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I have been hobbying for about a year or so and have been whitelisted several times. I have been okayed on P411 several times. I recently contacted a provider that pretty much just blew me off in the bad way. Who knows why. It is frustrating from the standpoint of doing the research, reading the reviews etc., all for nothing. Now in fairness the seasoned providers seem to be more efficient and responsive. It makes you want to use a booker or an agency to avoid playing the "waiting game". Of course, I understand the need for safety. When I first got going, I would ask the provider if they could refer me to a friend. That worked pretty good. Wish you the best.

I've been out of the game for about a year due to being in a relationship...well...I'm free again and wanting to get back into hobbying. So I contact two well reviewed providers trying to set something up....but because my reviews are a bit old they can't verify we with the providers I reviewed in the past. Both won't see me because they have gotten no response from my previous providers and even when I give them my personal and work information....it's still not enough!!! So how the hell does a guy get to become approved if he's new or been out of the seen for awhile??

Any suggestions very much appreciated.

ampmanz814 reads

I can't get a booker to respond to me and I have recent references.  What is going on in LA?

traveler_in_LA602 reads

Once you have 3+ "Okays" with P411, you should not have much trouble getting an appointment with most providers on P411.

P411 sounds like a great option.  Who could blame someone providing such a risky service for being really careful?

Look for "newbie friendly providers" who will screen you in alternative ways, also p411 and date-check have great resources to start gaining ok's from the ladies. I am sure a lady out there may be willing to discuss a date with you.

I appreciate that many guys don't repeat with a provider, but, I do when I find a good one.  I have seen some girls 10, 20 and over 30 times.    
I have no doubt, that if I took an extended break, they would still vouch for me me if i used them as a reference.
  Why not visit one of your former dates?    
In my experience, ladies LOVE repeats!.

Thanks, that's actually good advice.

I have been hobbying for about a year or so and have been whitelisted several times. I have been okayed on P411 several times. I recently contacted a provider that pretty much just blew me off in the bad way. Who knows why. It is frustrating from the standpoint of doing the research, reading the reviews etc., all for nothing. Now in fairness the seasoned providers seem to be more efficient and responsive. It makes you want to use a booker or an agency to avoid playing the "waiting game". Of course, I understand the need for safety. When I first got going, I would ask the provider if they could refer me to a friend. That worked pretty good. Wish you the best.

Hi There

Being an Aussie girl is seems to hard work. References checking and vouching.
Ra ra ra

It full of BS

Australia here I come

Alley

Yes even as a seasoned hobbyist it is becoming more difficult to book a provider. Even with good references seems you do the chat send the references and then NOTHING. Just recently I tried hooking up with someone I KNEW while I was on a business trip. We texted every day, trying to set a time. She pissed away 8 days before I left to go home. Even Highly reviewed providers do not follow through. If they do not want to be in the business they should get out. I have little respect for ladies who advertise and do not want the business.

I have a Regular who appears to Always make time for me! I would be VERY horny if it was not for her

A hobby that makes money and they want it on their terms.  Beats coin collecting...

As SampleTaster mentioned, it is becoming difficult for even seasoned hobbyist with references to book sessions.  I sent out several emails last week since I had free time and got no responses. Its been 2 months for another to screen me.  I had a 600hr lady "fall asleep" and missed my appointment then tell me she cant see for a month because she was going on vacation, its now 6 months and nothing from her.  I had another 600hr lady chew my ear off because I did not set up a session when she was available but she ignored the fact she was never prompt in returning my emails, making me wait weeks for a response.  Another higher rate lady tried to out me because she confused me with the client that shorter her.  I always thought higher rate ladies offered nicer experiences, but not in my case.  

 
Right now, I am sticking to my one atf when she is free and visiting ladies. I have one that really impressed me from the east coast.

ladies who offer other alternatives for screening besides references.
References are great but there should always be other options.
Sorry to hear you are going through all of those difficulties to book an appt.
There are many ladies who are prompt in responding and have other methods to screening besides just waiting around on references.You should look at providers websites that mention they are newbie friendly that might be a better option since you do not have any recent references.
I also agree looking for newbie friendly ladies on P411 if you are a member of that site is another option.
Good luck to you hope it works out:

I always reply to my e~mails right away and have no problem screening the person.  
There are different ways to verify the person, without all the complications.  
I also use Preferred 411 as well. :~}

Lick Lick,

Ashle

Go get approved on P411 and see a provider that see newbies than you'll be set to go

I have a friend who was in the same situation he booked with me I whitelisted him & not all the providers have no issues screening him because he is good to go!

Thanks everyone for the suggestions and PMs I really appreciate it. I know you providers try and work together to help weed out the bad guys and stay safe....but all in all it is still a business and the competition can be fierce. Sometimes I wonder if some of you are not so cooperative with giving referrals because you don't want to possibly lose a client to another provider? I can totally understand that being the case, I mean who would want a client in any business going to the competition and giving a referral to boot? That's why I think it is essential to have other means of verification in order to make sure it isn't impossible to see a desired provider. Yes, I get seeing a newbie friendly provider and hoping they might help you out...but it's still a crap shoot. Maybe they don't want to lose the client either...so here we are. Oh well, that's just my two cents....looks like I'm going to get to see that one provider I've been dying to see...hopefully it will all worked out in the end!!! It just seemed like I ran into a rash of band luck. :-)  

Thanks again,

Dirty1

Those sites should be enough, I myself do not like to contact other providers for referrals due to fact some providers take forever to respond or they basically do not respond to referral requests (which I've experienced)  also my experience & their experience outcome aren't the same .... There are ways to verify in the providers world where you don't need to contact references....  But joining a hobbyist site does help in screening process...

I agree....thank you for your input. :-)

Posted By: Gemma Coreana
Those sites should be enough, I myself do not like to contact other providers for referrals due to fact some providers take forever to respond or they basically do not respond to referral requests (which I've experienced)  also my experience & their experience outcome aren't the same .... There are ways to verify in the providers world where you don't need to contact references....  But joining a hobbyist site does help in screening process...

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I have no problem seeing ladies. I contact ladies I have researched and find to be genuine, real and in my budget. When they ask me for their screening info, I give it, no hesitation, no questions and no trying to weasel around it and definitely no trying to haggle them. They easily screen me and we then move on to having our date. By just looking into some of you fellas, I can see why some ladies might want to consider avoiding you. IMO, stop trying to jerk the ladies around, develop a solid reputation as a gentleman and the rest is all fun.

Well Mr. Perfect, that's great for you....but please don't assume for which you know nothing about. What gives you the impression I have a problem giving my personal/professional info, hobby out of my means and haggle with the providers? You sound like a tool...so shut the fuck up and mind your business little man.

It would be nice if it did, though.

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