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amberadel See my TER Reviews 2264 reads
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1 / 23
how many people in your life know about your secret life?

The few people I told, gave me crap about it. I love this world. To me, it is very glamorous. Five star hotels, first class flights, fine dinning, rides in Ferraris. All while getting paid to get....have fun!  

Why do so many people look down upon us? If we enjoy it, screw everyone that judges.

So how many people in you life know that you either play for pay or pay for play??

XoXo

JohnLosFeliz 19 Reviews 729 reads
posted
2 / 23
A grand total of...

Three.  

1. A longtime friend.  

2 A current "associate".  

3. And a former friend.  

 
One is cool w it and always gets ripped off every time he tries.  

Two? Is a player.  Hustler. And he not only gets it but wants to hear details.  

Three? He'd be afraid to make the initial phone call much less meet a provider.  

And yea, it's hilarious the hypocrisy, misguided judgement, soapbox morality, and the ones who've looked down on me for doing so are generally living a bigger lie than I could muster

lopaw 29 Reviews 496 reads
posted
3 / 23
Zero. My secret and mine alone. Except for you people, of course -e-


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carlhungus 56 Reviews 398 reads
posted
4 / 23
Just a few.

It's just three friends and each know different levels of details.   There was one more person who knew, but he's dead.  We used to browse TER together after I discovered the site.  

None of my friends gave me crap about it.  Some had paid to play before (not regularly) and others were envious.

I can't imagine that it's glamorous for all who are in the game.  It depends on where you're at in the game.   It's good that you're enjoying yourself.

As.Good.as.It.Gets 422 reads
posted
5 / 23
None. I won't tell unless it's absolutely necessary.

I do not feel the urge to share my private life.

electech 8 Reviews 440 reads
posted
6 / 23
Pay for Play is a Taboo Subject

I have been a hobbyist and swinger off and on for over nine years.  Every single woman I have been with in the hobby has been someone who I would never have gotten the time of day from in the vanilla world.  This is an area of my life where money does buy (temporary) happiness.  I tried to share some of my experiences with coworkers, but the results were mixed.

I told several twenty something male coworkers.  They did not believe me, until I showed them my reviews and the ladies' website pictures.  They were quite impressed, but could not conceive of how they would or could participate themselves.  

I told a female coworker in her twenties that I was a swinger.  She stopped talking to me and avoided me at work.  

The best thing for me is to keep the hobby a secret.  Most people in the US are still not very open minded concerning sexuality.

Dave76015 38 Reviews 397 reads
posted
7 / 23
None. However a friend knows

my professional info and I know hers because our outside careers are complementary and can share clients in a professional environment.

Hpygolky 233 Reviews 518 reads
posted
8 / 23
My Vegas posse, which is about 5 guys knows....

I'm the one who does the intro or set up when we're there.And man, we have shit on each other that will bury us all.
It's funny in that when we meet at birthday parties or BBQ's, when we're together we're all thinking quietly to ourselves, "I know what you do, I know what you do"....lol

DNEFF 14 Reviews 411 reads
posted
9 / 23
How Many

Zero

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 356 reads
posted
10 / 23
Zero, zilch, nada. -e-


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BigPapasan 3 Reviews 478 reads
posted
11 / 23
All my friends know...but their wives don't. (E)


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CaptainRenault 464 reads
posted
12 / 23
Old saying: 'two people can keep a secret, if one of them is dead.' -e-


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velvetsinner 8 Reviews 446 reads
posted
13 / 23
Unfortunately, only one

And that person and I no longer associate with each other.  He'll never say because one time we went and did a duo session in K-Town (each with his own, 2-bedroom), but he's married and rich, terrified that he would lose half of everything if his wife found out.

It's unfortunate in some ways because I've thought about heading to TJ to do some safe exploring, but am too cautious to do it solo.  No one to watch my back.

ShillBill 274 reads
posted
14 / 23
No people, but I've told my dog. (E)


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Scorpio77 89 Reviews 360 reads
posted
15 / 23
-0-

As The late Will Rodgers once said."It is much more difficult putting the cat back in the bag than it is letting it out"

GoldieKnox See my TER Reviews 500 reads
posted
16 / 23
Anyone who is my friend knows but my family doesn't


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Related Link: http://goldieknox.com

Freya Fantasia See my TER Reviews 464 reads
posted
17 / 23
Everybody.

That's not completely true.  I don't tell my landlords or hotel staff.  

Most people are polite and curious about it.  Several ladies have considered doing it, too, after learning about it.  And I have been seriously discriminated against because of it, too.

I love the life, too.  I don't see what the big deal is for some people.  I can only try to help change public opinion one person at a time in my own life by showing people that I do this because I really want to and that I'm a fairly well-adjusted and educated person.  I could do other things but I want to do this
Related Link: http://freyasfantasies.me

Sugar-julia See my TER Reviews 444 reads
posted
18 / 23
Took a while but,

Everyone, and proud of it.

FIDCUOF 442 reads
posted
19 / 23
I agree....But..

People do judge like My boss or co-workers. I do it for different reason...they do it because they can't get laid.I do it for NO Strings attached FUN..no texts or phone calls after.  I don't want the drama of a relationship.  Paying is less of a headache

DarkGonzo 29 Reviews 438 reads
posted
20 / 23
One... sort of...

And old friend knows a bit.  No one know's all... except one girl on here.  Nice to have one person to be totally honest about it.  

Well, then there's all of you too!

-DkG
Posted By: amberadel
The few people I told, gave me crap about it. I love this world. To me, it is very glamorous. Five star hotels, first class flights, fine dinning, rides in Ferraris. All while getting paid to get....have fun!  
   
 Why do so many people look down upon us? If we enjoy it, screw everyone that judges.  
   
 So how many people in you life know that you either play for pay or pay for play??  
   
 XoXo

MissFelicityFox See my TER Reviews 481 reads
posted
21 / 23
Re: I agree....But..

Plus dating is lame :D

MissFelicityFox See my TER Reviews 411 reads
posted
22 / 23
Half ass misery

Haters

EXBCMC 17 Reviews 449 reads
posted
23 / 23
Re: Zero. My secret and mine alone. Except for you people, of course -e-

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