ladies, i can't speak for the other horny guys here, but i found bond&kate's meet & greet incredibly beneficial in terms of deciding whom i may want to spend time with.

i met four beautiful women at the party, whose sites i had been familiar with, but had not considered taking the next step for.  until i actually met these wonderful girls and talked with them, that is!  now i know my next four items on my "to do" list (already made reservations w/one!)

taking time to talk with a person, getting to know their attitudes and likes and dislikes and personality makes an incredible difference in the decision making process, at least for me.  in terms of one woman, i had thought from her web site that she was incredibly distant and upper crust, way out of my league.  it turns out she is funny, open, down to earth and now definitely on my list.

conversely, some ladies i was considering, did not happen to make it to the party, so they are now moved further down the list (sorry girls!)

i'd really recommend the meet & greets, and i can't wait for the next one.  it's next tuesday, right?