Los Angeles
missing the point
You should mind your own business and stop watching and worrying about what your "neighbor" is doing.
tell your wife everything you posted here. Log onto TER and show her this lady's reviews and website. Your wife needs to know all the facts about how you know all of this and how you came about your conclusion.
Print out this providers TER reviews and then ask your wife if she would accompany you when you confront the boyfriend. Women are great at consoling grief stricken men. And she can provide comfort to him as he finds out what his girlfriend does for a living.
If you and your wife do not want to confront the boyfriend, maybe you two can invite this provider over for coffee and crumb cakes and explain to her why she should not be doing this to her boyfriend. Having your wife there will show the provider that you are sincere and you do not have any ill intentions. Private settings like that are always best for situations like this.
I hope you and your wife can bring a happy ending to this situation!
Print out this providers TER reviews and then ask your wife if she would accompany you when you confront the boyfriend. Women are great at consoling grief stricken men. And she can provide comfort to him as he finds out what his girlfriend does for a living.
If you and your wife do not want to confront the boyfriend, maybe you two can invite this provider over for coffee and crumb cakes and explain to her why she should not be doing this to her boyfriend. Having your wife there will show the provider that you are sincere and you do not have any ill intentions. Private settings like that are always best for situations like this.
I hope you and your wife can bring a happy ending to this situation!
so theres this provider that lives and works in my apartment. i live next to her. i know she has a BF cause whenever she goes on vacation i always see them together leaving her apartment holdings or bringing home take out. i see the BF take out the trash etc.. so no doubt hes her BF. (and yes im a sick pervert and watch her home. sorry) im married so not interested in her so just think they are amazing to keep that type of relationship.
anyway, she went back to work recently and i always see her curtains drawn and dim lights showing through her bedroom window. so know shes working. well one recent night her place went dark pretty early in the evening. i figured she must be too tired that day and quit early. i saw her place with lights with curtain closed an hour earlier and saw a customer go in so knew she was working. anyway, i went to a coffee shop with my wife. and while there loll and behold i see her coming in with a coat on and obvious makeup and hair made up from working with this i have to say decent looking white blond guy. tall guy too. and obvious he was all giddy and wrapping his arms around her in affection and shes holding his hand and smiling at him and she goes to the coffee counter and buys themselves a drink.
now, i dont know what the rules on relationship with provider girlfriends and their boyfriends is. and i understand that she needs to make the regular happy and feel like shes into him but isn't what shes doing crossing the line? breaking some rule of going beyond keeping that regular just as a client and actually showing him some emotional connection? i've seen some of my ATFs who have boyfriends and they just talk to them on the phone and act like they are into them and thats it. never meet them outside of work. just to show some respect to their real BF. i feel like what this provider girl is doing is totally disrespecting to her real BF and essentially cheating on him. its probably hard enough for the guy to stand thinking about his girlfriend fucking, tongue kissing, cuddling, and having guys cum in her mouth. but for her to go out and hang with this regular just seems wrong.
i feel like i should just tell the BF what his provider girfriend is doing.
what do you guys/gals think. should i tell the BF?
anyway, she went back to work recently and i always see her curtains drawn and dim lights showing through her bedroom window. so know shes working. well one recent night her place went dark pretty early in the evening. i figured she must be too tired that day and quit early. i saw her place with lights with curtain closed an hour earlier and saw a customer go in so knew she was working. anyway, i went to a coffee shop with my wife. and while there loll and behold i see her coming in with a coat on and obvious makeup and hair made up from working with this i have to say decent looking white blond guy. tall guy too. and obvious he was all giddy and wrapping his arms around her in affection and shes holding his hand and smiling at him and she goes to the coffee counter and buys themselves a drink.
now, i dont know what the rules on relationship with provider girlfriends and their boyfriends is. and i understand that she needs to make the regular happy and feel like shes into him but isn't what shes doing crossing the line? breaking some rule of going beyond keeping that regular just as a client and actually showing him some emotional connection? i've seen some of my ATFs who have boyfriends and they just talk to them on the phone and act like they are into them and thats it. never meet them outside of work. just to show some respect to their real BF. i feel like what this provider girl is doing is totally disrespecting to her real BF and essentially cheating on him. its probably hard enough for the guy to stand thinking about his girlfriend fucking, tongue kissing, cuddling, and having guys cum in her mouth. but for her to go out and hang with this regular just seems wrong.
i feel like i should just tell the BF what his provider girfriend is doing.
what do you guys/gals think. should i tell the BF?
