alone on her body) and she didn't like the disappointment in my face (or maybe just my whole face, who knows) so she offered me an immediate out: "shall we just forget it?"  

i said yes and walked out with my envelope intact.  however, since we had confirmed that morning, i had a blue pill coarsing thru my veins.  not wanting to waste it, i called/texted/emailed a few ladies i had seen before.

luckily for me my atf (whom i had just seen earlier that week) called back first and said she could rearrange some plans and meet me in a couple of hours.  we had a great time!

even better for my ego, several of the ladies i had contacted got a hold of me later, stating they were up for a no=notice date, but by then i had spent my blue pill on my atf.

guess that's why she's my atf!  

must be my charm but i do have a plan b, a plan c, and a plan d, and now, maybe even a plan f now whom i just met a couple weeks ago.

END OF MESSAGE

If I'm still at home, I get a backup plan ready, but if I'm already on the road and it fall through I look for a good place to eat or maybe visit someplace cool

I pull the plug and search a bit. Of course, I try to confirm several times before. In the 60 or so dates I have had this year, I have only had to cancel twice. Now I have been canceled on 10 - 15 times .....shit happens but I always seem to come out okay

on to the next girl.