As someone in the slightly more mature camp I generally perfer women that are over 30. Most of my regulars are in that range because I find that we have more to talk about between rounds.
There is certainly something exciting about a young sexy woman and I enjoyed a couple of 21 year olds last year (Blaire Whitmore just about killed me....in a really good way) but I find it akward for me to be with a 21 y/o...kind a cradle robbing thing I suppose.
Ok this is for the guys!
When looking for a provider is age a huge factor? Also what age (s) are you looking for? And after what age constitutes a MILF? Now I realize some guys have a specific thing for very young girls and some are specific about older women..... but generally speaking is there a huge difference in 23-33?
Just Curious
Leah LeMay
As someone in the slightly more mature camp I generally perfer women that are over 30. Most of my regulars are in that range because I find that we have more to talk about between rounds.
There is certainly something exciting about a young sexy woman and I enjoyed a couple of 21 year olds last year (Blaire Whitmore just about killed me....in a really good way) but I find it akward for me to be with a 21 y/o...kind a cradle robbing thing I suppose. ![]()
Thats what I was thinking
Under 25 for me ... they may as well be speaking German bc I just dont understand what the hell their lingo means hahaha
i like ladies in the 20-30 range, but i'll definitely consider someone over 30 if they are smoking hot. also style and comportment count too.
also i can't reiterate enough how important chemistry is. i met a couple ladies at the meet & greet that were over 30 but we got along fabulously, and they have moved way up on my bucket list.
leah you are definitely on that list!
AWEEEEEE !!! That is so sweet
.... I fall around the 30ish range
but I definitely dont look it! Genetics? lol Most people think Im 24-27 at most. But I definitely prefer someone I can have intelligent conversation with... for me that is a turn on at the top of the list!!
Leah
would rather see a provider in her 30's than in her 20's! Also since I have 2 daughters in there early 20's it's a little creppy for me thinking I could be with one of there friends! LOL but thats just how I roll! BTW Leah you look GREAT and you for sure are on my bucket list! ![]()
haha i just got this lol
to prefer providers in their late 20s to late 30s. Being able to carry some kind of conversation is a big plus for me. Age 26 and under would normally be to much of a generation gap for me, but one huge exception is a provider I started seeing a few months ago, who's in her VERY early 20s, but is university educated and speaks and acts like someone who's several years older. Conversely, I'm frequently told that I look, dress, speak, and act younger than my age. So maybe those factors balance it out.
And my daughter passed 25 I began to prefer ladies over 30. Now I look for over 35 and even better over 40.
They still look great and amaze me with their skills and enthusiasm. I agree that we seem to have more in common and the chemistry is much better.
Personally, I don't think you can categorize all. There are 20 something hard bodies who aren't really in touch with their own sensuality and late 30s who have taken very good care of themselves and are amazing. Ofcourse, there are some 20 somethings who do so it really depends. YMMV.
With age comes experience and wisdom. While physical attraction is important to me, a mind-connection can take one to new sexual heights. The perfect combination for me would be a woman who is in her early to mid-twenties, but is an old soul. That's a rare find. I would categorize a woman over forty to be a MILF. Unfortunately I wasn't able to go to the Mr. Bond's M&G, but I have admired your pictures for a long time, and from what I can tell, you have a body of someone in her twenties. I have been with providers from mid-thirties to early twenties. For me variety is key - be it age, color, race, etc.
The younger the lady is - you just don't know how many older guys they have been with. Will she not be into it and be mechanical? What will we talk about? I want some connection beyond the physical, albeit it by the hour, in order for me to feel satisfied.
Part of the connection is KNOWING or should I say BELIEVING the lady enjoyed herself as well. That's easier to believe with someone older, or they are better at acting like it.
Ladies early 30's and up - are what I like most - experienced in the hobby, life and in the sack! Hard to beat that combo.
MILF - the term first came about when teen age guys would be at a friends house and see the friends hot mom - sexy, 35-40 year old. Hence, a Mother I'd Love to Fuck! I never think of a 27 year old with kids as a MILF. To me, and I am not an expert on this, MILF means - 35 to mid 40's and she is HOT, at least hot enough that I want her!
And because you asked Leah... Yes, there is a difference between 23-33 --- 10 years!!! That's a WORLD of difference (see above). Looking at your CS page/photos and IF it says you are 23 - I'm not even going to read your reviews - just not worth the effort given my experiences, probable outcome and so many other choices.
IF on the other hand, your CS page says 33 and THOSE photos - I'm reading your reviews and more than likely you wind up on my 'Play List'.
Your profile says 26-30 so, ??? - but I did 'favorite' you and will keep reading.
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Yeah! Thats kinda why Im asking..... Who ever created that first profile i guess assumed I was in that age range and I really just left it but have been considering changing it to over 30 as I am early 30's . I just look much younger... I get triple takes when I show my ID somewhere lol..... and I still feel 25 but intellectually Im way pass that. Such a strange feeling.... no one ever prepared me or explained this feeling, to be a certain age and feel and look younger. Its kinda like ... "who is that person?" lol Ive recently tried to date a couple guys around 25 and its just like.. "REALLY?" lol.... I guess its the same as you guys.... but a nice young body will only get u so far then its like... now what? lol Experience is def the way to go..... I just think I was always an old soul in a way and always very sexual and just had an instinct... now im just finally catching up age wise to it all and its kinda freaky lol Thanks for the input!!!!
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Leah
if you really look like your photos, and I have NO reason to think otherwise, then you will get all the guys that want a 20 something anyway. Also, you open up the world of older guys that want someone over 30 - and they are an easier, more affluent type client.
Your photos reveal a body much like a lady I know in FL - she's 39 now and still looks like your photos - and reading her reviews, like yours, nobody thinks about the age - rather, any body that does consider the age is probably someone you don't want to see anyway.
I seem to find 28 to 32 as a rule to be a good time. Lately early 20s have seemed a little empty for me but in the past I have had some luck going younger but they were special cases. I would say my top age I would consider for a provider to be 40 (assuming she was truthful about her age lol). If I wanted to see someone closer to my age (55) I would just try dating in civilian life.
As for what constitutes MILF, well technically it's not an age per say but whether or not she is a Mom. But I get your drift and I'd say mid 30's with a gorgeous face and a great body; like you.
haha!! Am I mid thirties? lol.... Maybe next year haha ... I think I still fall into early 30's
.... and Im not a mom so I may have to give it a couple years before I can advertise MILF ..... so weird to even consider myself as that lol!! Life is wonderfully strange
..... Me and Brennan have great laughs over the whole Cougar thing! How old is a cougar? haha... I say Im a Puma at best lol.... Under 35 (Puma) ...35-45 (Cougar) .... 45-55 ( Panther?) lol..... over 55 gets the Jaguar category in our book... and if you can work it over 65 lol ... i think you deserve the title of LIONESS lol... and hey!! the younger girls should get their own cat names too... under 25... maybe Tiger? or Bobcat? lol guess depends on the girl haha... This could be a whole new topic! lol
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Leah
Kitten comes to mind, but maybe that's under 20. How about Cheetah up to 25?
haha! Thats a good one!!
I prefer girls a lot younger. Mid 40's is more my speed!
.NOOOOOOO... lol.... I dont know whether to laugh or cry here lol.... I know things a lady under 50 does NOT need to know! ... lol... but Im actually glad I do ![]()
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Leah
The more mature providers set the bar high. My ATF is in her mid 30's. She is mature, intelligent and her life experience and nurturing side shows through during my appointments. Providers in their late teens and early twenties (at least with my experiences) think it is all about the body (the physical).
My search range tends to be late 20's to late 40's. I try and stay away from late teens and early to mid 20's based on past poor or disappointing experiences.
Late teens?? Is that even legal? lol... haha... funny considering lol... Im in a silly mood today!! I want to be somebody's ATF
...... Maybe I am? .. Anybody? lol .... but you are right.... Ive heard that before... the the hottest girls with the best bodies sometimes think " hey its your privilege to just look at me , so that should be enough".... and that guys sometimes go with a 8-9 instead of a 10 bc they try harder lol.... Now of course this is a generalization and there are a lot of young girls who are wild and fun and give 300%... That was me when I was really young! guess I was made for this biz... still love it! lol
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Leah
I know we've tried in the past but our schedules just did not work. But hell , in another year or two you are gonna be too old for ME !! Jeeeesssttt kidding. No. Age is not a key issue. Attitude...persona...professional savy..all the things you seem to have. That's what is most important.
haha... Well Bring it!!!
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Leah
Ladies under 30's for me....
Just Curious?? Can I ask what age range you are in? and is it a physical thing or attitude or both?
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Leah
I prefer meeting younger ladies...I rather look at a 20 yrs old naked that one past 30's
More than age - I've enjoyed wonderful conversation with women half my age and I've been with ladies who seemed vapid who were much closer to my decaying physiology. In the end it matters more who the person is than the date on their driver's license - as long as they have one lol. Since I am decades beyond being a Cub, the MILF aspect is irrelevant. As long as we connect ...
And would you believe I get nothing but 25-30 year olds contacting me from it.
..Go figure?
Personally...I prefer the mature man over the young stud.
The younger ones make me feel shy for some reason when they turn on their charm.
But , when it comes to me playing with women... fit and sexy is what matters.