Is that the only reasons why there are so few providers posting on this board nowadays?
Some take this to seriously and it consumes their life. Their selfish desires not only hurts the ladies but the community in general by making it a hostile environment for all. If these guys are looking for love, they should be joining match.com or eharmony and find true love. Love is not sold here, just lust by the hour.
It seems that there are some morons in this hobby that can't take no for an answer. At least a few of the girls I know have been scared off by some idiots who insists on either stalking them or insist on seeing them even when they have been put on the no-see list.
The girls told me that they have to leave town and work some place else or take an extended break because they are tired of being bothered by these guys. One girl told me that she was stalked by a client and he really scared her. Another told me that a client was "in-love" with her and got more than a little weird on her and when she asked the booker not to accept his appointment, he went bunker.
Come on guys! These girls are simply trying to make a living. I know it is hard not to fall for some of them and there may be times when true friendships are forged. But, when a girl says no she means no. She does not owe you an explanation or reason; just like a non-provider. Just move on. There are so many other girls in the business.
Don't scare off these girls who we enjoy so much just because you are a moron.
For the most part I have met amazing Gents here on TER but every now and then you get a guy who just cant take no for an answer.
I got a email the other day from a guy that was not rude by any means but I just didn't think we would click. So I told him this very kindly and he told me "I have no interest in spending time w/ u if u r weird like this. i'll spend my large disposable income elsewhere. last chance honey!"
I also, had a regular who got kinda weird and wanted to date me (For free) and I stopped seeing him...He then would make fake email accounts to try to get threw my screening process. I had to kinda go UTR to get him to stop. He still tries every now and then.
O, and then this morning I got a email from a guy who told me he thought he was whitelisted but did not give his handle...When I asked for it he was not whitelisted and I told him I need a reference from a independent provider. (All info I need is in my auto response to make it easier). But he still wanted to give me agency references. Which I say I only take Independents. Then he tries to give me Independents who only work off of phone...I only work threw email. Are last email he says "Ok, this is a pain in the ass". LOL!
My safety and comfort are never a pain in the ass!
Is that the only reasons why there are so few providers posting on this board nowadays?
Some take this to seriously and it consumes their life. Their selfish desires not only hurts the ladies but the community in general by making it a hostile environment for all. If these guys are looking for love, they should be joining match.com or eharmony and find true love. Love is not sold here, just lust by the hour.
That's funny stuff! As one fellow hobbyist once wisely told me, "Take that hour of fantasy and appreciate it. Any more time with the provider outside that hour and the fantasy turns to reality---and isn't reality what we're getting away from????"
Those sort of guys would stalk their civy g/fs also. It the same reason why online dating is such an uphill slog for guys , because ONE Douche Bag can end up driving dozens of gals off a vanilla dating site.
"If these guys are looking for love, they should be joining match.com or eharmony and find true love."
They most likely already have, and failed. Harassing the ladies here is their last ditch effort in hooking up with a real, living and breathing woman. So, their desperation causes them to stalk and become possessive.
They can't find anyone to date in the usual ways, and they're so clueless they can't even be a successful client of a provider. Most providers are very understanding an accommodating of a wide range of men, but these guys even fall outside of that group.
Two providers that I knew very well had stalkers. One moron kept showing up on this woman's front step with big bouquets of flowers, including one Sunday morning at 8:00 AM, when her 7-year old daughter was home and the neighbors were watching. Other times he did it when friends or other clients were there and he kept knocking on the door until she'd come out. She finally had to move.
Unfortunately, these guys are too clueless, or just plain mental, to ever respond to any sort of rational requests or posts on the subject, so I don't think things will change anytime soon.
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