What do you think. I tried to set up date. I ws asked to send an ID!!

a good idea.  Lots of ladies that don't ask or need that info.  That is a deal breaker for me.

I see only 3 reviews in the past 4 years.  Not that reviews mean anything for a provider wanting verification.  
If you have P411 or DC, I would think that would be sufficient.  Never been asked to show ID at the door.
No way would I send a copy of my DL or anything else across the internet to a stranger.

It's been about 5 or 6 years now.  The Big Bust in Arizona.  Several agencies busted,
 the clients list posted on the Internet.
This Trooper will never give his complete name to any provider or booker,
 and he will never use an agency.

etc. to know that you are a john; otherwise, you should try to fly UTR as much as possible.

LE will use their own ID's these days. There are other ways to be safe. A provider needs to have a variety of options to be sure someone is safe. I can tell you that this is typical in Chicago tho and most ladies will require it there. At the least, they'll want you to show it to them at the door. but tell you that ahead of booking them.

ID doesn't guarantee anything (anyone can buy a fake one online) maybe she is new and inexperienced....

One assistant asked me for all my ID information and then said " we do check ID once you arrive in the room to confirm the name you gave us is a real name "   Showing ID and saying "we" did not leave me feeling comfortable.  

If you HAVE WHITE list  
from legitimate Providers or
411 reference
or providers  who can vouch to you

NO.  You have over 20 reviews which are old, but that means you have CURRENT references that you've seen within the last year for the provider to contact.  Had you not had any references, employment would be asked for to verify.  We don't even ask or accept ID's for verification.  

Unless someone is turning over their info to LE, a date set up inside of P411 should be pretty safe, IMHO.  Given the infinite variables in just the user name, I don't see how anyone short of the No Such Agency could hack an ID and plant fake OK's.  Besides, any smart provider is going to check refs, right?