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BigPeterJohnson 38 Reviews 301 reads
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but if i book a lady and i know she's spending $$$ for incall, my meeting with her becomes my priority.

i book out with my career facilitators (become professionally unavailable) for that afternoon.

i recently had to cancel a few times w/a lady who i knew to have incall in her own apt, so i didn't feel the need to fufil our meetings, as i knew she wasn't out any extra $$ for a hotel room.  we eventually met up after a few tries and the wait was worth it!

but if you are shelling out for a hotel room, i will not cancel on you (short of blood on the floor) once we have made an appt.

HarloweDahl737 reads

I have a question for both the ladies and the gents- I've been running into a lot of guys lately who have trouble scheduling dates because they must remain available for work and cannot commit 100% to a date, nor give adequate time to cancel if work comes up. While I don't want to summarily reject all appointment requests from men with jobs lacking set schedules, it is a bit sticky, especially if someone is booking a longer date, or if I'm getting a room specifically for someone who isn't sure they can make it if work summons them.

Guys- in your opinion, what is a fair response to this situation? Ladies- do you have any policies in place for dealing with this? I want to be able to see doctors, those in the film industry, etc., but I also need some security that if I spend $ on a room or set aside time for an appointment, it won't all be for naught. If *I* have to cancel a date (life/shit/traffic occasionally happens), I generally try to offer extra time when we reschedule or otherwise sweeten the pot, but short of charging a cancelation fee (which I'd imagine would be incredibly difficult to enforce, not to mention a turn-off), how might I ensure that my time and money are also being respected?

Thank you!!!

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BigPeterJohnson302 reads

but if i book a lady and i know she's spending $$$ for incall, my meeting with her becomes my priority.

i book out with my career facilitators (become professionally unavailable) for that afternoon.

i recently had to cancel a few times w/a lady who i knew to have incall in her own apt, so i didn't feel the need to fufil our meetings, as i knew she wasn't out any extra $$ for a hotel room.  we eventually met up after a few tries and the wait was worth it!

but if you are shelling out for a hotel room, i will not cancel on you (short of blood on the floor) once we have made an appt.

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arnie322 reads

as one with a fluctuating schedule, I always try and do all the pre approval work before the time arrives - screening numbers etc that may take a week or so.

Im also upfront about it saying that my schedule is horrible and that I would rather make a last minute appointment pending availability than make something that I can't or don't keep.

It is my loss if i try and I can't get in and as long as I'm upfront about it there isn't much more i can do. When I do get in, I try and stay at least an hr however...

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HarloweDahl284 reads

And this is also a circumstance in which I think a private (permanent) incall would more easily facilitate last-minute guests. Ah well.  Thanks for the responses, lots of good points. :)

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nz_ca_guy227 reads

I always have problems with my schedule - but I have a few girls that I see that have an set up incall and that makes it so much easier for me.

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loveallanimals12207 reads

I once tried setting up an account where I placed a down payment when the provider needed money when I was just too busy to even make an appointment. However, when it came time to call in my prepayment service request, it just didn't happen. I paid her for her service even though she didn't even bring up the fact that I had already paid. Trust and making your appointment time goes both ways. Like the good book says, it's better to give then receive. I stopped prepaying altogether.  Maybe, you can begin on the right foot and offer a prepaid service for regulars.

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