Los Angeles

HELP! I am being stalked and blackmailed
maxxxie 1596 reads
posted
1 / 11

LOS ANGELES PROVIDERS

I have recently encountered a very creepy, very scary stalker. I have heard from multiple different girls i work with that this man is very dangerous. i think his name is chris, he claims to work in the entertainment industry, he is showing up at my house, he is telling me he is going to take me down and ruin my life because i very politely asked him to leave since he was making me uncomfortable...he left and seemed very understanding but he is now demanding a "redo" or money back with interest. he removed the lock on my back door of my apartment and keeps texting me saying to come outside. im terrified and i dont know what to do.  

PLEASE IF ANYONE HAS ANY INFORMATION OR ADVICE...CONTACT ME ASAP....818-275-8454

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 92 reads
posted
2 / 11

the delicacy of the situation because of your work, and ask him to get you a retraining order.

 
If you don't like that answer, then move with no forwarding address except a private PO Box with forwarding service (so you never have to go to the box).

nevertoolarge 28 Reviews 84 reads
posted
3 / 11

he is already guilty of criminal trespass ..   report to police .. do you have an address or phone so they can contact him ..  
sounds like its just ego  vs someone who is truly going to physically harm you.   a phone call from the police should be sufficient    you dont have to say escort although they might find out ..  ..  sadly this is not a unique situation for the police.  

i had one girl try something similar  .. just mentioning that i had contacted the police made her disappear.    

on another note ..how come no reviews or previous posts,  new ?  

IMAWINNER 58 Reviews 82 reads
posted
4 / 11

You need to call the cops asap. They can’t arrest you for being an past escorting behavior but they sure can arrest him.  

Robertini 4 Reviews 96 reads
posted
5 / 11

Not me. I'm an angel. Maybe my face says creepy.  
Arm yourself, get a big dog, bobby trap your place, get a friend or hire a private body guard or security.  
Confront him and scared him. Maybe give him his refund or service he paid for. I always see both side of the story. We need to hear his. Hey Chris, if you are a TER Member tell us your side of the story. Of course he won't or he'll out himself.  
NO, NO, NO it's not me.  

Ok seriously,  

Go to the police, maybe.

TSPaul 45 Reviews 86 reads
posted
6 / 11

Get a Ring Camera or camera that get voice and video Installed, one that is plugged in or consistent  power source.  Then record his ass and post it to your neighborhood so all neighbors see his face. If you get him saying things to you then you can also use this to get a Restraining order pretty easily.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 88 reads
posted
7 / 11

She MAY NOT WANT her neighbors to know she's a professional escort?  Duh

Hpygolky 214 Reviews 83 reads
posted
8 / 11

Just curious...But why wouldn't you give him back his money, just to be done with this creep. Seems like nothing happened or?
And I won't lecture you on screening...that's a different topic.

peetee31 57 Reviews 64 reads
posted
9 / 11

She don't need to give that information out on Ring. Just post his face and call the man a dangerous stalker.

TheVoiceOfReason 76 reads
posted
11 / 11

How do you not know his name (you "think") his name is Chris?  Did you not screen this person?  How could you not know his real fake name?  Do you work out of your house/apartment?  If not, then how did he find out where you live?  Sounds like you need to rethink your approach to everything: screening, where to conduct business (not where you live), security, communication before and after appointment, whether to give your number out ... everything ... all of your protocols.  Stay safe and seek the counsel of experienced ladies.  Post something like this on the Providers Only Board.

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