a few other steps when doing a BBBJ or DATY,  Dont brush teeth for at least an hour before, inspect your partner prior,to me bad hygeine or anything that even looks like a bump or red ect.. is a no go, I definelty dont swallow & always promplly use lysterine after.

A shot of Vodka, Gin, Tequila, Rum or Whiskey,(anything above 90 proof) both before and after should do the trick for most.   It also provides a nice little buzz.