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https://support.google.com/legal/troubleshooter/1114905?rd=1#ts=1115655

https://support.google.com/legal/troubleshooter/1114905?rd=1#ts=1115655

And, ask lawyers their opinion on http://AVVO.com

Most of the sites like badboyreoirt that have information on google are nothing more than blackmail extortion sites. Any, ex bf/gf, hater, stalker, nutjob with to much time on their hands can post anyones information on these sites.

They do this in various area of the internet. I was helping a property manager and found the same type of sites, using the same tactics.  



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I learned a while back that a girl claimed she saw me then posted a fake warning or review about me on a bad guy list.  Does anyone know how to have a google search remove?

...will be like whack-a-mole.  If you smash one site, it will pop up somewhere else.  

You've been a TER member for ten years and have been whitelisted so if the blacklist info was true, you couldn't have kept this alleged part of you hidden for so long.

OTOH, I can't say the blacklisting provider is completely BSC because there is a tenuous link between the two of you.

In the future, if a provider questions you about the blacklist, you should rely on your review history and chalk it up to a personality difference when you allegedly met the blacklisting provider since no BCD session ever took place.

Perhaps more internet-savvy folks can advise you how to get your personal info removed from Google.    

The so called black list uses your phone number which cost me a relationship. I used a law firm to try to stop it but the search still appears on google. I don't care if a provider thinks I am not the hobbyist of the year but I do care about libel and slander

https://support.google.com/legal/troubleshooter/1114905?rd=1#ts=1115655

https://support.google.com/legal/troubleshooter/1114905?rd=1#ts=1115655

And, ask lawyers their opinion on http://AVVO.com

Most of the sites like badboyreoirt that have information on google are nothing more than blackmail extortion sites. Any, ex bf/gf, hater, stalker, nutjob with to much time on their hands can post anyones information on these sites.

They do this in various area of the internet. I was helping a property manager and found the same type of sites, using the same tactics.  



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But this blacklist has the potential to do lots of damage to professional gentlemen.

 
I for one see the blacklist as a vindictive site for ladies when it was created to protect ladies. Now I see and hear about more and more unwarranted BLs and how it has peoples REAL name and contact info. I am not advocating the removal of the list entirely but I feel there should be a rebuttal section for the gents to post (and I feel the same about provider reviews).  

 
I also feel that the blacklist should not be googleable.  
I feel ladies must login to see that info and in order to login they must pass a level of screening that involves looking at their posts on boards to see if they post things impulsively or post vindictive or passive messages as well as establishing they are a safe provider in order to access the list.

 

Every site has it's flaws - I hope you can work things out with the provider who posted it. I am not sure but I think only the poster has the power to remove - but like I said, I don't utilize this list so I don't know the processes.

 

Good luck and sorry this happened

"I also feel that the blacklist should not be googleable.  I feel ladies must login to see that info and in order to login."

I agree. I find black list sites (well, one in particular…. one that you DO have to sign in to) to be an important tool I use for safety screening but it totally ruins it if just anyone can go post something awful about someone. In the two years I have been working, I have only had two prospective clients that came up as don't sees on the list I use, one for being LE and the other for being rough with a gal. The black list sites (the good one that I use anyways) I feel is kind of like TER reviews for hobbyists and are just as important as TER reviews. I want to know if a client is dangerous, LE or will try to rip me off just like you want to know if you'll get some shitty bait and switch, no show, bad service or someone who will rip you off. It is so rare that anyone I check is listed that I trust it (unless someone has 4+ excellent provider references, in which case it overrides my use of a black list).

I feel like the client-provider relationship should be like a patient-doctor relationship. No information should be shared by the provider (or the client if the provider does not accept reviews) except in the case of giving referrals or in the case of something dangerous or awful happening at the hands of said client (much like doctors or psychiatrists are allowed to break confidentiality in the case of someone threatening to hurt themselves or someone else etc.). Black lists are an important and helpful tool, but only if used responsibility. It horrifies me to see that some will show up on a google search, both for a client's privacy and for our safety as providers, since I do think it leads to jilted exes or whoever posting things that have nothing to do with the hobby.

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